Things I haven’t said out loud this week

[YorkieTheRabbit]

I politely told you last week that I didn’t want to involved, I haven’t changed my mind.
You’ve sidelined your dad for over a decade , in favour of your mum.
Are you really surprised that he’s moved on with his life rather than being hung on the back of the door for you?
You can’t expect him to change his Christmas plans because yours have gone wrong. You’re an adult, act like one, the world doesn’t revolve around you.

Oh, and the whole "spirit of Christmas" can fuck off.

Your mother is self absorbed and needy.
I am tired of dealing with an immature, mummy’s boy. You’re 50 FFS!
I really don’t need to hear about your problems. I’m just here to instruct a class.
Do you not realise that you have to stop your vehicle at a pedestrian crossing???!!
Seriously?! Muslims killing innocent people again!

Just Now : I hate it when you ring me shitfaced and think I can’t tell

You should have stopped giving me all of the responsibility and none of the authority. Neither of you have any clue just what it is that I do behind the scenes to keep this company running. No, I will not be taking an active role in the massive new project that goes live soon and which I know without a shadow of doubt will be a shit show, despite my efforts to get things off on the right path. I have given up trying now. There is nothing on Earth that would persuade me to use the shiny new software package you are spending a fortune on. If you'd let me have sight of it before you signed the contract I could have told you it is shit. But you didn't. And all that, my dear employers is the real reason I just told you I'm going to take early retirement, and why I chose the date I did. You will have the devil's own job replacing me, because although you think you understand what I do, you actually don't. But that is my problem no longer. Phew.

I need a new job, working every weekend and never seeing anybody(kids or family or friends) isn’t ok

DH, you're missing the point & have no right to be angry at me for being upset. You agreed we weren't splitting Xmas day, running between families, to keep everyone else happy because FIL decided to stay home. Now SIL is going to FIL, and FIL mentions her DS will be lonely, so your breaking that promise & runnig off straight after eating lunch with my family, with our DC, to keep DN company. It's not our problem SIL only had one DC because the DH she stole from his wife refused more (he told me he didn't even want any more children at all), and SC's hate her, & they don't make it fun for DN. SIL doesn't even buy DN Christmas gifts because she hates Christmas. You don't even like her. Yet, I am still shoved to the bottom of the pile because your family called. Again.

I am not surprised.

No I don't want to arrange a playdate to sort out the ' issues ' with our daughters. The problem is your daughter is a nasty little girl. You caught me off guard last wk when you came running up on us after school. Next time I will tell you to fuck right off.

He isn’t treating you with respect or kindness, I don’t think you should be buying him a car and I certainly won’t entertain you involving him in our business

You are a nasty fake person who abandoned your children but acts like mother of the year now they are grown up. Also if people knew how you bitched about them behind their backs, they would not think you were so lovely.

Don't care, boss. You decide to close the business for two weeks every year at Christmas, make us use our own leave, pay us minimum & then and go away for four weeks yourself on a luxury holiday.
You also don't allow us to do anything without permission - even call a client, or train us properly.

If things don't get done, it's not my problem and I'm not stressing, not taking the blame.

And the 'errors' you blamed me for yesterday? I was doing exactly what you told me to do last week & I enjoyed telling you so.

Please, for the love of everything holy, just go away and leave me in peace.

I am not your personal assistant, check your diary and update it yourself. You’re not the only person who is busy!!!

I'm too old for this shit.

Just because you didn’t get the answer you wanted doesn’t mean you can make passive aggressive comments. Speak to the person you have issues with and don’t take it out on the rest of us.

Fuck off (said a number of times)

Stop bloody changing your mind, no l dont want to go shopping tommorow, l made plans for you to go with someone else so l could have a few hours peace, its fine stay at home but dont be upset on Christmas day when everyone has presents expect me, and yes you will be upset..
(Dw with life changing injuries so cant go out alone, and no l dont care about the presents just want 2 hours home alone...)

Your older friends keep telling you hard truths, you come to me upset with what they are saying. I don’t have the heart to tell you to listen to them they are talking sense and you need to stop drinking so much.

Yes adult child I would like message that doesn’t involve you asking for money, it’s not how you were raised.

yes adult child 2 I am tetchy, so would you be if I left the mess you do and contributed very little.

oh I could keep going!!

You’re all a load of self-centred, self-obsessed ignorant arseholes and, yes, people see you. I don’t give a flying fuck any more.

If I could go back in time - I wouldn’t meet you at all.

I’m not your bloody slave
Take some responsibility for yourself

Funny how you always have a drama on a work day but never on your 3 days off?

Your house is a disgusting dirty shithole
Get a haircut

Your child is a class A c*nt and I’m glad DC finally found the balls to cut them out of their life

I can’t work out if she enjoys your company or not

Yes I am now the highest paid in the family, I am also the person who pays for everything by themselves and doesn’t have anyone to split it with so if you had a brain cell and could do the maths you’d realise I end up with less left over as you and your partner put together.

Stop moaning about your job and bloody leave if you hate it so much

Step into the real world

That was long but feels good to write it down and get it out!!

@cosimnotwhereitsat I sincerely hope that you’re ok

I'm tired, your relentless fucking negativity is wearing me down. I know words aren't your love language, but you never say a kind thing or a positive one. The only passion you ever express is anger. And yet you still think I should want to be all over you in bed at night. I know you probably feel unsupported and like I don't make space for your feelings but when is there ever, EVER space for mine? Our 4 year old daughter shows more sensitivity and kindness to me than you and that's fucking scary. I have no-one I can talk to because I come first for literally no-one. I am miserable about it. And if you could be even a bit happy and a bit kind we'd have such a great life.

LTB

You took the words right out of my mouth.

Where’s your useless drug dealing son? It’s been lovely without him making where we live look trampy

You've gone behind my back to get access to my son. Crack on you silly bitch he'll soon realise you and your son are oddbods that's why no one bothers