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soupyspoon · 26/10/2025 15:37

ridl14 · 26/10/2025 15:33

Fantastic!

It would be very interesting if true, is it true? AI says this below but then AI sometimes gets things wrong

There is no evidence to suggest that having a Reform MP directly lowers house prices. The relationship between political parties and housing market performance is complex, with factors like election results, specific policies on taxes and development, and overall economic stability playing a much larger role. Reform's housing policies would likely affect property values through changes to leasehold and buy-to-let taxes, but a direct causal link from having an MP to lower prices is not established

FrauPaige · 26/10/2025 15:48

@soupyspoon This subject is very personal to you, isn't it

Sequinsoneverythingplease · 26/10/2025 15:49

soupyspoon · 26/10/2025 15:27

It bothered a lot of people when white people were over represented in adverts though, whats the difference?

Foreign people in adverts bothered Nigerians so much they banned them. Racist?

Sequinsoneverythingplease · 26/10/2025 15:52

FrauPaige · 26/10/2025 15:48

@soupyspoon This subject is very personal to you, isn't it

What makes you say that? Genuine question. Are you implying there’s some kind of character flaw driving their responses? I don’t see it myself.

soupyspoon · 26/10/2025 16:00

FrauPaige · 26/10/2025 15:48

@soupyspoon This subject is very personal to you, isn't it

Is it? How so?

soupyspoon · 26/10/2025 16:01

Sequinsoneverythingplease · 26/10/2025 15:52

What makes you say that? Genuine question. Are you implying there’s some kind of character flaw driving their responses? I don’t see it myself.

Me neither but I will wait to find out! Free character analysis on Mumsnet by a random stranger while I chomp on cake on the sofa this afternoon!!

DuncinToffee · 26/10/2025 16:04

Sequinsoneverythingplease · 26/10/2025 15:49

Foreign people in adverts bothered Nigerians so much they banned them. Racist?

Pochin was complaining about skin colour, not foreigners.

Notonthestairs · 26/10/2025 16:05

Sequinsoneverythingplease · 26/10/2025 15:49

Foreign people in adverts bothered Nigerians so much they banned them. Racist?

Not sure how you can link this to Pochins comments unless you think black and Asian actors are automatically foreign.

placemats · 26/10/2025 16:12

British people who have a different skin colour is very normal in this country.

How do people from outside the M25 cope when they visit London?

My great uncle visited London in the 1920s as a tourist from Northern Ireland to see his sisters and in a postcard home to his parents, his complaint was that the air was full of dust and soot. It's no longer thankfully called the big smoke because of Ulez and the clean air act.

TooBigForMyBoots · 26/10/2025 16:19

soupyspoon · 26/10/2025 14:56

If you dont notice the ethnicity of people in adverts then the advert isnt doing a very good job. Over the past 10 years the proportion of BME people in adverts has increased substantially to the degree that if you didnt know the proportion of ethnicities in the UK you would be confused when you saw people on the street, in towns and cities etc

There are reasons why there are higher numbers in adverts and programmes (less so prgrammes but its moving forward) but we shouldnt pretend it isnt noticed, the whole point is that it is noticed thats the point of it!!! Otherwise using different demographics to increase visability and diversity isnt working.

What is also interesting and many a thread on here has been about this, is that the proportion out of BME groups of black African/Caribbean heritage people is way misrepresented compared to Asian or ME heritage ethnicities. See also east Asian.

Of course the ad is doing a good job. It's selling a product not an ethnicity.

Like when there were all those racists complained about the Sainsbury's ad a few years ago. I saw and related to the family traditions aspect of Christmas, racists just went mad because the family was black.

As for people being confused at seeing white people IRL, catch yerself on.😂😂😂

soupyspoon · 26/10/2025 16:36

TooBigForMyBoots · 26/10/2025 16:19

Of course the ad is doing a good job. It's selling a product not an ethnicity.

Like when there were all those racists complained about the Sainsbury's ad a few years ago. I saw and related to the family traditions aspect of Christmas, racists just went mad because the family was black.

As for people being confused at seeing white people IRL, catch yerself on.😂😂😂

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I think you're reading into my post things that arent there. Im talking factually about human psychology of what we see, what we think we see and how advertisers use that to sell us things

So of course they are selling a product thats the point and the point is to use as many different groups as they can because then there is a wider buy in to the product. They're not stupid. Thats why I said the whole point of the advert is that you are noticed, you see yourself there, black, white, asian, ME, young, old, male female. They want as many buy ins as possible. But equally they want to still ensure they tailor their ad to the people who are likely to buy stuff from them. You dont see many adverts focused on women doing the DIY because although we do do DiY, its not as much as men do, we dont buy or are attracted to buy power tools. The psychology of advertising is hugely interesting.

And Im not sure what the emojis and 'catch yourself on' is meant to mean? Im talking about how a society does or doesnt see itself or someone outside of that society seeing itself. When I travel, which we do a lot, Im very keen and interested to see the local and national psyche and demographics, how do they function, who is included.

An example of this which is quite striking is that there was a programme recently with Eva Longaria going around Spain. While in Madrid she focused on the 'latin American' area of Madrid, talking about ex pats from latin America. The reason that is interesting is that we know the city very well and the latin American area she focused on was the very well to do one, there are other latin American sections of the city which are rough as guts, not so fancy, down at heel. Those are not the people represented on that programme. If you visited Madrid and walked around the city the obvious latin American demographics you would see are not the well heeled ones she was showing on the programme.

So if you didnt know the UK, you would think the UK had a huge BME population when in fact we dont. Call it confusion, call it any word you like which doesnt make you laugh but thats what Im talking about.

Saucery · 26/10/2025 16:47

So if you didnt know the UK, you would think the UK had a huge BME population when in fact we dont. Call it confusion, call it any word you like which doesnt make you laugh but thats what Im talking about.

But only if you exclusively watched adverts and nothing else, which is not happening.

MidnightMusing5 · 26/10/2025 17:05

soupyspoon · 26/10/2025 15:27

It bothered a lot of people when white people were over represented in adverts though, whats the difference?

Who did it bother? It tends to only bother white people. It weren’t a brown person who decided it , I bet.

CloudPop · 26/10/2025 17:08

Sugarpopsicle · 26/10/2025 12:30

I don’t think it’s fair to say that observing ethnicity is akin to racism.

She wasn’t “observing ethnicity” though. She was articulating how much it offends her.

Livpool · 26/10/2025 17:08

Endofyear · 26/10/2025 11:10

I do find this bizarre 😳 I can honestly say I don't notice the ethnicity of people in adverts, they're just people! Maybe it's because I'm 2nd generation immigrant myself and my husband is also, it's more normal to us? Do white people really sit there counting the number of brown and black people in adverts??

Well I never have!

Glad Reform are showing their true, racist colours. People will still vote for them though, racism brought to you by the genius behind Brexit

Mondaytuesdayhappydays · 26/10/2025 17:15

My DIL and her dark skinned black friends often ‘joke’ / comment that the black women in the adverts are usually light skinned, and mixed race with European features.
And that dark skinned black men are almost always paired with white women and cute mixed race children.
They find it unpalatable and can confirm that colourism is alive and well in not only their own community, but more widely on TV.

Arran2024 · 26/10/2025 17:43

I went to see the film After the Event last week- it is set at Yale University just outside New York, and one of the most noticeable aspects for me was that many of the students seem to be of Chinese descent. I take it that's how it really is there, which is interesting. Or did the fim makers decide to make a point? Thing is, you just don't know if what you are seeing on screen these days is reality or representation.

derxa · 26/10/2025 17:53

Not coming back @SerendipityJane ?

soupyspoon · 26/10/2025 17:54

MidnightMusing5 · 26/10/2025 17:05

Who did it bother? It tends to only bother white people. It weren’t a brown person who decided it , I bet.

You might be right but that doesnt negate my statement that many people were obviously bothered. And enough to make significant changes.

Either for political purposes (with a small p) or for monetary purposes (with a big M)

PGmicstand · 26/10/2025 17:55

Endofyear · 26/10/2025 11:10

I do find this bizarre 😳 I can honestly say I don't notice the ethnicity of people in adverts, they're just people! Maybe it's because I'm 2nd generation immigrant myself and my husband is also, it's more normal to us? Do white people really sit there counting the number of brown and black people in adverts??

No.I don't really watch tv with adverts, but as a white person who grew up in London in a racially diverse area, I welcome better representation. I've never understood why adverts and tv programmes were so full of white people

Bambamhoohoo · 26/10/2025 18:01

MidnightMusing5 · 26/10/2025 17:05

Who did it bother? It tends to only bother white people. It weren’t a brown person who decided it , I bet.

Why do you think this? I have had plenty of conversations with black colleagues and friends about representation and they believe (with varying degrees of passion) in its importance.

Shouldgivethisup · 26/10/2025 18:06

I think Peter Cardwell is terrific. So calm but made the point, subtly.

abracadabra1980 · 26/10/2025 18:11

@NeelyOHaraagree. For those who still watch TV ads, it has been noticeable for over a decade that nearly every family represented are depicted as mixed race. It is simply not proportional representation of the country as a whole. Everything is so London centric. Thats what pisses people off where I live.

CalmShaker · 26/10/2025 18:15

I don't think she said anything wrong in the slightest