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If you could design an education system for children with ADHD and/or autism...

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TheRolyPolyBard · 31/10/2025 09:08

... what would it look like?

I'm just curious. A family member is recently diagnosed and struggling in school. If you could design schools around the needs of these children, what would your imaginary school look like? What hours would they be in? What would classrooms look like? Would there be any classrooms?

Caveat: it needs to be affordable for the UK, so nothing too fantastic!

I'm wondering if a school system which suits NT and ND children is actually possible.

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BertieBotts · 31/10/2025 12:08

Sorry my long post was to @Whippetwonder although I went off on a tangent too :D

Whippetwonder · 31/10/2025 12:18

BertieBotts · 31/10/2025 12:08

Sorry my long post was to @Whippetwonder although I went off on a tangent too :D

I'm just going of what would of worked for my two boys
I just think to have that in place for parents to also dip in and out of as a back up or if a child is of school with illness or disability ..
Basically as a back up

ohfook · 31/10/2025 12:30

For a start I’d remove all of the 2014 curriculum reforms and I think I’d find a significant minority of children wouldn’t be SEND anymore they just wouldn’t be struggling with a curriculum that doesn’t understand age related expectations.

I’d follow the exact same routine everyday so children knew what to expect.
I’d have options for indoor and outdoor play and I’d have an afternoon break.
At least two TAs per class - one to support with learning and one to support children with the more pastoral side of things; self regulation strategies etc.
I’d take all pressure off the subjects that aren’t English and Maths. No concepts that have been shuffled down from ks3 the only purpose of the afternoon lessons would be to encourage enjoyment and engagement in that lesson.
Small class sizes
trauma and ND informed staff.
Natural consequences and a relational approach towards the children. No using shame as a consequence.
Lots of work on careers so chn understand the purpose of each subject.
Pupil led topics
Less displays
Sensory rooms
Less visitors in and out of classes.

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GazeboLantern · 31/10/2025 15:21

Whippetwonder · 31/10/2025 11:46

On line school ,run by the government,so children that are withdrawn from school to be home educated, because they have SEN ..have access to an on line classroom at home where teacher teaches the same lesson as they would of received in school.
Also exams included,done on line or in a small exam centre.
It would be fairly easy to set up ,with one teacher being fined teaching and hundreds of child logged in to learn .
Homework could be multiple choices to help understand subjects and as the children could not see or hear each other ,only see and hear the teacher ,any child could attend the on line lesson of any age group..so if you were behind in maths ,but ahead in history,you a justed that when logging on .
I actually think a lot of parents would take this up ,and free up a lot of school places and save the country a huge amount in the cost of ehcps

ND children also need the opportunity to socialise and to exercise.

Geneticsbunny · 31/10/2025 15:42

There is already a full and complete syllabus online from the government for all lessons with online videos.
https://www.thenational.academy/

Soontobe60 · 31/10/2025 15:45

Elisheva · 31/10/2025 09:30

One of the issues is that all ND children are not the same and do not have the same needs. I worked in a school once where there were two ND children in a class. The guidance for one (ASD) said clear instructions, structured predictable timetable, warnings of transitions etc. The other (PDA) needed flexibility, instructions presented as choices, more of a go with the flow approach. All fine. Except the warnings of transitions for child 1 would set off child 2.
Same with the class with one child who made random, unpredictable noises and one who was upset by random unpredictable noises.
Same as the class with one child who needed to fidget in order to focus, distracting the other child who couldn’t focus next to a fidgety child.
All the children’s needs, on paper, are easy to meet. But when they are put in the melting pot of a mainstream classroom become a minefield of competing needs.

This is the reality of most classrooms.

DangerQuakeRhinoSnake · 31/10/2025 15:45

I guess with the huge numbers affected now they could actually have schools dedicated just to ND kids.

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 16:03

Reduce the age of compulsory education. Dramatically. 13 or 14. Reduce university funding to the mist capable at which point make it fully funded. Go back to normalising work. Make it easier to go back to school when people are ready.

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 16:04

Support disable people who can't work better

noblegiraffe · 31/10/2025 16:07

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 16:03

Reduce the age of compulsory education. Dramatically. 13 or 14. Reduce university funding to the mist capable at which point make it fully funded. Go back to normalising work. Make it easier to go back to school when people are ready.

You really don't want half the school population emptying out onto the streets aged 13. They're not going to be able to work, so then what?

Fearfulsaints · 31/10/2025 16:21

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 16:03

Reduce the age of compulsory education. Dramatically. 13 or 14. Reduce university funding to the mist capable at which point make it fully funded. Go back to normalising work. Make it easier to go back to school when people are ready.

I dint see how this would specifically support children with autism or adhd? My son didnt really start accessing education until he was 14!

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 16:38

Fearfulsaints · 31/10/2025 16:21

I dint see how this would specifically support children with autism or adhd? My son didnt really start accessing education until he was 14!

Secondary is often (not always) where trouble really kicks in. At least for those at the less extreme end of the spectrum. We know many who are in this midrange do much better in work or practical employment. Then make it easier to return to education when the brain has matured and and individual is ready for it.

So much sen support is literally pissing money up the wall with no real difference to the individuals involved.

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 16:39

noblegiraffe · 31/10/2025 16:07

You really don't want half the school population emptying out onto the streets aged 13. They're not going to be able to work, so then what?

We need to normalise younger people working. It's so hard these days for teens to get jobs

Fearfulsaints · 31/10/2025 16:48

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 16:38

Secondary is often (not always) where trouble really kicks in. At least for those at the less extreme end of the spectrum. We know many who are in this midrange do much better in work or practical employment. Then make it easier to return to education when the brain has matured and and individual is ready for it.

So much sen support is literally pissing money up the wall with no real difference to the individuals involved.

I guess some might respond to supported work placements. They'd still need to access social skills support and it think they would need access to all the additional sporr, pshe and enrichment that goes on in school.

I cant see employers taking on a bunch of 'mid range kids' without a lot of government incentive and funding.

GazeboLantern · 31/10/2025 16:51

So much SEN support is fixated on wedging neurodivergent children into the neurotypical model.

Gertrudetheadelie · 31/10/2025 16:59

Elisheva · 31/10/2025 09:30

One of the issues is that all ND children are not the same and do not have the same needs. I worked in a school once where there were two ND children in a class. The guidance for one (ASD) said clear instructions, structured predictable timetable, warnings of transitions etc. The other (PDA) needed flexibility, instructions presented as choices, more of a go with the flow approach. All fine. Except the warnings of transitions for child 1 would set off child 2.
Same with the class with one child who made random, unpredictable noises and one who was upset by random unpredictable noises.
Same as the class with one child who needed to fidget in order to focus, distracting the other child who couldn’t focus next to a fidgety child.
All the children’s needs, on paper, are easy to meet. But when they are put in the melting pot of a mainstream classroom become a minefield of competing needs.

Oooh I had this too. Child with one need who we were told could break rules (come up to the teachers desk and pick up items/ start doing press ups and we just had to ignore it) and the other, in the same class, with ASD who had a very rigid view on rules. Nightmare.

pottylolly · 31/10/2025 17:09

How you handle this depends on whether you believe a school is for learning or to build social experiences.

If it’s for learning then these kids are probably better taught (and can learn more) without the anxiety at home via tutors / home schools.

If you believe schools are needed for social experiences then they are are probably better taught in small classes.

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 17:10

Fearfulsaints · 31/10/2025 16:48

I guess some might respond to supported work placements. They'd still need to access social skills support and it think they would need access to all the additional sporr, pshe and enrichment that goes on in school.

I cant see employers taking on a bunch of 'mid range kids' without a lot of government incentive and funding.

They dont take them on with the current support in place.

Very little SEN programs in education have demonstrated outcomes.

Quite asides from the fact so so much SEN spending is not actually going where it is meant to. I've seen TAs walk out of the class with the child they were support ongoing "because the child wasn't engaging with them" (hmmm that's what your there for!) And very rarely do the TAs even know who they are meant to be supporting (ie the actual child that's paying their presence in class).

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 17:11

And yes kids dumped in a "nurture" class or group with entirely contradictory needs

Fearfulsaints · 31/10/2025 17:22

Icedlatteplease · 31/10/2025 17:10

They dont take them on with the current support in place.

Very little SEN programs in education have demonstrated outcomes.

Quite asides from the fact so so much SEN spending is not actually going where it is meant to. I've seen TAs walk out of the class with the child they were support ongoing "because the child wasn't engaging with them" (hmmm that's what your there for!) And very rarely do the TAs even know who they are meant to be supporting (ie the actual child that's paying their presence in class).

Im really not following you. What i think you have said is we should stop educating them at a younger age because its a waste of money, and normalise them working whilst knowing employers wont take them on.

Im trying to engage in good faith that employment might be a better option for some but I think it would need to be structured and well funded to succeed. Certainly supported internships exist for pupils with an ehcp at 16 and this coukd be introduced younger.

I cant see the point of replacing something that doesnt work with something else that also doesnt work because employers simply won't go for it.

CopperWhite · 31/10/2025 17:26

Elisheva · 31/10/2025 09:30

One of the issues is that all ND children are not the same and do not have the same needs. I worked in a school once where there were two ND children in a class. The guidance for one (ASD) said clear instructions, structured predictable timetable, warnings of transitions etc. The other (PDA) needed flexibility, instructions presented as choices, more of a go with the flow approach. All fine. Except the warnings of transitions for child 1 would set off child 2.
Same with the class with one child who made random, unpredictable noises and one who was upset by random unpredictable noises.
Same as the class with one child who needed to fidget in order to focus, distracting the other child who couldn’t focus next to a fidgety child.
All the children’s needs, on paper, are easy to meet. But when they are put in the melting pot of a mainstream classroom become a minefield of competing needs.

This X100!

So frequently, the equally important needs of two children with SN are in direct conflict with each other. That’s on top of the direct conflict that can be expected to happen with the needs of the majority of the class.

noblegiraffe · 31/10/2025 17:32

Perhaps we could send them up chimneys.

Young adult school leavers struggle to get jobs. All the jobs that teens used to do like paper rounds and shop work have been replaced by digital media, self-checkouts and Amazon. Adding a whole bunch of extra unqualified people onto the job market would just make the situation even worse.

ohdelay · 31/10/2025 17:39

Tickingcrocodile · 31/10/2025 09:34

As a primary teacher, I'd start by changing the curriculum. The KS1 curriculum is packed full of far too much stuff that should be left until later. It's also largely knowledge-based so lots more listening and retaining facts rather than hands-om exploration.

I have two autistic DC of secondary ahe and at that level I just think there needs to be a whole lot more flexibility. The prison-camp Michaela style approach is not helpful for ND children at all.

The Michaela approach would be perfect for my son with autism. He hates unpredictability and the behaviours of other kids, unexpected loud noises and yelling, shoving in the corridor, boy-play (headlocks, spit in hair and food, messing with his bag etc) unscheduled time. He has been in special and mainstream schools and he's thriving now at a very strict mainstream, focused on academics, with Michaela-lite principles.
One thing they don't tell you about special school (especially when they're non verbal when they start) is the constant low level violence between the kids. I didn't realise he'd been punched almost every day at his outstanding special school from the ages of 5-8 till he started speaking. It never appeared in the daily notes. Also they wrote him off academically and didn't allow any of the kids there (even the very verbal ones) to take SATs, yet he's now doing GCSEs and is predicted good grades.
Which just proves all ND are different and there is no one size fits all solution. A choice between strict and relaxed is good but there'll always be outliers.

Needlenardlenoo · 31/10/2025 18:21

I'd like to see more consideration of the studio school movement where students do core GCSEs and then a vocational qualification.

For instance, one school I looked at offers core GCSES (2 x English, Maths, 2 x Science) and then a choice of performing arts streams which result in a qualification worth 4 GCSEs.

I feel like it could suit my ADHD child well (much more movement; less sitting) but she's not keen on a school change for year 10.

However, studio schools often aren't full but maybe more choice could be offered without increasing costs by co-locating several school types on campuses and allowing an element of movement between them?

I think we could learn more from the Swiss system where students are on a high quality vocational track from early on.

And absolutely yes to restoring support services in real terms to where they were!

napody · 31/10/2025 18:35

Fearfulsaints · 31/10/2025 09:44

I dont think its possible. Some children will always need specialist provision.

I also dont think the challenge is a school for ND not working for NT, but a school that works for different presentations of ND.

i also think money is one of the big factors that have meant mainstream nd pupils have increasingly struggled. Like canaries in a mine, the ones with needs are signalling all is not right.

There are free things that can help too. Im not 100% defeatist.

i agree smaller classes (this is expensive) would help.

I agree taking a bit of content out the curriculum and a bit less high stakes testing (free)

More play would help, but SOME children who are nd need support to play and this needs to be built in (Free to low cost)

I think you could attempt to stream classes on sensory profiles as some children need calm and quiet, some need movement etc, some children are lethargic and need waking up, some are hyper and need calming. This might not cost more as its the same children distrubuted differently but it wouldn't work in tiny village schools.

Id also attach a SaLT and OT to every school and they would be in every week. Number of hours proportionate to the size of cohort.

It definitely would cost more to have that flexibility. You couldn't guarantee the numbers of each, and you couldn't have a class of the 30 children that need to move a lot in our current sized classrooms.

Most of the suggestions will cost more. And they need to. Education is an investment, not 'spending' in the same way other short term spends are.