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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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lcakethereforeIam · 09/04/2026 11:16

I'm hoping to get mine in the post today. If the PO is open🤞. If not then definitely tomorrow.

I've got the address from a previous Hug.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 09/04/2026 12:46

KnottyAndPistey · 09/04/2026 10:43

But we have treasure!!

She’s a star because we know this was so complex and she had to adapt a pattern, scale and all the things.

Cello!

💐 JE ⭐️ You rock!

thank you!

Maud was heard going "Wow" whilst inspecting JE's square.

She's not letting Fawley near it.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 09/04/2026 21:05

How do cats manage to find such weird positions comfortable?

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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Boiledbeetle · 09/04/2026 21:23

Maud's just sent me the photo from when she was attempting to take a washing the dishes selfie when she dropped her phone in the sink.

A lesson to her... don't try to multi task!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 09/04/2026 21:30

Boiledbeetle · 09/04/2026 21:23

Maud's just sent me the photo from when she was attempting to take a washing the dishes selfie when she dropped her phone in the sink.

A lesson to her... don't try to multi task!

This is adorable! Sorry Maud!

SeptemberIRemember · 09/04/2026 21:46

I have a Little Hug and some squares for lovely wafflenose to post. Do they both go to T?

KnottyAndPistey · 10/04/2026 15:50

Yes please @SeptemberIRemember 💐

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KnottyAndPistey · 10/04/2026 15:52

We have treasure!

💐 @EdithStourton ⭐️ Beautiful treasure. Absolutely glorious.

Thank you!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 10/04/2026 15:55

It’s a double day. More treasure!

💐 @lcakethereforeIam ⭐️ Absolutely wonderful knits. Gorgeous.

Thank you!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 10/04/2026 16:00

Last posting is Monday please! 🎉🎉

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Sunshineandrainbow · 10/04/2026 17:33

Posted today. Think one square is annoyingly too big so just Frisbee it somewhere!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/04/2026 17:43

Still working on them. Will post on Monday, promise!

Boiledbeetle · 10/04/2026 17:56

KnottyAndPistey · 10/04/2026 15:52

We have treasure!

💐 @EdithStourton ⭐️ Beautiful treasure. Absolutely glorious.

Thank you!

Maud's was enjoying looking at Edith's squares so much she failed to notice a certain someone sneaking up behind her.

They've momentarily called a truce as Maud just heard the ice cream van in the street.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
TheNinjaGooseIsHooking · 10/04/2026 17:56

Mine are finished just need to get them in the post

Boiledbeetle · 10/04/2026 18:27

KnottyAndPistey · 10/04/2026 15:55

It’s a double day. More treasure!

💐 @lcakethereforeIam ⭐️ Absolutely wonderful knits. Gorgeous.

Thank you!

@lcakethereforeIam Maud loves the green squares but loves the badger square more.

She keeps looking at the badger wanting to know if Dr Bessie posed for you.

Fawley too is VERY interested in the badger one

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 10/04/2026 19:04

Maud and Fawley have been having fun with @EdithStourton and @lcakethereforeIam squares today

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 10/04/2026 19:05

Boiledbeetle · 10/04/2026 19:04

Maud and Fawley have been having fun with @EdithStourton and @lcakethereforeIam squares today

Ignore this I forgot to change threads!

lcakethereforeIam · 10/04/2026 21:17

Boiledbeetle · 10/04/2026 18:27

@lcakethereforeIam Maud loves the green squares but loves the badger square more.

She keeps looking at the badger wanting to know if Dr Bessie posed for you.

Fawley too is VERY interested in the badger one

It was a bit embarrassing with Dr Bessie. She'd just watched Titanic unbeknownst to me so, when I asked if she would pose for me, she thought I wanted to knit her like one of those French badgers. I don't see it would have made any difference. She's covered in fur fgs!!! I told her it was just a head study.

I'm glad they arrived safely. And so quickly.

ChristmasStars · 10/04/2026 21:47

lcakethereforeIam · 10/04/2026 21:17

It was a bit embarrassing with Dr Bessie. She'd just watched Titanic unbeknownst to me so, when I asked if she would pose for me, she thought I wanted to knit her like one of those French badgers. I don't see it would have made any difference. She's covered in fur fgs!!! I told her it was just a head study.

I'm glad they arrived safely. And so quickly.

😄😄😄

KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 10:24

Mornio!

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KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 10:25

Will set up a Part 2 thread today so we don’t all lose each other!

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Grrrpredictivetex · 11/04/2026 10:48

Despite not contributing to this masterpiece one iota as don’t knit or crochet, I can’t tell you how excited I am to see the finished article. If you need contributions in a monetary fashion I’m happy to help. Well done everyone ❤️

Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 11:01

KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 10:25

Will set up a Part 2 thread today so we don’t all lose each other!

The gerbils have arrived to assist.

Maud wasn't expecting them and has not started packing her clothes yet, but already is worrying that the van is way too small.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 11/04/2026 11:21

I see the really important stuff is moving threads right now.

The squares are travelling to the new thread using secure transport. The gerbils are armed and are fully trained in Dreamies deployment should they come under attack from any cat burglars on their journey.

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AlexandraLeaving · 11/04/2026 11:28

Off to the post office.

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