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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 26/03/2026 19:27

ChristmasStars · 26/03/2026 19:19

I ♥️ Maud (and Boiled Beetle) 😊

<blushes>.
I can't knit, so official social media PA of Maud it is!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 26/03/2026 20:23

Boiledbeetle · 26/03/2026 19:27

<blushes>.
I can't knit, so official social media PA of Maud it is!

Perfect! I'd be rubbish at managing Maud's social media.

bookbook · 26/03/2026 22:23

Last square . With much love in the stitches. A nod to the hoodie from the NCO

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AlexandraLeaving · 26/03/2026 23:35

bookbook · 26/03/2026 22:23

Last square . With much love in the stitches. A nod to the hoodie from the NCO

Excellent. Really important to have that one.

bookbook · 27/03/2026 07:36

AlexandraLeaving · 26/03/2026 23:35

Excellent. Really important to have that one.

It will be better when I unpick the corner and square it up . I didn't notice until I checked that the picture had uploaded .... )

Sunshineandrainbow · 27/03/2026 08:09

IoWfairy · 24/03/2026 17:28

Put Maud on alert, my squares are ready for posting!

I was very keen to do the Quantock Hills as shown in that beautiful photo. I have attempted to represent their natural beauty through the artistic medium of a woolly square. It’s come out a bit wavy (I like to think ‘hilly’), sorry @KnottyAndPistey
My ambition may have outreached my ability but if you squint……

This is beautiful 💗

AlexandraLeaving · 27/03/2026 08:20

ChristmasStars · 26/03/2026 19:19

I ♥️ Maud (and Boiled Beetle) 😊

Totally agree. Even my husband is impressed to see squares being admired by Maud The Gerbil. Boily's cheerleading and gerbil PA duties really help the knitting process.

KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 08:45

bookbook · 26/03/2026 22:23

Last square . With much love in the stitches. A nod to the hoodie from the NCO

Huge congrats on that square @bookbook Thsnk you got working it out. That’s fantastic. Thank you!

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KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 08:46

Would you bloody well believe it.

my balloon!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 10:38

Maud is sitting on the doormat. Waiting for the postie. Always hope in her heart.

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KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 10:39

Fawley keeps taking snacks. It’s hungry work, waiting. And hoping.

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KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 10:40

No one mention to Fawley she’s has her annual check up and jabs at the V E T later

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Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 10:47

KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 10:40

No one mention to Fawley she’s has her annual check up and jabs at the V E T later

Unfortunately Maud didn't get the memo. She's already dragged the cat carrier out of the shed.

I think Fawley has clocked it.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 10:53

Maud is currently trying to persuade Fawley there is nothing to fear from the carrier

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 10:54

Fawley is hoping @KnottyAndPistey won't notice the wrong animal is in the carrier until arrival at the vets!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 27/03/2026 11:09

Oh no! Free the Bluestocking One!

KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 12:05

Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 10:54

Fawley is hoping @KnottyAndPistey won't notice the wrong animal is in the carrier until arrival at the vets!

Hahaha!!!!!

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KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 12:06

We have treasure!

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KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 12:09

Beautiful treasure arriving this morning! Superb

💐 @IoWfairy ⭐️ Absolutely gorgeous. Love the Quantock Hills inspired square. All so beautiful.

Thank you so much.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 12:36

The post arriving allowed Maud to turn the tables on Fawley.

Maud is trying to contain the "ooh post" squeaks.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 12:38

KnottyAndPistey · 27/03/2026 12:09

Beautiful treasure arriving this morning! Superb

💐 @IoWfairy ⭐️ Absolutely gorgeous. Love the Quantock Hills inspired square. All so beautiful.

Thank you so much.

Maud is currently enjoying admiring the craftsmanship and beauty of @IoWfairy squares, safe in the knowledge Fawley can't currently run in and nab one.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
IoWfairy · 27/03/2026 18:59

It’s reassuring to know that they’re in safe hands/paws?!
Thank you @KnottyAndPistey and @Boiledbeetle 😁

Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 19:51

IoWfairy · 27/03/2026 18:59

It’s reassuring to know that they’re in safe hands/paws?!
Thank you @KnottyAndPistey and @Boiledbeetle 😁

She had her 'hands' gloves on.

She removed them for the next photo!

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Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 21:06

Maud and Fawley are off out to do some night fishing.

Ignore the fact it looks like daylight outside, that's the new security lights at number 30!

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Boiledbeetle · 27/03/2026 21:38

Fawley is optimistic she's having a fish supper.

Maud doesn't dare tell her she has no idea what's she's doing as she's never been fishing before. She just thought she'd look good in the fishing gear outfit!

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