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OneBadKitty · 04/10/2025 20:01

Functioningdisaster · 04/10/2025 19:04

Because what happened to him in Dubai was due to the mother of the daughter hated the fact a person of colour had sex with her daughter and as such waited till she left the country and then phoned the police. The actions here were racist and as such damaged a boy that hadn't been in trouble previously.

He wasn't the one driving . He was a passenger.

If he wasn't black I suspect neither situation would have happened to him.

Your comments are so ignorant.

You've no idea whether or not the mother of the girl reported him for racist reasons or not.

You also have no idea if he was courting trouble before the Dubai incident- you only know he had never been arrested before...

ERthree · 04/10/2025 20:08

Slightyamusedandsilly · 04/10/2025 11:36

She's really not. She wrecked his life.

How do you come back from being branded a sex offender? I mean, it might be possible, but for a kid? The head fcuk is off the scale. As is having been through the horrors of a jail in Dubai.

He broke the law not the Mother. His choice. Yes i think the punishment was harsh but you have to respect the laws of the land you are a visitor in.

FrauPaige · 04/10/2025 20:16

NamelessNancy · 04/10/2025 19:34

This thread is so upsetting. Imagine trying to come up with reasons that the death of a teenager is anything other than tragic. His poor, poor family.

Agreed

Lampzade · 04/10/2025 20:20

I don’t understand why some posters think it’s relevant to wonder if the young man had been in trouble before the Dubai incident even without any record of arrest
This line of thinking can unfairly suggest guilt without proof and contributes to biased narratives particularly around young black men
I am almost certain that if he had been a young white , middle class male many of the responses would have been different

NamelessNancy · 04/10/2025 20:22

Lampzade · 04/10/2025 20:20

I don’t understand why some posters think it’s relevant to wonder if the young man had been in trouble before the Dubai incident even without any record of arrest
This line of thinking can unfairly suggest guilt without proof and contributes to biased narratives particularly around young black men
I am almost certain that if he had been a young white , middle class male many of the responses would have been different

I agree. Besides which, even if a young person were to have been in trouble it shouldn't make it apparently OK for them to die!

TheCatsTongue · 04/10/2025 20:33

Marwaan Mohamed Huseen, of Argyle Road, Tottenham, has been charged over the fatal car crash.
The 19-year-old is charged with causing death by dangerous driving, driving without insurance, driving without a licence and failing to stop.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3e7yyjw77qo

So the police had good reason to stop the car as the driver had no licence, was driving dangerously (clearly has he hasn't got a licence).

Marcus Fakana is wearing a dark suit, white shirt, and tie stands indoors against a beige wall. He is facing the camera with his hands clasped in front of him. A door and light switch are visible on either side.

Marcus Fakana: Teen jailed in Dubai dies in London police chase

Marcus Fakana, who was jailed for having sex with a 17-year-old girl, dies after a pursuit in Tottenham.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3e7yyjw77qo

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 04/10/2025 20:37

The 19 year old driver is being charged with causing death by dangerous driving, driving without a licence or insurance, and failing to stop. So why anyone could be attaching any blame to the mother of the girl the boy had sex with in Dubai, is beyond me.

ohnonowwhat1 · 04/10/2025 20:52

We don’t know the part this poor boy played in his own death so talk of his ‘poor choices’ may be way off. He wasn’t in control of the alleged dangerous driving.

But even if it turns out he’d gone a little off the rails since returning from Dubai who can honestly blame him ? Vindictively reported and spent months in jail abroad, probably hugely angry and resentful on his return. If he had a criminal record probably hard to find work too. That mother ruined his life doing what she did.

i feel nothing but my greatest sympathies for him and his family.

Functioningdisaster · 04/10/2025 21:02

OneBadKitty · 04/10/2025 20:01

You've no idea whether or not the mother of the girl reported him for racist reasons or not.

You also have no idea if he was courting trouble before the Dubai incident- you only know he had never been arrested before...

I stand by my comment previously.

Your comments are ignorant.

FrauPaige · 04/10/2025 21:08

Chiseltip · 04/10/2025 13:55

Yeah, that's a very naive attitude.

The reason the police have to get involved in pursuits is that we/you would blame them if the people in the car went on to commit serious offences and the police didn't stop them.

Not stopping for police means only one thing. That you have something to hide.

Your last sentence is just astonishing. So criminals are not to be held accountable because they are criminals, we should lay the blame at the police instead?

The "easiest" one as you put it, would be to do nothing, it would be very easy for the police to just let them drive off. If they went on to break into your parents home, attack them, perhaps even murder them to steal their car, would you accept the police saying "well, someone might have got hurt if we tried to stop them?"

Incorrect. I invite you read up on section 172 notices.

Standard police alternative to pursuits, served by post, registered keeper has 28 days to respond with name of driver at time of failure to stop, 6 points/£1000 fine on non-answer, jail if like and pervert the course if justice.

So yes, they absolutely do have to consider whether "someone might have got hurt if we tried to stop them"

x2boys · 04/10/2025 21:38

The situation is heartbreaking a young man of 19 has lost his life I'm the parent of a nearly 19 year old ,it's every parents worse nightmare
And some posters can't help themselves bitching about him awful..

NamelessNancy · 04/10/2025 21:48

x2boys · 04/10/2025 21:38

The situation is heartbreaking a young man of 19 has lost his life I'm the parent of a nearly 19 year old ,it's every parents worse nightmare
And some posters can't help themselves bitching about him awful..

It's absolutely shameful, yet they obviously think themselves superior!

TheNightingalesStarling · 04/10/2025 21:50

He was one of two people killed in police pursuits last night, the other being in Yorkshire.

The sad fact is this is only "headline" news because of the previous case. He would just have been a statistic otherwise.

TheCatsTongue · 04/10/2025 22:09

FrauPaige · 04/10/2025 21:08

Incorrect. I invite you read up on section 172 notices.

Standard police alternative to pursuits, served by post, registered keeper has 28 days to respond with name of driver at time of failure to stop, 6 points/£1000 fine on non-answer, jail if like and pervert the course if justice.

So yes, they absolutely do have to consider whether "someone might have got hurt if we tried to stop them"

There was a 60 second chase and then the police lost sight of the car, they later found it slammed into the side of a truck.

If the car had stopped then this wouldn't have happened, but obviously the driver knew that he because he didn't have a licence etc he would be in trouble.

A lot of conjuncture in this thread, all based around the actions of the mother who originally reported him. Of the many "what ifs" no has considered that if the mother didn't break up the relationship it could've been her daughter in that car too.

Soontobe60 · 04/10/2025 22:58

powershowerforanhour · 04/10/2025 18:27

But there are more than twice as many people who identify as Asian/British Asian in UK as there are Black people. So are the cops going particularly gently on Asian people?
Or is this "assuming constant demographic profiles" a false assumption?

It’s a quote from the report I linked.

Soontobe60 · 04/10/2025 23:00

FrauPaige · 04/10/2025 21:08

Incorrect. I invite you read up on section 172 notices.

Standard police alternative to pursuits, served by post, registered keeper has 28 days to respond with name of driver at time of failure to stop, 6 points/£1000 fine on non-answer, jail if like and pervert the course if justice.

So yes, they absolutely do have to consider whether "someone might have got hurt if we tried to stop them"

Surely that assumes the owner actually knows who was driving their car - which may have been stolen.

SumUp · 04/10/2025 23:05

What sad news.

I feel really sorry for his family.

nomas · 04/10/2025 23:21

Functioningdisaster · 04/10/2025 21:02

I stand by my comment previously.

Your comments are ignorant.

You’re standing by a comment for which you have no proof? Isn’t that ignorance?

Timeforabitofpeace · 05/10/2025 00:06

That is really sad. I have nothing nasty to add.

FrauPaige · 05/10/2025 00:06

Soontobe60 · 04/10/2025 23:00

Surely that assumes the owner actually knows who was driving their car - which may have been stolen.

In the quite different circumstances where the car has been reported stolen, the pursuit would likely be authorised as the police would be attempting to apprehend a criminal. A dynamic risk assessment would be made based on the risk to the safety of the general public of the pursuit vs the harm the offender poses to the public (a suspected armed robber would pose significant risk to the public, for example).

In Marcus's case, the driver of the car has not been charged with aggravated vehicle taking or any other charges relating to vehicle theft.

Driving without a license or insurance is a minor breach of the law and would not be treated in the same way as vehicle theft.

eulittleb831 · 05/10/2025 02:44

Any attacks in the direction of the Morher who reported that her daughter had illegal sex in Dubai with, in Law, an adult are shameful. When any person, particularly when young, loses their life it is sad; to vilify a Mother who reported a crime, found to be proven, in these circumstances, is deplorable. Everything and anything is conjecture other than what the driver has been charged with, and that one person is dead after a short police pursuit.

persephonia · 05/10/2025 02:56

WolfingtonBear · 04/10/2025 10:36

It is not biased or racist to wonder why a young man would repeatedly put himself in risky situations. They are completely normal thought processes..

It does not detract from the sadness of the loss of a young life, and how regrettable his death is.

Because he's a young man?
Putting themselves in risky situation is what young men do. That's not the same as hurting others. There's no evidence he's done anything that makes him a bad person or that hurt other people. He wasn't even the one driving the car. Even if he was it would still be a tragedy.

He's a teenage boy who died tragically.

RingoJuice · 05/10/2025 06:10

persephonia · 05/10/2025 02:56

Because he's a young man?
Putting themselves in risky situation is what young men do. That's not the same as hurting others. There's no evidence he's done anything that makes him a bad person or that hurt other people. He wasn't even the one driving the car. Even if he was it would still be a tragedy.

He's a teenage boy who died tragically.

Tbh dying in a car crash is not unusual. And yes, they should have stopped and the driver will surely be punished for that.

But it’s very sad for his family that it happened just months after release.

Lampzade · 05/10/2025 09:23

x2boys · 04/10/2025 21:38

The situation is heartbreaking a young man of 19 has lost his life I'm the parent of a nearly 19 year old ,it's every parents worse nightmare
And some posters can't help themselves bitching about him awful..

My son is also 19. I can’t imagine what his parents are going through
Some comments on here are shameful

Meadowfinch · 05/10/2025 09:40

eulittleb831 · 05/10/2025 02:44

Any attacks in the direction of the Morher who reported that her daughter had illegal sex in Dubai with, in Law, an adult are shameful. When any person, particularly when young, loses their life it is sad; to vilify a Mother who reported a crime, found to be proven, in these circumstances, is deplorable. Everything and anything is conjecture other than what the driver has been charged with, and that one person is dead after a short police pursuit.

But it wasn't a crime by British standards. It was consensual sex between a 17yo and an 18yo. The girl returned to the UK. There was no reason for the mother to report it at all, and she only did so once her child was safely back in the UK.

She wanted UK law for her child, but UAE law for the boy. Hypocrisy & double standards in every way.

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