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Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 35: Calmly through the day

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/01/2026 00:25

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A quiet and friendly corner of MN to share the very dull day to day happenings of our lives. No criticisms, political discussions or controversies here - unless it is along the lines of "scone" v "scahn" and jam or cream first. Then it's gloves off! 😁

How did this start? I have found v.2, but not the original:

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MyrtleLion · 06/03/2026 12:28

You're really in the trenches, Havoc. I hope everyone gets better very quickly.

Hairdresser today. Saw my DM yesterday and had a lovely lunch at a garden centre. My fourth garden centre since Sunday.

Umanresources · 06/03/2026 16:39

Oh poor you Havoc you are having some problems with all your health. I hope you all recover soon. Good idea to keep the old sheets and towels for this type of emergency.
I had yet another nurse today. She is going to order me some more dressings, even though every nurse has said my legs are so much better. They are still bandaged from knee to toes, so I still can’t go out yet. It’s a bit dull today so I’m not that bothered. I still haven’t finished my painting yet, but I did play a game with my daughter yesterday, which was fun.
Just had lunch, which was a lovely seafood and salad sandwich and DD is making chicken salad for tea tonight.
I keep forgetting that today is Friday, it just feels like a Saturday.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 07/03/2026 17:53

It's on-going here. 😫
Havoc started 🤮 last night again around 10pm which lasted about two hours. Then I had to clean the floor, rug and couch and wash up before getting into bed. Couldn't sleep and was awake til 5am. 😫
It all happened again this morning with Baby, except other couch and other end of rug. 😩

I'm going to have to rent a shampooer when this is all done.

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sproutsandparsnips · 07/03/2026 21:45

Sending positive thoughts to you @Mumtobabyhavoc- this too will pass.
Glad you are having your respiratory issues sorted @bizzey
sounds like a lovely and productive weekend @MrsSPenguins
I do love a sandwich @Umanresources
I also like a garden centre @MyrtleLion!
Relaxing weekend so far for me - two nice walks. Watched Wales last night, massive improvement thank goodness. Watched the other games today, well done Scotland and Italy - DS1 is happy as second in his fantasy rugby group!
Was supposed to be cooking for DS2 youth team but no referee so game called off hence chilled day.
DS2 U16 playing tomorrow but otherwise quiet day again tomorrow after church and rugby.

MrsSPenguins · 07/03/2026 22:55

Hope you are all better quickly @Mumtobabyhavoc

Sounds like a nice weekend @sproutsandparsnips

Mumtobabyhavoc · 08/03/2026 00:18

Thanks everyone 💛
I managed to get the dc to nap for a couple hours. We all had quiet time, actually.
I scrolled. 🙄
Baby woke up, came into my room, put sad little head on bed and said, I'm sick, mummy. 😥 And another round of V ensued.😩😩😩

They've both now had a bit of plain pasta with butter and some water and are playing. ✅

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MissConductUS · 08/03/2026 14:46

Havoc, I think you're going to have to move house and burn all of your clothes to get rid of this virus. I am surprised that the kids are still suffering from it. Stomach viruses usually resolve fairly quickly.

Sprouts, it's nice that you got the day off from cooking for the team. It must cost a fortune to prepare so much food for the kids. Does the team reimburse you for any of the costs?

DS is staying with us for the weekend, which is lovely. He likes his new job. We've had some rain and warmer temperatures, which has melted a lot of the snow, but there are still snow piles around the driveway and walk.

We're seeing bird activity pick up on the feeder. I saw this juvenile woodpecker yesterday. He's tiny compared to a full-grown woodpecker, so he must have recently left the nest. We have a lot of them in the woods around our house. I found the cat staring at me with one eye a bit sinister.😁

Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 35: Calmly through the day
Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 35: Calmly through the day
Mumtobabyhavoc · 08/03/2026 15:23

Miss, the V&D can last up to three days, apparently. Havoc didn't vomit yesterday, 🙏, but did for just over 72 hours; it will be 72 hours for Baby tonight, so hoping we're at the end now. There were two rounds of it last night, but Baby slept through the night and had a decently wet diaper this morning.

I think it's going to be quite a while until your snow is gone.

I've been up for an hour and just noticed the wind has blown most of the clouds away. It has been raining since at least Tuesday night when I took Havoc to hospital. It has been a long week.

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ACatAsleepInYourHat · 08/03/2026 16:03

I did some shopping in Tesco earlier on, and treated myself to a small variety pack of Isle of Man Creamery cheeses. I’m very much looking forward to breaking out the nice sea salt crackers and channelling my inner Wallace.(No Gromit, sadly, only cats in this house.) Ooh, I do like a bit of Red Leicester…

MrsSPenguins · 08/03/2026 19:07

Hope its all over for you soon @Mumtobabyhavoc

Lovely to have your DS home @MissConductUS

Being married to a Frenchman we have a lot of cheese in this house. Hope you enjoy it @ACatAsleepInYourHat

Hope everyone has had a good weekend. We did the garden today - nearly 4 hours out there and got the final garden path 2/3rds done so just one more time for that, probably next Sunday. Pick DD up from university on Saturday and she is home for a whole 2 days before 3 rowing camps start. She's got herself jobs as rowing coaches so gets paid to go to 2 of the camps. Silkies came with us. I was also preparing for lawn seed, think we will try lawn seed first and if fails go to turf. There were so many lovely bulbs out today - daffodils, white hyacinths, pink hyacinths, red tulips, blue iris etc. Received notification my Emirates flight will be refunded in full, nothing for DHs flight yet which I applied for earlier than mine but hopefully will hear about that one soon.

dizzydizzydizzy · 08/03/2026 19:59

I bleached the mould on the grouting in the bathroom. I used an old toothbrush to apply it. I didn’t eliminate all of it but it looks much better.

Umanresources · 08/03/2026 22:42

@Mumtobabyhavoc Hopefully you are now at the end of the sickness by now.

We had sausages tonight, but I’m sure they were off, I wasn’t convinced by the taste, so OH and I just had baked potato and spinach. I was worried about spending rest of the weekend throwing up.

Good that you got your flight refund @MrsSPenguins. Your garden sounds lovely. I’ve not been able to get out into my garden this year yet, but I’m hopeful!

MyrtleLion · 08/03/2026 23:44

Applied for a couple of jobs today. One day I'll get one!

Consulting meeting tomorrow.

mathanxiety · 09/03/2026 04:06

havoc I sincerely hope you'll all turn the corner soon. Do you have a can of lysol spray to disinfect all the surfaces that are frequently touched?

Penguins good news of the refund.

MissC lovely to have your DS visiting.

My own DS will be in town next weekend.

There's a lot of extra traffic on the street outside these days, as a section of the local main street has been dug up for 'street improvements'. So far it just looks like a big deterioration.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 09/03/2026 18:03

Math, yes, Lysol, but also bleach cleaning bathroom after V or D and washing all sheets and towels with bleach.
Baby vomited twice last night after going to sleep. It's now 72hs since start of that for Baby so hoping it's done. Both dc have low appetites but are drinking water, which is good.
My mum was a bit confused at waking, seems she forgot she's sick and thought she was having an issue with her Crohn's. I'll have to watch her closely.

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MrsSPenguins · 09/03/2026 18:38

Hope it's all over soon @Mumtobabyhavoc

Thanks @Umanresources I hope you can get out to enjoy your garden soon.

Thanks @mathanxiety Enjoy having DS home.

It's hard to get grout completely clear @dizzydizzydizzy I did see grout pens but not tried one yet.

Hope you can get a job soon @MyrtleLion

DH and I both ached a lot after the gardening, not sure if we just overdid it as it was nearly 4 hours of carrying things and digging or DH thinks we have flu as well. DH has been saying he has flu to anyone who will listen past few days. I thought it was just from gardening but not sure now. Not had a bug for a few years though. Maybe a combination. Both taking painkillers every 4 hours. We don't need to garden again until Sunday luckily so should be better by then. DH will go to pick up DD from university on Saturday and we do have 200 litres of compost being delivered on Wednesday need to move to back garden but not too bad. Garden looks good and good exercise. Continuing to try and get the flight refunds, nothing back yet but one ticket is being refunded in full. I have to do 11 forms in total as seat bookings are separate. It looks hopeful but will take a bit of time but lucky they are being refunded.
Just having soup tonight as slightly sore throat.

dizzydizzydizzy · 09/03/2026 19:13

MrsSPenguins · 09/03/2026 18:38

Hope it's all over soon @Mumtobabyhavoc

Thanks @Umanresources I hope you can get out to enjoy your garden soon.

Thanks @mathanxiety Enjoy having DS home.

It's hard to get grout completely clear @dizzydizzydizzy I did see grout pens but not tried one yet.

Hope you can get a job soon @MyrtleLion

DH and I both ached a lot after the gardening, not sure if we just overdid it as it was nearly 4 hours of carrying things and digging or DH thinks we have flu as well. DH has been saying he has flu to anyone who will listen past few days. I thought it was just from gardening but not sure now. Not had a bug for a few years though. Maybe a combination. Both taking painkillers every 4 hours. We don't need to garden again until Sunday luckily so should be better by then. DH will go to pick up DD from university on Saturday and we do have 200 litres of compost being delivered on Wednesday need to move to back garden but not too bad. Garden looks good and good exercise. Continuing to try and get the flight refunds, nothing back yet but one ticket is being refunded in full. I have to do 11 forms in total as seat bookings are separate. It looks hopeful but will take a bit of time but lucky they are being refunded.
Just having soup tonight as slightly sore throat.

Hope you feel better soon!

MyrtleLion · 09/03/2026 19:20

My consulting went well so I'm definitely on the right track with the roles I'm applying for. Job interview tomorrow.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 09/03/2026 19:33

Penguins, hope you both aren't coming down with anything. Make sure you stay well-hydrated. 💐
Myrtle, it sounds so tough finding work. Are you in a niche field?

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sproutsandparsnips · 09/03/2026 20:57

Sorry to hear all still under the weather @Mumtobabyhavoc and hope you dodge any illness @MrsSPenguins
@MissConductUSI actually cook for both senior teams and the youth side depending on who is at home and my availability. I do get reimbursed for all ingredients. It’s just my time I give for free which of course is part and parcel of volunteering.
DS2 play for youth and U16 and DS1 when he is home from university sometimes plays for the senior athletic team which is essentially our second team.
DH is coming back from Ireland later having been on his annual trip to drink Guinness and watch Wales v Ireland on TV. He is 50 tomorrow so we will go for lunch then he is going over to the rugby club for weekly committee meeting and they are laying on a buffet so I will go over too and take the cake I’ve started to make (made the cake need to ice tomorrow.) We are going to the Cotswolds later in the month to celebrate.

MyrtleLion · 09/03/2026 21:39

Mumtobabyhavoc · 09/03/2026 19:33

Penguins, hope you both aren't coming down with anything. Make sure you stay well-hydrated. 💐
Myrtle, it sounds so tough finding work. Are you in a niche field?

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I work in a particular section of the charity sector at a senior level and there just aren't the roles. I last worked for a small charity with fewer than 10 staff and I want to step up to one with 15-50 staff. But when I go for roles I am told I don't have experience at that scale or in the specific section.

It's not health, but it's a bit like saying I've worked in general health and I'm applying for charities in pharmacology or dentistry and they say but you haven't worked in pharmacology or dentistry, - even though the work I do does not need that kind of knowledge or experience. When someone experienced in dentristy applies, even if they don't have my skills, they are more likely to be hired than me.

I am applying for roles at the level below my previous job in larger organisations to get experience at scale or in different sectors but not getting interviews. Where I worked previously I was paid at the level the more junior roles pay in the larger sections, so the money will be similar.

Tomorrow's interview is strange. I was told on Thursday that I hadn't made the shortlist and the distinction between the candidates was very fine. Then on Friday I was told there was a change in the process and I could be interviewed if I wanted. I said yes because it's all experience but obviously I don't expect to get it.

It hasn't helped that I have been unwell, firstly needing my ankle operation and six weeks' recovery, being in hospital seriously unwell for three weeks, then being on antibiotics for three months. I'm only just beginning to feel I've actually recovered. So I left my last role in autumn 2024, was told in winter 2024 I would be having the surgery, had the operation over the summer of 2025 and I'm now back in the running in spring 2026.

There has only been one role in my section at my level at a similar size organisation. I applied and didn't get interviewed and they appointed someone more junior than me. That's when my recruiters said I needed to apply for more senior roles or in larger organisations.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 09/03/2026 21:48

Myrtle, could you lateral to a different sector w same skill-set. It sounds so frustrating! Or, self-employed consulting in the meantime?

Sprouts, I admire your dedication to the cooking. I've taken on a larger volunteer role for one of Havoc's sports and I might be regretting it.

I've just done a bit of a tidying blitz, folding/putting away clothes and towels/blankets; a pot of pasta on to boil; helped Baby use wand vacuum to tidy living room of crumbs and dust. 😀

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MyrtleLion · 09/03/2026 22:41

I am consulting at the moment, but the work is thin. I also find it very hard to actively go out and get work - including getting a job. I really want to find something I can stick at for the next 15 years and then I'll retire.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 09/03/2026 22:52

Myrtle, it sounds like you are doing all you can. It's really hard to find a company to stay that long with now. 3-5 years is often the max at one place now. Companies don't want long term employees as they have to pay them more in wages and benefits.

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MyrtleLion · 09/03/2026 23:17

Mumtobabyhavoc · 09/03/2026 22:52

Myrtle, it sounds like you are doing all you can. It's really hard to find a company to stay that long with now. 3-5 years is often the max at one place now. Companies don't want long term employees as they have to pay them more in wages and benefits.

In my field at my level, staff generally stay 5 years or 25 years. And it's getting increasingly hard to be a long stayer.

But a girl can dream!