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Would you have got the Royal children a gift.

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madaboutpurple · 26/12/2025 12:45

If I had been at Sandringham I would not have given the Royal children a gift as they get a lot of gifts anyway. Really they should have taken tubs of sweets and offered them to local children. That way they would have been polite.

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RainbowBagels · 26/12/2025 17:32

LiftAndCoast · 26/12/2025 16:03

It's completely bonkers. My mother was like this. I was a little girl when Diana died and she made me give up one of my toys to put with the piles of flowers - complete with a note asking to pass it on to Harry. Even at that age I knew that Harry's mum had just died and he was a prince - he would definitely not want a second hand teddy bear from a random girl he'd never met. But in my mother's head it must have made some kind of sense.

Someone gave George a giant teddy. He's 12! ( I know Great Uncle Andrew still has his teddy collection!)

upinaballoon · 26/12/2025 17:54

Pedallleur · 26/12/2025 15:51

Yes. If it's poisoned let the plebs die! I suppose it's no more weird than people trying to give their favourite music star a gift. Taylor, look what I brought you! People standing out in the cold at Sandringham. If there aren't that many why not let them into the service? Keep them in the cheap seats but at least they get a better experience. No cameras tho. That maddo John stays outside.

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It's quite a small church and by the time several members of the Royal Family are in it, as well as some people who go to church in that benefice on a regular basis, there simply wouldn't be room for the folks in the crowd.
I've no idea what the church gave out yesterday but in the past they have given out hymn sheets, I think. They do broadcast the service on a tannoy but the sound doesn't carry far, in my experience, and very few people know the words of the Morning Service, or care about joining in.
The crowd is made up of a mixture of people. Some of them don't take flowers or sweets or or even cameras.
No, I wouldn't have taken sweeties or teddies to give to any member of the Royal Family.
I have seen someone from the church come out from the steps, with buckets, to the crowd - probably not churchwardens but maybe people who are on the church council. They were collecting, I think for a local hospice. Members of the crowd put money in. If I'd been there yesterday I would have done that, and I wouldn't have thought myself any more weird than when a local organisation is collecting outside my local supermarket and I put something into their bucket.

FromageTime · 26/12/2025 17:58

The only comfort is that all these nutters seem relatively old. The ridiculous forelock tugging will die out with them.

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upinaballoon · 26/12/2025 18:08

FromageTime · 26/12/2025 17:58

The only comfort is that all these nutters seem relatively old. The ridiculous forelock tugging will die out with them.

Ooooh, thanks for reminding me. I've got to do my forelock-tugging practice at 18.30 even though it is Boxing Day, followed obviously by the curtseying exercises. At least it will all be finished by the time 'Call the Midwife' comes on.

Pedallleur · 26/12/2025 19:02

Have a draw in the crowd for eg 5 lucky people. They've made the effort so let them in. Hardly likely to be terrorists

2dogsandabudgie · 26/12/2025 19:14

TheChosenTwo · 26/12/2025 12:58

Good god I thought exactly the same as this, what absolute morons spend their Christmas Day going to gawp at the Royals?
Honestly some people are tapped in the head!
regarding gifts I would presume that they take them and say thank you but don’t keep them, they are probably donated.

I think that's a nasty thing to say. Some of the people are disabled who the Royals have met through charity work. There was a lady on here a few years ago who was terminally ill and wanted to greet the Royals on Christmas Day.

If people are happy to do this then who are we to judge. Also the gifts and flowers are donated.

FromageTime · 26/12/2025 19:14

upinaballoon · 26/12/2025 18:08

Ooooh, thanks for reminding me. I've got to do my forelock-tugging practice at 18.30 even though it is Boxing Day, followed obviously by the curtseying exercises. At least it will all be finished by the time 'Call the Midwife' comes on.

What are you practising for? Surely these wastes of space are now retiring until Easter?

FromageTime · 26/12/2025 19:55

2dogsandabudgie · 26/12/2025 19:14

I think that's a nasty thing to say. Some of the people are disabled who the Royals have met through charity work. There was a lady on here a few years ago who was terminally ill and wanted to greet the Royals on Christmas Day.

If people are happy to do this then who are we to judge. Also the gifts and flowers are donated.

If I were disabled or terminally ill, the last thing I’d be doing is standing in the cold fawning over a bunch of undeserving privileged toffs. Where is their self-respect?

RainbowBagels · 26/12/2025 20:04

FromageTime · 26/12/2025 19:55

If I were disabled or terminally ill, the last thing I’d be doing is standing in the cold fawning over a bunch of undeserving privileged toffs. Where is their self-respect?

Yes, I mean the terminally ill can of course do what they like but if I was their family member and it was possibly my last Christmas with someone, if they decided to spend it standing around waving and giving chocolate boxes to the Royals I'd be a bit 🙄 its mostly American tourists and people with learning difficulties by the looks if it. The Royals really should protect their children from oddballs crying at them about their dead grandma but they don't. They love it and are throwing their children to the wolves in the same way they always have done.

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ZenLikeAlways · 26/12/2025 20:17

Who should have brought tubs of sweets op?

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Simpletons really!! Could you've found a more derogatory way to describe people with learning issues.
And I ain't no Royalist

2dogsandabudgie · 26/12/2025 20:29

FromageTime · 26/12/2025 19:55

If I were disabled or terminally ill, the last thing I’d be doing is standing in the cold fawning over a bunch of undeserving privileged toffs. Where is their self-respect?

Perhaps it makes them happy. Why are you so judgemental how other people wish to spend their time.

CathyorClaire · 26/12/2025 20:46

If I was the sort who might enjoy getting up at dawn to secure a place to gawp at the Court of King Caractacus Charles just passing by I suppose it might occur to me to also cross a royal palm with a selection box.

But I'm not.

RainbowBagels · 27/12/2025 09:55

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 26/12/2025 16:26

I was a young mum when Diana died, and I was so angry at all the news coverage criticising the Queen for staying at Balmoral with William and Harry - all the “Where are you, Ma’am?” rubbish. She was a grandmother, looking after her devastated grandsons, and keeping them out of the public eye - 100% the right thing to do. To hear that she was then told to look after the boys, after the public outcry had dragged her and them out of the safety of Balmoral, to parade their grief in public has made me cross all over again!

I remember this too. The press were clearly deflecting from their own culpability. But TLQ could have come down on her own. She could have put out a statement saying she was staying with her grandchildren in Balmoral and explained why. Instead the children were dragged down to London to parade around in front of people crying in their faces about their dead mother. Both Harry and William have said that was more disressing than walking behind the coffin. The survival of the Monarchy is more important than any one member, even when they are children. That is the fault of the RF. They could set firmer boundaries around the children but as we saw on Christmas day, they don't.

Mydogisagentleman · 27/12/2025 11:15

Would I fuck.
We are a couple of miles away..the sooner this anachronistic, outdated pantomime ends the better.
DWTC

PomandersandRedRibbon · 27/12/2025 11:46

No absolute not however it's probably a way of luring them over !

Acommonreader · 27/12/2025 11:49

I like the royal family but the gift thing is crazy. Do these people really think that Kate is going to pop that bouquet in the car then put in a vase when she gets home? Or that the kids will eat the chocolate?
It’s nice if the flowers do get passed on to care homes . Other gifts must be thrown away as they are a security risk.

Acommonreader · 27/12/2025 11:52

Dollymylove · 26/12/2025 15:39

Why wouldnt they? They are still kids with the same likes/dislikes as other children

Do you honestly believe that the royal children eat things given by strangers!

MouseCheese87 · 27/12/2025 11:53

Icecreamisthebest · 26/12/2025 12:50

No I wouldn’t.

But I think the people who do get them gifts would have been offended to see their gift passed on to local children right in front of them . I would see that as rude rather than polite. The polite thing to do is to accept a gift, thank the giver and if you don’t want it then dispose of it how you see fit but without the giver being aware

I think most people who would assume they are keeping the gifts in the first place are pretty stupid.

MrsSkylerWhite · 27/12/2025 12:29

RainbowBagels · 26/12/2025 17:27

Well quite. I live in Norfolk. The Local Authority Childrens services has a gift drive every year where people can buy a book or a gift for children in care, so they have something to open on the day. The Royals could ask these people to donate directly to children who actually need it so that they could have a gift on Christmas day, rather than have some rejects handed to them a week later.

Hear, hear.

MrsSkylerWhite · 27/12/2025 12:31

MouseCheese87 · 27/12/2025 11:53

I think most people who would assume they are keeping the gifts in the first place are pretty stupid.

Rude 😁 I read somewhere creditable years ago that the “royal” children were able to keep one thing. Perhaps that’s changed, now.

deeahgwitch · 27/12/2025 12:32

MrsSkylerWhite · 27/12/2025 12:29

Hear, hear.

What a lovely idea @RainbowBagels

MeouwKing · 27/12/2025 12:41

RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 26/12/2025 13:08

They do. Nearly all of them are Patrons of numerous charities and use their power and influence in that way. In any case, their 'obscene wealth' (as you put it) largely doesn't belong to them personally, it belongs to the State.

What did you personally do for those in need this Christmas, the season of giving?

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kingtamponthefurred · 27/12/2025 13:05

There is literally nothing that some weirdos won't do on the off chance that they might get to be in the background of a ten-second televised news clip.

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