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Things I haven’t said out loud this week

209 replies

YorkieTheRabbit · 15/12/2025 17:21

I politely told you last week that I didn’t want to involved, I haven’t changed my mind.
You’ve sidelined your dad for over a decade , in favour of your mum.
Are you really surprised that he’s moved on with his life rather than being hung on the back of the door for you?
You can’t expect him to change his Christmas plans because yours have gone wrong. You’re an adult, act like one, the world doesn’t revolve around you.

OP posts:
Fontet · 15/12/2025 22:25

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Specialagentblond · 15/12/2025 22:28

Stop threatening to quit and fucking quit.

Pabbel · 15/12/2025 22:28

I have no fucks left to give, i hope it all goes tits up for you and karma bites you hard.

Mistyglade · 15/12/2025 22:31

Stop fucking talking so loudly on your phone on this bus it’s been the whole journey and I now have a migraine you ignorant fucker.

EmeraldDreams73 · 15/12/2025 22:45

To dd17: could you just, for once, have some idea of the effect that your downloading, ranting and general bloody grumpiness has on the household and think about someome else for a change?

To many pupils: learn the alphabet. Please. Just A to G, nothing advanced. Then learn it a bit more SO YOU KNOW WHAT COMES AFTER FUCKING C WHEN YOU NEED TO.

To my exh (who I also work for part of the week, wish to God I didn't but need flexibility cos he does fuck all for his kids): stop blaming the rest of the world for your own fuck ups and your business struggling. You're not running it remotely properly and just get nasty when I or anyone tries to help. Shut UP about our daughters' weight. Stop pleading poverty and paying nothing towards dd2, yet taking your girlfriend on surprise trips several times a year. Just fuck OFF.

To the lorry driver who wrecked my car when he didn't notice I had to stop for a police car over a year ago: thanks for screwing up my neck, shoulder, finances and mh. Great job, dickhead. Endless pain, anxiety and car problems ever since (v old but reliable car replaced with old and less reliable ones, and even worse financial problems. Borrowing money for a still-old and still-unreliable car sucks. Especially when it then dies and leaves me with more debt and a shitter car than ever.)

To everyone in my life whinging about working part time when I work 51 weeks a year trying to juggle everything, just fuck OFF.

There will be many more. It has been a tough week few years.

seven201 · 15/12/2025 22:54

What’s she got on her hands? It’s poo! Everywhere

Gotback · 15/12/2025 23:10

I'm not surprised. You're about 8 stone overweight. What are we going to pretend is causing it this time?

Bigearringsbigsmile · 15/12/2025 23:15

Prelim · 15/12/2025 20:36

“I really love that you’re my MIL, you don’t judge, always willing to help out, great with the grandkids, are fun to be around and you’ve brought your son up to be the most caring, considerate, assertive and confident man I could ever wish for as a husband”.

I thought this when she was talking about her own MIL (who sounded awful to her). Felt embarrassed to say it as we both aren’t gushy people, but I will tell her how I feel about her in my own roundabout way when she hosts us for Christmas (if I can find the words!).

Please tell her! Maybe write it in a Christmas card! You will make her day!

PurpleSky300 · 15/12/2025 23:19

Nobody on this planet cares about your corporate deadlines. Every single person is counting the seconds to Friday and the chance to fuck it all off for two weeks. And as for the work Xmas do, I'd rather shit in my hands and clap.

Jenpen31 · 15/12/2025 23:28

She wasnt all that! ( thought daily)

Your son is an absolute spoilt brat and no wonder he has no friends and no life.

Karma will get you.

This was a piss poor idea.

Who gives these people these top jobs when they couldnt run a bath.

You are an arrogant, self centred, horrible person and I wish with everything in me that we didnt breath the same air!!!

I pray for your downfall.

Just a few from the past few days......

MathsTeacherandLoveit · 15/12/2025 23:33

No we can't watch a film you irritating little arsehole. I have to ram some maths into your fucking empty head.

Therewerelions · 16/12/2025 00:16

You are a pathological liar and you think we don't know. You lie about everything but you are too stupid to remember what you've said.

SusanSHelit · 16/12/2025 00:22

@CatrinVennastin i take my hat off to you and all of your colleagues, retail in December is brutal!

BradPittsLeftArmpit · 16/12/2025 00:29

I am sick to death of being mother to everybody. You're all grown adults ffs. Stop asking me for money and putting your personal problems on me. I. Don't. Care.

You are incredibly fucking selfish and you weren't bought up like that. Your partner is pathetic who just agrees with you to keep the peace. Lose some weight, it's not healthy, and you're not happy about it. So do something about it instead of moaning to me ALL the time. Stop moaning about having no money when all you do is spend your wages on kids games. Your 30, grow the fuck up

And as for you...your GF is breaking up a family. And you see it, but you do nothing. You run around after her because she's a lazy bitch who has you at her beck and call.

Everyone mentioned here can fuck right off

Snippit · 16/12/2025 00:37

Noodledoodledoo · 15/12/2025 17:48

Grow up, you are a 30 year old mother you do not need to be treated like a precious princess at work who needs everyone to tell you how amazing you are. You really aren't!!!

Stop belittling every single thing I say, do, you are not perfect, you do not live my life so stop trying to tell me how to! Weekend with family has not left me in a happy place!

I am seriously irritable this week so far!

I feel your pain, also have a 30 year old daughter (no grandchildren) and I pretty much receive the same attitude, and I’m bloody fed up with it. She is also condescending, we have done so much to help her over the years and it’s just not appreciated. I exploded at her today, there’s only so much I can take, if she doesn’t like it she can bugger off 🤷‍♀️

whatawalley · 16/12/2025 00:56

Everyone just fuck off and leave me alone. I'm doing the best that I can.

HoppityBun · 16/12/2025 01:10

Chinsupmeloves · 15/12/2025 20:44

Sorry darling teenagers, I'm so sorry you have to do this practice exam this week, yes another one, in preparation for your real exams in 6 months time. I would also rather be having some fun learning and if we have time we can watch a nice Christmas video and have a singalong. Meanwhile, silence and get to it!

Own mind; sick of all of these practice exams, as are the kids. They're switched off, hostile to never-ending prep we have to enforce and spend all weekend marking! We haven't learnt the next few months of curriculum to be able to answer some questions. Strewth, when I was their age all we had was our notes and turning up to the exams without the extra classes after school and at weekend.

On the one hand i sympathise because the pressure is beyond what I experienced and the continuous 'bell tasks, starter, objectives plenary' system is so uninspiring. Also the modern builds of walking one way in goldfish bowls with little time to chat, wee, eat, ever mind some fresh air, is horrendous 😫

On the other hand, lessons are the only time many students will receive an education and so so much is put into the utmost learning for them. Not all will have parents who support them at home so the knowledge needs to be instilled. They will simply go home, game and watch TV until the early hours, be tired and be unengaged.

It's such a tough gig teaching, we care so much about our students but have to follow the academy protocol which is designed to thrust as much knowledge for those who will only learn in the classroom, while at the same time offering challenging progress to others.

I do believe the last week before Christmas should be more fun and topic based. When engaged there are so many opportunities to offer learning within every subject.

Re your last point @Chinsupmeloves if you know the wonderful Alfie Kohn, his most recent podcast episode deals with that exact observation

Friendlygingercat · 16/12/2025 01:11

You bought goods from my online shop. I posted them promptly and sent you a tracking number, but you keep contacting me for updates. If I did it for you Id have to do it for everyone. Get off your lazy ass and take some adult responsibility. Im not your bloody servant.

Giraffehaver · 16/12/2025 01:12

You always self sabotage and I'm expected to feel sorry for you and support you when I am actually livid with the mess you've left us in

Namechange2211 · 16/12/2025 01:18

Thank god the anti depressants have kicked in and I don’t care about anything anymore.

MyChristmasCheerHasBuggeredOff · 16/12/2025 01:23

I dont want to do this anymore

Timetoheal4good · 16/12/2025 01:48

I need someone to help me find a solution.

TinselTina · 16/12/2025 08:02

Ill never come off anti depressants.

Horrace · 16/12/2025 08:41

I'm sick of walking on egg shells around you. You moody, sulky, drinking, weed smoking and did I say moody....

Employer, you are anti-Semitic, anti white, anti Christian racists.

Colleagues, the Emperor is wearing no clothes, you fucking idiots

PermanentlyExhaustedPigeonZZZ · 16/12/2025 08:57

The world isn't as scary as you think it is, you just need more confidence. Unfortunately the thing that will make you fail is your certainty that you will fail.

I wish I had kids who could just go to school and get on with it and not have to suffer and work so hard. It's so exhausting being a receptive supportive parent when all I want to do is shout just get on with it. Or bundle them up and never send them back to school again (at least until next year).