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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Igneococcus · 11/03/2026 17:05

My yarn has arrived. Courier had put it into the bike store and it had slipped between two bicycles.
I'm going dancing tonight but tomorrow I will start on some of those important simple squares to set off all those beautiful more elaborate ones :)
If only I could remember how many stitches I did last time.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 19:07

Maud apologises that tea is late @KnottyAndPistey . The queue for the drive thru was insane

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
SpiralArchitect · 11/03/2026 19:38

I don't think I've ever been first to get my squares to WoollyHQ in all the years I've been doing this! <preens>
As I said: uncharacteristic burst of efficiency 😊

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ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/03/2026 19:49

SpiralArchitect · 11/03/2026 19:38

I don't think I've ever been first to get my squares to WoollyHQ in all the years I've been doing this! <preens>
As I said: uncharacteristic burst of efficiency 😊

The colour combos were beautiful.

Bearfrills · 11/03/2026 20:47

KnottyAndPistey · 11/03/2026 15:28

Well. The prize goes to

💐 @SpiralArchitect Fot getting squares here first. And such beautiful squares they are too. ⭐️.

Gorgeous! Thank you so much. 💐

@SpiralArchitect setting the bar so high, they're beautiful.

Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 21:41

SpiralArchitect · 11/03/2026 19:38

I don't think I've ever been first to get my squares to WoollyHQ in all the years I've been doing this! <preens>
As I said: uncharacteristic burst of efficiency 😊

Maud is very impressed!

Fawley is busy doing what cats do when a camera is pointed in their direction! How cats get their legs like that is beyond me!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
MyrtleLion · 11/03/2026 22:11

Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 19:07

Maud apologises that tea is late @KnottyAndPistey . The queue for the drive thru was insane

Given Maud’s recent workload with theatre rehearsals, knitting mobilisation, cat management, and swimming-costume design consultancy, I think we can allow the occasional fast-food interlude.

And now she has quality control knitting approval. She really is busy.

KnottyAndPistey · 12/03/2026 10:10

Morning. @FluffandBuzz thise are beautiful! Apologies. Thought I had said. Just wow!

morning everyone.

letting Maud sleep in. So everyone tiptoe….

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KnottyAndPistey · 12/03/2026 10:10

Sssssssssshhhhhh

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KnottyAndPistey · 12/03/2026 10:12

If there were more gerbils on triangles, the world would be a happier place.

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PrizedPickledPopcorn · 12/03/2026 10:16

I do love all the outfits. It reminds me strongly of those paper fashion dolls.

Boiledbeetle · 12/03/2026 10:17

KnottyAndPistey · 12/03/2026 10:10

Morning. @FluffandBuzz thise are beautiful! Apologies. Thought I had said. Just wow!

morning everyone.

letting Maud sleep in. So everyone tiptoe….

She's snoring quite loudly isn't she!

If she's not up by lunch time I can get Gubbins and her classmates to all come round with triangles!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 12/03/2026 10:24

Turns out Fawley regularly tries to wake Maud!

How she sleeps through it is beyond me.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
PrizedPickledPopcorn · 12/03/2026 10:40

Boiledbeetle · 12/03/2026 10:24

Turns out Fawley regularly tries to wake Maud!

How she sleeps through it is beyond me.

Many years ago, my lovely cat used to delicately insert one claw into my nostril, if I didn’t response to her initial nudges. Most effective 😬

Boiledbeetle · 12/03/2026 10:51

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 12/03/2026 10:40

Many years ago, my lovely cat used to delicately insert one claw into my nostril, if I didn’t response to her initial nudges. Most effective 😬

Bless her!

Mine used to delicately try to open my eyelid, these days he just sinks a claw into my cheek.

Boiledbeetle · 12/03/2026 11:40

Maud has finally got up. I suspect she's not going to get much done today.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
bookbook · 12/03/2026 11:48

Karistyleaftea · 10/03/2026 20:33

@KnottyAndPistey Please could I have the address to post them to? Thank you.
I should be ready to mail them on thursday and in the pic I posted earlier, they do look more lilac than pink although it is the Drops pink. I'm going to try the Yarnsmith's merino sometime, sounds like it works up so well.

Have messaged you !

TheNinjaGooseIsHooking · 12/03/2026 11:50

Lovely woolly wool has arrived! Thank you to my lovely donor 💐

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 12/03/2026 12:22

Maud has decided she is having a duvet day.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Yiayoula · 12/03/2026 13:40

Looks like Fawley has other ideas ……

bookbook · 12/03/2026 13:40

With much love in the stitches .

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
bookbook · 12/03/2026 13:56

not quiye sure why it has cropped the photo ....

Boiledbeetle · 12/03/2026 14:03

bookbook · 12/03/2026 13:56

not quiye sure why it has cropped the photo ....

It's all there in all its glorious magnificence if the image is clicked on.

Stunning 😍

Boiledbeetle · 12/03/2026 14:09

Yiayoula · 12/03/2026 13:40

Looks like Fawley has other ideas ……

Fawley is currently having a ball!

Maud has snored her way through the chaos.

I suspect the sudden change in weather from spring to late autumn has confused her system.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
AlexandraLeaving · 12/03/2026 16:22

bookbook · 12/03/2026 13:40

With much love in the stitches .

Perfection. Brought a bit of a tear to my eye. Really wonderful.

Not that all the other squares aren't also wonderful - but things that capture Rara's personality are particularly special.

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