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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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ChristmasStars · 24/03/2026 22:59

Boiledbeetle · 24/03/2026 18:14

I don't know about you, but I'm living vicariously through her!

So much!

ChristmasStars · 24/03/2026 23:03

Boiledbeetle · 24/03/2026 18:11

Wow! 😍. That's stunning.

Maud is currently laughing at her own joke

Awww I'm laughing at her laughing.

AlexandraLeaving · 25/03/2026 11:59

IoWfairy · 24/03/2026 17:28

Put Maud on alert, my squares are ready for posting!

I was very keen to do the Quantock Hills as shown in that beautiful photo. I have attempted to represent their natural beauty through the artistic medium of a woolly square. It’s come out a bit wavy (I like to think ‘hilly’), sorry @KnottyAndPistey
My ambition may have outreached my ability but if you squint……

Beautiful and atmospheric!! Brava!

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AlexandraLeaving · 25/03/2026 12:09

I have been working on these four off and on for a week while but have finally finished them. They’re particularly nerdy, but I think waffle will understand them. The three pink ones represent the pieces Rara played for her grade eight clarinet exam last year (first movement of Wratny’s concerto, fourth movement of the Lyons sonata and andante semplice by Dubois) and the green one is the opening of Elgar’s cello concerto, which was played at the start of the funeral and with which Rara would have been familiar. I hope the tighter middle section does not make it too hard to squish them into shape K&P…They’re a bit lopsided but love in every stitch and all that.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 25/03/2026 12:12

AlexandraLeaving · 25/03/2026 12:09

I have been working on these four off and on for a week while but have finally finished them. They’re particularly nerdy, but I think waffle will understand them. The three pink ones represent the pieces Rara played for her grade eight clarinet exam last year (first movement of Wratny’s concerto, fourth movement of the Lyons sonata and andante semplice by Dubois) and the green one is the opening of Elgar’s cello concerto, which was played at the start of the funeral and with which Rara would have been familiar. I hope the tighter middle section does not make it too hard to squish them into shape K&P…They’re a bit lopsided but love in every stitch and all that.

Good grief @AlexandraLeaving I am lost for words and totally in AWE

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MyrtleLion · 25/03/2026 12:37

KnottyAndPistey · 25/03/2026 12:12

Good grief @AlexandraLeaving I am lost for words and totally in AWE

I couldn't agree more. @AlexandraLeaving, your pieces are so beautiful. So much technical work in them!

bookbook · 25/03/2026 13:48

True skilled craftmanshop @AlexandraLeaving ! I am painfully behind with my squares . Life has got in the way , but cracking on as best I can 😊

bookbook · 25/03/2026 13:49

craftmanship 🙄

ifIwerenotanandroid · 25/03/2026 14:39

Utterly amazing, Alexandra!😍

Llttledrummergirls · 25/03/2026 14:53

Those are amazing. The detail is incredible.

EdithStourton · 25/03/2026 16:03

Those are incredible, @AlexandraLeaving

AlexandraLeaving · 25/03/2026 16:30

Thanks for the kind words. The level of detail is in direct proportion to the level of neglect for other areas of my life at the moment. I leave a trail of devastation in my wake (along with little bits of snipped-off wool) and my poor husband tries to minimise the chaos. I'll keep going with other squares but am relieved to have done those four and feel the others will be less emotionally demanding.

Boiledbeetle · 25/03/2026 17:50

@AlexandraLeaving I share Maud's look of amazement. 😍

Not to throw shade on any of the other squares but Maud is REALLY excited about seeing those for real when they arrive.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Yiayoula · 25/03/2026 17:52

@AlexandraLeaving - 🩷 absolutely beautiful - and so poignant .
I may have something in my eye….

Karistyleaftea · 25/03/2026 18:20

@AlexandraLeaving I am in awe , they are really lovely, how talented you are.

Ihad2Strokes · 25/03/2026 18:39

So many beautiful squares & the woolwarehouse deliveries are making me envious! I still haven't attempted knitting/crochet since the stroke as I'm pretty sure it won't be possible but I'm afraid of finding out 100%, while there's hope..🙄

it's going to be an incredibly beautiful blanket!

Great to see Maude again!!🤗

@AlexandraLeaving they are really incredible squares & made with such love 💕

bookbook · 25/03/2026 20:50

with much love in the stitches.
( I had planned on putting Charlotte Bronte on too, but I tried and it didnt look right so left it off )
one more square to go

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 25/03/2026 20:51

Maud and Fawley are having a mad half hour before bed.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
AlexandraLeaving · 26/03/2026 08:35

bookbook · 25/03/2026 20:50

with much love in the stitches.
( I had planned on putting Charlotte Bronte on too, but I tried and it didnt look right so left it off )
one more square to go

Perfect - just perfect.

KnottyAndPistey · 26/03/2026 18:09

@book ok that is just superb!

Evening folks. It’s time again for those zoomies from Maud and Fawley. Bonkers.

No treasure arriving but I’ve nearly finished a second square. Still can’t find that pink balloon….

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KnottyAndPistey · 26/03/2026 18:10

@bookbook soz. I’ve probably tagged the wrong person there. 🤭

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ChristmasStars · 26/03/2026 18:13

I posted my squares yesterday. It was nearly two quid cheaper second class so I'm afraid I did that or you'd have had them today! Hopefully tomorrow. I so much want a photo of Maud looking at mine! I would probs print it out and frame it 🤣 I hope @Boiledbeetle sees this!

Boiledbeetle · 26/03/2026 18:38

ChristmasStars · 26/03/2026 18:13

I posted my squares yesterday. It was nearly two quid cheaper second class so I'm afraid I did that or you'd have had them today! Hopefully tomorrow. I so much want a photo of Maud looking at mine! I would probs print it out and frame it 🤣 I hope @Boiledbeetle sees this!

She's currently making do with just looking at them on the computer!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 26/03/2026 18:51

KnottyAndPistey · 26/03/2026 18:09

@book ok that is just superb!

Evening folks. It’s time again for those zoomies from Maud and Fawley. Bonkers.

No treasure arriving but I’ve nearly finished a second square. Still can’t find that pink balloon….

It's under the sofa.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 26/03/2026 19:19

Boiledbeetle · 26/03/2026 18:38

She's currently making do with just looking at them on the computer!

I ♥️ Maud (and Boiled Beetle) 😊

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