I have really enjoyed reading this thread.
This is an area I work in (I have the best job in the world) and have obviously name changed for this.
I work in a small Alternate Provision - ours is aimed really at those who can't attend school but would like the opportunity to do gcse/A level/similar. We have specialist tutors for the subjects rather than the generic "home tutor to teach everything who might not be qualified" people often get offered.
I love it. Many of the staff are openly ND (so for example we completely normalise using the fidgets in the setting, discussion of which is your favourite etc).
It wouldn't be suitable for all ND kids but there is a gap in many areas for those who would like to do some academic work, but can't manage mainstream.
Its shocking how much has to fail for a student to get placed with us though and how much time out of education.
It is small, tailored to the student, and they could be taught 1-1 or 1-2 for example. There's breaks and lunch with the option to socialise or sit where there are people but there's staff there too. There's a sensory room. But also bean bags and fidgets in other rooms.
What makes a huge difference is the approach. Where we "get it" the language we use is different, there's lowered "demands", no uniform (but fine if they want to wear the same thing every time), homework is optional, the actual sessions are very flexible.
But it's a small provison and I would love for us to be bigger.
I am also aware of outdoor Alt Provisions etc.
We also do some home tutoring and we also work with students with PDA profiles .
But we couldn't do what we do without the funding. It's a high staff ratio and we're qualified staff.
They've all been failed by the education system and it would be a dream of mine to have options for schools where (autistic students in particular) didn't have to get to this point of failure before they access something like ours.