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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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PurpleFrog · 02/03/2026 22:04

I will do some squares. I have plenty of yarn… just need to get my thinking cap on!

WitchDancer · 02/03/2026 22:20

My Condolences to Waffle and family and friends. I’m in.

I can do either the Scout ‘Gone Home’, which I think is the same for Guides, or the emblem, raised with bobbles, and some plain squares. Can I have wool please.

SeptemberIRemember · 03/03/2026 00:01

Love to Wafflenose and her family.

I’ll probably make a couple of plain coloured squares, and more if needed. Would lace be a good idea? I’ll do one with a tropical fish, too.

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ismiledather · 03/03/2026 00:18

Funny to see this thread today. I was thinking of Zombie earlier.

Littlejellyuk · 03/03/2026 00:45

This post brought me to tears. Condolences to wafflenose and her family 😔

Bearfrills · 03/03/2026 06:56

Just saw your message and popped over to say I can do some squares, I'll have a look at colours and things when I get home this afternoon.

Much love to Wafflenose and her family Flowers

ChristmasStars · 03/03/2026 07:03

I'd like to do some. Is crochet ok? I've done WH squares before in crochet but it seems like everyone is knitting on this one. Thanks.

Igneococcus · 03/03/2026 07:06

Such sad news.
I would like to do some simple squares, maybe in green, if that is ok?

ChristmasStars · 03/03/2026 07:27

If crochet is still ok I could do some cat related squares.

Myfridgeiscool · 03/03/2026 07:33

This is upsetting news. Sending love to wafflenose and family.

Happy to knit, can you send some wool please?

KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:01

Morning Brew

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:03

Here to help
@Sunshineandrainbow yes of course, please could you message you address, thank you

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:05

Of course @Yiayoula some of your beautiful herats and stars will be gorgeous in her favourite colours, thank you

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:06

@FluffandBuzz please jusr shout when you know whar you need

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:07

@WitchDancer = yes of course, is one colour better if you are doing bobbles?

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:09

@SeptemberIRemember Thank you - yes as long as its not too tooo lacy - it'll just need to hold its own in the blanket iyswim?

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:09

ismiledather · 03/03/2026 00:18

Funny to see this thread today. I was thinking of Zombie earlier.

How lucky we were to know her, she's much missed

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:10

@ChristmasStars - crochet is perfect, we need a balance and there are a mix of folk on here and I'm definitely crocheting!

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:11

Also @ChristmasStars a big yes please to cats

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:11

@Igneococcus absolutely perfect, thank you

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:12

@Myfridgeiscool absolutely - do we have the right add for you in messages?

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WitchDancer · 03/03/2026 08:12

KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:07

@WitchDancer = yes of course, is one colour better if you are doing bobbles?

Yes please. If I have a couple of colours then I can maybe do something more than just granny squares to go with it though

KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:18

@shellyleppard and @Comefromaway have messaged info about donation, thank you so much, really appreciate this.

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KnottyAndPistey · 03/03/2026 08:18

WitchDancer · 03/03/2026 08:12

Yes please. If I have a couple of colours then I can maybe do something more than just granny squares to go with it though

Perfect

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ChristmasStars · 03/03/2026 08:20

Great thanks I'll order the yarn now.

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