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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 16:19

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 15:54

I went swimming at lunchtime, thought Maud might like to give it a whirl, crocheted her a COSSIE AND EVERYTHING. But she stood poolside and decided her talents lay elsewhere

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She keeps muttering about the effect chlorine has on how her fur smells. But she loves the swimming costume.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/03/2026 16:20

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 15:54

I went swimming at lunchtime, thought Maud might like to give it a whirl, crocheted her a COSSIE AND EVERYTHING. But she stood poolside and decided her talents lay elsewhere

Edited

I think the crocheted armbands may have been a step too far.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/03/2026 16:22

Great minds, Boily! I asked the AI for water wings & armbands, but it had no idea.

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Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 16:23

ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/03/2026 16:22

Great minds, Boily! I asked the AI for water wings & armbands, but it had no idea.

Mine managed armbands. Just don't look at her feet!!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/03/2026 16:25

Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 16:23

Mine managed armbands. Just don't look at her feet!!

And where's her tail? OMG, is she becoming human?

Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 16:28

ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/03/2026 16:25

And where's her tail? OMG, is she becoming human?

I assumed @KnottyAndPistey had crocheted her a pouch at the back to tuck it into!

ChristmasStars · 10/03/2026 16:35

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 15:49

Beautiful treasure @ChristmasStars 💐

Thank you. Did you see my PM?

MyrtleLion · 10/03/2026 17:24

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 15:20

Beautifully done @MyrtleLion you are flying!

Not me, I'm afraid, @ChristmasStars. She couldn't post pictures so I agreed to post on her behalf. They are lovely squares.

I was partway through the E and the wrong intarsia strand was pulled across. I mucked up the fix (should have just tinked back) and had to frog it back.

I will try again soon - job interview today so I'm behind.

Karistyleaftea · 10/03/2026 19:44

3 done, one to go.

Karistyleaftea · 10/03/2026 19:45

Pic here.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:04

ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/03/2026 16:22

Great minds, Boily! I asked the AI for water wings & armbands, but it had no idea.

Surely this is legitimate photo though? What's this AI bisnuiess of which you speak?

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KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:04

I saw the typo there and I thought - I will just leave that 😅

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KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:05

MyrtleLion · 10/03/2026 17:24

Not me, I'm afraid, @ChristmasStars. She couldn't post pictures so I agreed to post on her behalf. They are lovely squares.

I was partway through the E and the wrong intarsia strand was pulled across. I mucked up the fix (should have just tinked back) and had to frog it back.

I will try again soon - job interview today so I'm behind.

I meant your lovely blanket!

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KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:06

Beautiful treasure there @Babsandherwabs and @Karistyleaftea 💐

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KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:07

Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 16:23

Mine managed armbands. Just don't look at her feet!!

Literally went to stare at her feet obvs

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KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:07

Yes the crocheted armbands could have acted as bricks, still, we will never know

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Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 20:10

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:07

Yes the crocheted armbands could have acted as bricks, still, we will never know

I once made the mistake in my younger thinner days of buying a bikini that was a crocheted design. I had to climb back out of the pool holding on to the bottom half whilst trying to stop the wet weight of them pulling them to my ankles!

Karistyleaftea · 10/03/2026 20:33

@KnottyAndPistey Please could I have the address to post them to? Thank you.
I should be ready to mail them on thursday and in the pic I posted earlier, they do look more lilac than pink although it is the Drops pink. I'm going to try the Yarnsmith's merino sometime, sounds like it works up so well.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 10/03/2026 21:42

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:04

Surely this is legitimate photo though? What's this AI bisnuiess of which you speak?

Slip of the tongue. 😬

Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 21:59

KnottyAndPistey · 10/03/2026 20:04

Surely this is legitimate photo though? What's this AI bisnuiess of which you speak?

AI is just shorthand for camera filters.

Of course all photos of Maud are real!

Maud is real!

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 10/03/2026 22:10

Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 20:10

I once made the mistake in my younger thinner days of buying a bikini that was a crocheted design. I had to climb back out of the pool holding on to the bottom half whilst trying to stop the wet weight of them pulling them to my ankles!

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My first thought on seeing Maud was of a similar experience I had. I’m so pleased she didn’t actually get in, or she’d have been rather exposed!

I love the crocheted ones. Must get back into crochet. I have some projects lined up.

Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 22:11

Talking of Maud. She had a very early night today, it was still daylight. She also somehow persuaded Fawley to go with her.

I imagine normal early morning tea and toast will resume tomorrow.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Llttledrummergirls · 10/03/2026 23:26

Can you pass me over the address for postage please. Hopefully I should be able to post on the weekend.

ChristmasStars · 11/03/2026 06:15

Boiledbeetle · 10/03/2026 22:11

Talking of Maud. She had a very early night today, it was still daylight. She also somehow persuaded Fawley to go with her.

I imagine normal early morning tea and toast will resume tomorrow.

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Maud is a girl who knows what she wants.

Boiledbeetle · 11/03/2026 07:36

ChristmasStars · 11/03/2026 06:15

Maud is a girl who knows what she wants.

She most certainly does!

And right now she wants everyone up and knitting!

Tea and toast anyone?

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