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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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ChristmasStars · 11/03/2026 07:40

Who are we to disobey? Except I do really need to actually go to work first. Will be back on the yarn later.

Igneococcus · 11/03/2026 08:28

I would do some knitting at lunch but my wool shipment has gone missing. Evri says delivered on Monday but there is no sign of it. I have some suitable green that I was going to knit some mittens for dd with but given that it's March the mittens can wait.

EdithStourton · 11/03/2026 08:33

I've got going. I had enough Yarnsmiths in my stash....

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Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 09:17

Maud is on her way round to you all with tea and biscuits.

She said you'll have to get your own lunchs though as she's got dress rehearsals for the gerbils next theatrical masterpiece.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
FluffandBuzz · 11/03/2026 09:35

Mine are done and ready to be posted tomorrow. I know the cat is quite a lot of charcoal grey, rather than just an accent but I'm hoping it's ok. There weren't many cat colours in the main pallet (I did think about doing an Alice in Wonderland style pink one!)

It's lovely to be able to take part

FluffandBuzz · 11/03/2026 09:41

I don't know if the picture worked... Trying again

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
MyrtleLion · 11/03/2026 10:11

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:05

I meant your lovely blanket!

Oh, bless you! Thank you! I've agreed to post the treasure to my BFF as it's quite a haul to take to a committee meeting in London before I see her today. I sent her pictures and she sent them to her daughter who is very excited to get everything.

I will take the bunny booties with me when I see her today, though.

MyrtleLion · 11/03/2026 10:19

Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 09:17

Maud is on her way round to you all with tea and biscuits.

She said you'll have to get your own lunchs though as she's got dress rehearsals for the gerbils next theatrical masterpiece.

Edited

A staging of Pride and Prejudice? Is this production imminent?

Maud's cousin, Grünhilde arrived to supervise the Bluestocking gerbils while Maud is at KnottyandPistey's and she may need due warning of the impending chaos of a gerbil theatrical extravaganza.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 10:26

FluffandBuzz · 11/03/2026 09:41

I don't know if the picture worked... Trying again

😻

Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 10:29

MyrtleLion · 11/03/2026 10:19

A staging of Pride and Prejudice? Is this production imminent?

Maud's cousin, Grünhilde arrived to supervise the Bluestocking gerbils while Maud is at KnottyandPistey's and she may need due warning of the impending chaos of a gerbil theatrical extravaganza.

I believe so. They've not done much over the winter and as all the theatrical stuff needs pulling out and spring cleaning it seemed a good time for a play!

You'd better warn Grünhilde!

🎭

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/03/2026 11:19

Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 09:17

Maud is on her way round to you all with tea and biscuits.

She said you'll have to get your own lunchs though as she's got dress rehearsals for the gerbils next theatrical masterpiece.

Edited

That wig is stunning on her!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/03/2026 11:19

FluffandBuzz · 11/03/2026 09:41

I don't know if the picture worked... Trying again

Looooove the cat & the badger!

Igneococcus · 11/03/2026 12:06

MyrtleLion · 11/03/2026 10:19

A staging of Pride and Prejudice? Is this production imminent?

Maud's cousin, Grünhilde arrived to supervise the Bluestocking gerbils while Maud is at KnottyandPistey's and she may need due warning of the impending chaos of a gerbil theatrical extravaganza.

As fas as I know Grünhilde is named after Gustav Gründgens (Gustav was already used for one of her older brothers when she was born) which tells us she is from a very theatrical family. A stage production of P&P will be right up her alley.

MyrtleLion · 11/03/2026 13:03

Igneococcus · 11/03/2026 12:06

As fas as I know Grünhilde is named after Gustav Gründgens (Gustav was already used for one of her older brothers when she was born) which tells us she is from a very theatrical family. A stage production of P&P will be right up her alley.

That's great to hear. I do hope it doesn't mean some of their, how can I put this delicately, chaos whimsy, is lost...

Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 13:39

I didn't realise Maud had taken more than one breakfast selfie this morning! I've just gone to get a different image and found all these!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Bearfrills · 11/03/2026 15:01

I mean, she is exceptionally photogenic...

Bearfrills · 11/03/2026 15:03

I've been busy gallivanting today but DH is at nerd club tonight so I'll be back on the wool undisturbed once I get Bearcub to bed.

inkymoose · 11/03/2026 15:21

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:07

Literally went to stare at her feet obvs

Yes that's what I did immediately, too 🫢

AlexandraLeaving · 11/03/2026 15:23

FluffandBuzz · 11/03/2026 09:41

I don't know if the picture worked... Trying again

The cat is fab, but the badger is divine!!

KnottyAndPistey · 11/03/2026 15:24

She’s the busiest gerbil I know. That’s for sure. 😍

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KnottyAndPistey · 11/03/2026 15:25

Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 07:36

She most certainly does!

And right now she wants everyone up and knitting!

Tea and toast anyone?

You see why I miss her so much when she goes 😭😭😭

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KnottyAndPistey · 11/03/2026 15:28

Well. The prize goes to

💐 @SpiralArchitect Fot getting squares here first. And such beautiful squares they are too. ⭐️.

Gorgeous! Thank you so much. 💐

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 11/03/2026 15:30

I’m hoping Maud won’t miss being in the production by being here though? She’s always loved a bonnet.

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Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 16:22

KnottyAndPistey · 11/03/2026 15:30

I’m hoping Maud won’t miss being in the production by being here though? She’s always loved a bonnet.

She's going to be multi tasking for a few days, but the play goes on. I believe she's bought you front row seats for the first show.

Dress rehearsal went well. Gosie is driving everyone nuts with her constantly squeaking at them through the megaphone and Gubbins turned up to try once again to persuade them that the show really needed a gerbil on triangle.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
AlexandraLeaving · 11/03/2026 16:56

I actually DO need a gerbil on triangle at the moment, so send Gubbins my way.

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