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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 14:31

The knitted treasure has arrived at the new thread.

Unfortunately they are rather early. Luckily they are paid to wait.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 14:37

Clara has arrived to install Fawley's cat flap.

She is having to work around one security gerbils absolute refusal to move out of the way.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
MyrtleLion · 11/04/2026 16:50

I am loving the preparations for the new thread! It's so much more organised than the Bluestocking chaos during thread changes.

The security gerbils are definitely taking their work seriously.

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ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/04/2026 17:12

Talking of 'Gerbils of Distinction' (love it!), here's another of Maud's littermates. This one's Maurice.

I've left space for K&P to do her joining magic round the edge, & I hope once that's done he'll appear to be photo-bombing a normal square.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 17:24

The gerbils are being enormously helpful and Fawley is packing her toys.

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KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 17:46

Maud has already moved, she took her stash of Battenberg and apparently she has left her suitcases for me to lug over. But she is keen to welcome everyone to our new home. Bless her, you can't fault her hospitality skills.

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KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 17:50

Security are on a tea break now so not sure when the squares will actually move in, but they did finish Fawley's cat flap. If they could take her green spotty chair over she'd be very grateful.

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Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 18:01

KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 17:50

Security are on a tea break now so not sure when the squares will actually move in, but they did finish Fawley's cat flap. If they could take her green spotty chair over she'd be very grateful.

And liiiiiift.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 18:10

KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 17:46

Maud has already moved, she took her stash of Battenberg and apparently she has left her suitcases for me to lug over. But she is keen to welcome everyone to our new home. Bless her, you can't fault her hospitality skills.

She's in a sharing mood. If you're quick to the new thread kitchen you might be in time for a slice.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
AlexandraLeaving · 11/04/2026 18:39

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/04/2026 17:12

Talking of 'Gerbils of Distinction' (love it!), here's another of Maud's littermates. This one's Maurice.

I've left space for K&P to do her joining magic round the edge, & I hope once that's done he'll appear to be photo-bombing a normal square.

Perfect!

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 18:43

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/04/2026 17:12

Talking of 'Gerbils of Distinction' (love it!), here's another of Maud's littermates. This one's Maurice.

I've left space for K&P to do her joining magic round the edge, & I hope once that's done he'll appear to be photo-bombing a normal square.

Maud is going to be ecstatic when that arrives 😍

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/04/2026 18:59

AlexandraLeaving · 11/04/2026 18:39

Perfect!

I've ground to a halt embroidering gerbil faces (sooooooo liable to failure!). A cuppa will sort me out & I'll carry on again afterwards. Some ears to make, too. Sadly am having cider with dinner tonight & gerbil production would be unwise after that. It's difficult enough sober.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/04/2026 19:00

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 18:43

Maud is going to be ecstatic when that arrives 😍

She does love a family reunion.

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:02

KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 17:46

Maud has already moved, she took her stash of Battenberg and apparently she has left her suitcases for me to lug over. But she is keen to welcome everyone to our new home. Bless her, you can't fault her hospitality skills.

It'll be fine, she's only little, how many suitcases could there possibly be?

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:10

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/04/2026 18:59

I've ground to a halt embroidering gerbil faces (sooooooo liable to failure!). A cuppa will sort me out & I'll carry on again afterwards. Some ears to make, too. Sadly am having cider with dinner tonight & gerbil production would be unwise after that. It's difficult enough sober.

Just remember the anomalies make them individuals.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/04/2026 19:15

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:10

Just remember the anomalies make them individuals.

I was just looking at the last one so far & telling myself exactly that! 😂

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:19

Now the suitcases have gone there's room for the hat boxes to come down from upstairs.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 11/04/2026 19:20

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:19

Now the suitcases have gone there's room for the hat boxes to come down from upstairs.

No wonder it took Maud so long to show off all her outfits on our recent zoom call!

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:43

The first gerbil crew admitted defeat. A replacement crew are having a go.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:46

The capybaras have taken over.

A much more successful cat and chair removal is in progress

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:52

Maud is just going to have a quick check through the house to make sure it's cleared.

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:53

She's found two hidden packet of Dreamies and a wind up torch. She thinks she found Fawlys hiding spot.

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:54

And that's all she can find

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 19:54

Maud has done a thorough check, there is no hidden Battenberg left in the house so she's happy to confirm the move to the new thread has been a success.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5515620-part-2-our-blanket-making-for-lovely-waffle-heads-into-its-final-stages

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