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Things you're holding off buying because you don't know if they're worth it

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Insidelaurashed · 14/01/2026 10:19

I've been holding off buying a hand held steam cleaner (I have a chronic pain condition so if it helps make cleaning physically easier, great!) as I'm not sure if they're as good as the Tiktok reviews I keep seeing say they are. I thought Mumsnet would be good to ask as everyone is very honest on here, and then I thought maybe a thread where we post the thing we're unsure of so others can say yeah actually that's decent, buy it-or not-might be a good idea?

Anyone using a steam cleaner, are they decent? Anyone else got things they're unsure if they're worth the cost that they'd like an opinion on?

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CalmShaker · 16/01/2026 07:32

WinterFrogs · 16/01/2026 07:20

I am really hoping you are just joshing us, but on the off chance you're not, or for anyone else reading:
Miniature ponies are still ponies and need treating as such. Some of your wonky veg could poison it or give it colic. Minis run the risk of laminitis, a horribly painful and potentially fatal condition (look it up)
They still need vaccinations, worming ( with appropriate wormer) and their teeth seeing to by a professional. These little ones are particularly prone to mouth deformities and overcrowding of their teeth. Wouldn't need shoes, but would need a registered farrier to trim the feet ( did you know that their hooves are like are nails and keep growing?) They have very delicate digestive system and lots can go wrong if they are kept in inadequate conditions.

Try taking a small untrained pony for walks and it'll end up either refusing to move or head off down the road, dragging you along ( they are a lot stronger than an similar sized dog) and probably kicking up it's heels and kneecapping you as it barges past, leaving you sitting an you backside nursing rope burns and bruises while it goes off and causes carnage among the traffic. Horses ( even the little ones) are insanely accident prone, however healthy they are. So please, if you love this pony, do as @godmum56 says and let someone who knows what they are doing have it.

Thank you. I'm saying goodbye to her this morning

WinterFrogs · 16/01/2026 07:40

Good call @CalmShaker! Ponies are wonderful creatures and I've been around them all my life, so the pull is very understandable. How about going to volunteer somewhere? That's how I get my fix! Or take lessons. Highly recommend joining British Horse Society too
https://www.bhs.org.uk/

British Horse Society: Equestrian Charity & Membership | The British Horse Society

The UK's largest equestrian charity & membership group. Join, support & volunteer to ensure that we’re here for all horses and for those who love them. 

https://www.bhs.org.uk

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 16/01/2026 07:46

CalmShaker · 16/01/2026 07:32

Thank you. I'm saying goodbye to her this morning

That must be difficult. But I strongly believe you’re doing the right thing.

could you start taking riding lessons if you’re interested in riding/horses? That will be considerably cheaper than owning any kind of equine (be that a miniature pony, donkey or shire horse!) and it would be a good start to learn about horses, grooming and it’s a way to find out if that’s something you’d be interested in longterm.

(my stepmother and two of my aunts own horses. They could have easily bought a house [or a few houses, in the case of one aunt] with what they have spent on their care. And I do mean care, not what they spent when buying these incredibly accident prone, fearful creatures that can easily overpower a human but also seem to have glass for bones!!!)

mrsCtheRed · 16/01/2026 10:16

Loving this thread, fab idea OP 😍

I've got the Dyson hairdryer/airwrap. Used it about 3 times, but don't rate it at all. I know its supposed to prevent hair damage, but my hair felt fried after it! And I also used heat protection 🫣
I now have the GHD duet blow dry brush, which is amazing! I would not be without it now.

I had one of the original old kindles, which I mostly used for holidays, as I was forever paying for excess baggage for all my books 😆
Since that died, I've just used the Kindle app on my phone, which I love.

The one thing I keep looking at, but haven't bought yet is a breadmaker. I love the idea of them, but haven't taken the plunge yet, if anyone has any recommendations...

thenightsky · 16/01/2026 11:24

The one thing I keep looking at, but haven't bought yet is a breadmaker. I love the idea of them, but haven't taken the plunge yet, if anyone has any recommendations

We were given a bread maker in 2019 and have not bought loaf since. We are a family of 3 adults and I make about 3 loaves a week - more if visitors are coming. It broke down last summer and we immediately went out and bought a replacement. Couldn't live without it. We went for a pretty basic Panasonic one and its fine.

Edited to add that the one we were given in 2019 was an ancient one from a house clearance, hence breaking down.

trappedCatAsleepOnMe · 16/01/2026 12:15

lumpslumpsandmorelumps · 15/01/2026 15:14

Don’t think anyone answered about heated Airers. Are they any good? Particularly the Aldi one?

We have a Warm Air Drying PowerDri.

I think it's expensive to run - but haven't noticed it on our bills - till recently had a condensing drier as well - it broke and not replaced.

Find it useful to finishing off washing that wasn't drying quick enough on clothes horse and de-humifier - and anything needed quicker than air drying ie not planning ahead.

We till recently had a lot of washing and found we used both condensing drier and power dri - but we've got by this iwinter with less washing and power dri. I wouldn't be without something to quick dry clothes - but not sure better than a more convenstional dryer.

Amazon.co.uk

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Needspaceforlego · 16/01/2026 13:12

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 16/01/2026 07:46

That must be difficult. But I strongly believe you’re doing the right thing.

could you start taking riding lessons if you’re interested in riding/horses? That will be considerably cheaper than owning any kind of equine (be that a miniature pony, donkey or shire horse!) and it would be a good start to learn about horses, grooming and it’s a way to find out if that’s something you’d be interested in longterm.

(my stepmother and two of my aunts own horses. They could have easily bought a house [or a few houses, in the case of one aunt] with what they have spent on their care. And I do mean care, not what they spent when buying these incredibly accident prone, fearful creatures that can easily overpower a human but also seem to have glass for bones!!!)

Edited

Totally agree. Back when I was single and no kids I rode weekly. And considered buying a pony.

The buying it was relatively cheap, keeping it was a different story, way more than my mortgage.

Like cars you can buy cheaply but they need maintenance and fuel and £££

DeanStockwell · 16/01/2026 14:28

CalmShaker · 16/01/2026 01:49

Ok thank you, no I didn't know it would involve all that as never kept a horse before, but this is a much smaller pony. I didn't think it would need shoes if ground was soft

I was going to use the wonky vegetables box for food. I didn't think about a vet no as pony is in such good help. I was going to put the pony waste in garden for furtilizer and the bin if needed

I'm going to visit the pony one more time, probably to say good bye as not suitable but will take a tape measure too as the garage is a double

Owning a pony is just as much commitment as owning a horse.

It may not need shoes if it's going to stay on soft ground all the time but while you are out walking it unless it's hooves are in excellent condition and it's only a very short time it's on hard roads it will need them
Regardless it will still need it's hooves triming and keeping in good shape ( literally) every 4/ 6 weeks

You absolutely will need a vet , even the toughest healthiest pony will get ill from time to time.

They can't eat many different types of veg , the odd carrot / apple / thin sliced swede once a day is fine but you can not just give them a bucket of veg.
It has the potential to give them *colic which can kill .

Manure has to be well rotted before you can use it ( 2/3 months ideally) so unless you have a very big garden and are a keen gardener and understanding nighbours there is no way you will use all it's manure.

*in easy terms colic is when a horse / pony has got a blockage in its intestine this can be cause by the wrong food , the animal eating to quickly , food ( esp veg/ fruit ) been swallowed in big chunks or just sods law .
Equine can not be sick so it has to go out the other way but if that's blocked it can not.
Vets can remove the blockage if they are called out quick enough by putting there hand / arm up the animals rectum and manually scooping it out the poo and the administration of liquid paraffin via a tube down their nose and into the stomach, get this bit wrong and they will get the LP into their lungs !
If they cant get there quickly you have to do it. There are no ifs and buts about this.
Your pony will roll on the floor , kick it's own stomach and you and be very hard to handle due to the pain it's in.

The rolling on the floor can easily twist its gut and kill it very quickly, so even after the vet has been you need to walk your pony , sometimes for hrs to stop it rolling .

I have had to do all of the above and had the help of other very experienced owners and still really struggled.

Think of the worst case of stomach ache you have had and know that you could not be sick or poo.

This is just one of the things that can go wrong. . . . Do you still want a pony ?

SexyFrenchDepression · 16/01/2026 14:52

scrimblescramble · 14/01/2026 10:56

Sorry OP, can't help with the steam cleaner but mine would be a Kindle! I love reading and love holding a physical book but I'm almost certain I could read double the amount if I had a Kindle because it's much easier to get out to read for a bit, you don't even have to hold it if you don't want too! I also see physical books as a kind of trophy. But Kindles are quite pricey, and there's different versions now too. I've been debating this for about a year now.

I love my kindle. Have had one since the original versions many years ago. Its amazing for holidays, I used to have to take 10 paperbacks for a 2 week beach holiday taking up all my luggage space!

MyCalmRoseHelper · 16/01/2026 20:52

scrimblescramble · 14/01/2026 10:56

Sorry OP, can't help with the steam cleaner but mine would be a Kindle! I love reading and love holding a physical book but I'm almost certain I could read double the amount if I had a Kindle because it's much easier to get out to read for a bit, you don't even have to hold it if you don't want too! I also see physical books as a kind of trophy. But Kindles are quite pricey, and there's different versions now too. I've been debating this for about a year now.

I held off buying a Kindle for years. Now I have one I use it everyday. I never pay for any books. I download the free ones. If you sign up to Amazon first reads you get one newly published book free each month too (Think you have to be a prime member). If mine broke tomorrow I’d be replacing it the same day.

Burntt · 16/01/2026 22:33

KarmenPQZ · 15/01/2026 21:37

I have this one. It’s amazing for hoovering and wiping the kitchen floor. It’s def more a wipe than a scrub but perfect for keeping on top of dirt every day as we have a very pale grey floor. It has a smallish dust box which needs emptying every couple of weeks you notice when it’s full as it leaves a trail of crumbs in its docking position when it leaves as a reminder.

I’ve had it 5 years but I don’t think it’ll last much longer as it seems to have a ‘my bumper is stuck’ issue which I can’t work out how to fix. Still has great suction tho.

Ecovacs Robot Vacuum OZMO920... www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07WZD96GP?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I would describe my eufy the same way. Don’t have carpets so don’t know what it’s like just as a vacuum but on tile it’s a bit pants getting crumbs out the cracks. Ok on laminate and vinal. The mop is definitely a wipe not a scrub, I still need my mop for under table where kids eat for example. Definitely helps and has saved me time. If it broke I would replace it. But it’s not the miracle I was hoping for

notatinydancer · 16/01/2026 23:04

blizymitzy · 14/01/2026 11:21

Dyson air wrap

I love mine , my hair looks so much better using it. £££ but worth it.

EveryDayisFriday · 17/01/2026 22:55

Springingforward · 14/01/2026 12:33

I'm seeing a lot of ads for Il Makiage foundation, apparently the miracle cure to my mid 50's slightly blotchy, exhausted looking skin that make up just appears to either slide off or sink in?

Worth £45?

I didn't like this foundation which was a shame as I had high hopes. I found it too thick and I like a light coverage. The primer is superb however.

Some influenced makeup is pretty good though, I'm loving the wonderskin lip tint and Laura geller baked powder foundation. I use both daily.

EveryDayisFriday · 17/01/2026 23:01

I love my Lumea. I bought it years ago for £250. This was a huge investment for me back then but having thick dark hair all over, I felt I needed to try it. It has blown me away by how effective it has been, I have a couple of light hairs left on my armpit, a few patchy bits on my legs and all the dark facial hairs are gone. It used to be a daily battle to shave and pluck, now I shave every couple of months.

Edamummybean · 18/01/2026 07:54

Nothankyov · 14/01/2026 11:36

Another person to tell you that it do work for me. I’m a bit darker (not English) as I’m from Mediterranean descent. I have heard that it works better on people who have darker hair. I have barely any hair left now. And if you top up every winter then it lasts the year for sure.

A word of warning that if you already have grey or unpigmented hairs the Lumea does not work on them. It dealt with my dark facial hair but my grey meno whiskers still grow with the texture of barbed wire and need to be plucked daily. Invest early and zap your whiskers before you go grey.

handslikecowstits · 18/01/2026 13:20

Rainbowralph · 14/01/2026 13:31

Infrared sauna blanket. I want one but they are quite pricey. If anyone has got one can you let me know if it’s worth it!

I don't have a blanket but I do have a portable infrared sauna which is a similar price to the blanket if you're thinking of getting it from where I got mine from. I bought mine to reduce the level of heavy metals from my body on the advice of my specialist. I've found they work really well but you have to do it at a warm temperature at first rather than hot and do it for a short time initially at long intervals; say once a week and build up gradually otherwise you can feel faint and depending on your health, unwell. Washing straight afterwards is important to wash off what you've sweated out as is replacing lost nutrients because everything gets sweated out. I take a mineral supplement after showering and make sure I drink lots of water.

I wouldn't buy a cheap one: you're dealing with heated elements and temperature regulation so I'd pay the extra and buy a good one.

You can DM me if you want any more info.

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 22/01/2026 10:23

Anyone got any thoughts on the Navy nail serums/creams that are all over Facebook and Instagram? I can feel myself getting sucked in ... 😆

henlake7 · 22/01/2026 18:15

Im trying to decide wether to get a walking pad. Id probably use it but Im worried it would be alot of faff if it broke or didnt work when I got it.

Flowersforyourchocolateprettyplease · 22/01/2026 22:52

henlake7 · 22/01/2026 18:15

Im trying to decide wether to get a walking pad. Id probably use it but Im worried it would be alot of faff if it broke or didnt work when I got it.

My sister has one and raves about it. Uses it whilst watching tv.

lifetheuniverseandeverything42 · 23/01/2026 08:28

I like my walking pad, but I don’t use it as often as I should. There are a bit marmite, if you look on places like Facebook marketplace as often people don’t like them and you should be able to find a bargain.

WildWildHorses · 25/01/2026 18:55

Phillips Lumea.
I have pale skin with dark blonde/light brown hair - not convinced it will work well enough on me, but really want it to.

thenightsky · 25/01/2026 19:08

On the back of this helpful thread, I've finally sent for the Laura Geller light baked foundation.

Luddite26 · 25/01/2026 19:19

thenightsky · 25/01/2026 19:08

On the back of this helpful thread, I've finally sent for the Laura Geller light baked foundation.

You can always try Laura Geller on QVC with a 60 day money back guarantee! Hope you love it.

hollyblueivy · 28/01/2026 23:18

Collagen

DeanStockwell · 06/03/2026 12:18

lifeonmars100 · 14/01/2026 16:28

A worktop dishwasher, they look like the answer to my prayers, I loathe washing up, have no space to have one that can be plumbed in and have lots of worktop space so it could sit right by my sink. I am at the stage of doing lots of online research and they look almost too good to be true!

I have come back to this thread to see if you bought one .
if you did is it any good ?
I still can't decide if I want one

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