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Why was it mostly men on the march?

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noblegiraffe · 14/09/2025 09:48

I've seen quite a few photos of the march yesterday, and they pretty much all look like the one below. Vast majority men. Why is that? Why is Robinson's patriot messaging and call-to-action landing mostly with men and not women?

Voting by sex wasn't massively different in the last general election - men were certainly more likely to vote Reform, but not by a huge amount, so generally politically we're not that different.

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juldan · 14/09/2025 12:31

CupOTeaFather · 14/09/2025 11:24

I would have loved to have been there, but with three young children it wasn't really practical. I was there in spirit. My husband and I watched the live feed and there were plenty of women and non- white people there. People standing up for British values and free speech.

I am certainly not a far-right thug, nor is my husband. I expect most people would describe us as middle class, and we have friends from different backgrounds/ religions including Islam.

However, I genuinely can't understand how some people don't have a problem with the rapidly changing culture of Britain. If you like anything about this country and it's people, you need to act now. Many of our major cities are now no-go areas for white Britons.

Most muslims in particular do not want to 'integrate' into our society/ culture. They view the west in general as sinful. Our culture is beneath them quite simply. This was confirmed to me by a close friend who is a moderate muslim and fully 'integrated'.

We recently had cause to visit Rotherham for eldest DCs sporting event. The scenes we saw there there were truly disgusting. Pakistani men in their 20s, 30's, 40's and older with young white teenage girls clearly drunk/ on drugs, being treated like pieces of meat.

Tommy Robinson (with the help of Elon Musk) has been instrumental in exposing the muslim rage gangs. Please watch his film on this and see if you still think he's the bad guy.

@CupOTeaFather

That is not true for most Muslims. I work in school where around 30% of students are Muslims and have not seen any of them not integrating. We are multicultural school and most friendship groups seem inter faith/ inter racial. Usually “good” kids stick together and “ naughty” kids stick together regardless of religion or race. Yes, some girls wear scarves and specific clothes on non uniform days, but that does not mean they are not integrating in the society.
I wear a cross and attend a Catholic Church. Should I join CoE instead?

Academically, the worst performing group in England are now white boys eligible for free school meals, which means they are the ones most likely to end up unemployed or in low paying jobs, so I don’t think the Muslims are the problem for our society.

Just to add. Yes, Elon Musk was very vocal about the Muslim grooming gangs, but I don’t remember him being as vocal about Epstein’s grooming gang, which was ran by a white multimillionaire.

EdithBond · 14/09/2025 12:32

viques · 14/09/2025 12:02

I don’t recognise Whitechapel as you describe it to be honest! Yes there is a high proportion of Somali / Bengali families living there, it is an area that has always been popular with new immigrant populations for several hundred years, ( a hundred years ago you would have been commenting on how many Jewish people you saw and how the men ‘ stared’ at you) but it is also home to many other cultures, including white metrosexual yuppies. It has a long very popular market which means more people are out and about on the street, but that happens in any area which has a street market, and there are plenty of those in London.

Same. I’ve always found it friendly and have never been stared at by men.

Whitechapel also historically had other immigrant communities: French Huguenots, Irish, and Germans (was known as “Little Germany” at one time).

Lots of people go to Whitechapel to socialise: lots of shop, bars and eateries.

In fact, lots of people go there because of the South Asian community, to the fantastic South-Asian restaurants, such as in Brick Lane area.

To go to a major international city, which was historically a major seaport, and complain there are immigrant communities is like going to the Sahara and complaining about the heat. Of course major cities have immigrant communities. They always have.

PandoraSocks · 14/09/2025 12:32

2dogsandabudgie · 14/09/2025 12:21

Do you seriously think that what happened at Rotherham has been embellished? I watched the documentary on it and those poor girls who weren't believed. Even as adults you could see how traumatised they still were.

That's a disgusting thing to say.

That is NOT what JHound was saying. They were saying the pp's story about a visit to Rotherham was embellished.

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lifeonmars100 · 14/09/2025 12:34

because when the men get back they will be expecting their tea on the table like the 1950's they are apparently pining for 😁. Or maybe women don't want to be in a march that has the potential for violence, I am sure there are loads of women who share Yaxley Lennon's/Robinson's views and think he is a persecuted hero but why they don't march in greater numbers is anyone's guess. Katie Hopkins was marching at the front so perhaps women who might have gone were happy to be represented by her. I was amused by South African US citizen Elon Musk's call for the dissolution of the UK parliament, I guess some (very rich) foreigners are more equal than others. i would think that Elon is donating generous amounts to Yaxley Lennon

WhatHoJeeves · 14/09/2025 12:40

So depressed and sad at the hatred and division and violence spreading in the country and the world. I thought we were better. I'm so sorry for my child, having to navigate this new world, which lacks kindness and rejects differences. I have never felt so frightened and hopeless. I wonder if this is how people felt in the years before World War II, seeing fascism take hold?

2dogsandabudgie · 14/09/2025 12:41

darklady64 · 14/09/2025 12:31

OK, for balance, I was at the other march. As we passed along the Strand to go to Whitehall for the speakers, many men had waited along the road for our march to pass. I was told "I hope you get cancer and die, you cunt." Among other gems. But even though these men walked alongside us, spouting abuse, it was OK and we all passed into our end of Whitehall fine. And freedom of speech, right? Then a bunch from the other march tried to get into "our" end of Whitehall down the side streets, and stood shouting and screaming abuse for a while before they got bored and wandered off. But that didn't feel "peaceful, happy and humorous". As I was leaving, I couldn't get near Charing Cross or Waterloo as it had all been blocked off by large numbers of flag waving folk who had left their demonstration to walk quite a way up towards ours, and it were, shall we say, a little bit confrontational. So much so that as I was coming across the front of the National Gallery, there were police in helmets running down towards the Strand.

But in answer to the original question, I saw some women there, and even a few families with all the kids. And on the way home I shared trains with lots of flag-wearing groups who were all ecstatic at how their day had gone. But again, I wouldn't call what they were shouting and singing exactly peaceful or humorous.

I have never felt threatened in my home city before, not anywhere, and yesterday I did. Make of that what you will.

This is why I think protest groups should each have their own day. I can't understand why the two opposing sides were allowed to be so close to each other. It just makes it harder for the police. TR could have had his march yesterday and the counter group their march next Saturday. Anyone from either group who turned up at the other's should be arrested.

Less trouble that way.

Uricon2 · 14/09/2025 12:41

i would think that Elon is donating generous amounts to Yaxley Lennon

Yes @lifeonmars100 , another thing the shining defender of British values has been in trouble for, potential misappropriation of donations, in the quite recent past

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-leeds-61753172

2dogsandabudgie · 14/09/2025 12:42

PandoraSocks · 14/09/2025 12:32

That is NOT what JHound was saying. They were saying the pp's story about a visit to Rotherham was embellished.

And how would she know exactly unless she was there at the time.

SigmundinaCafe · 14/09/2025 12:42

CraftyNavySeal · 14/09/2025 10:08

There are more left wing women without kids. The birth rates of urban lefties is very low.

I was going to say exactly this.

The pro-Palestine women I know in my (old) social circle are all middle aged women, single, no children and with a lot of time on their hands.

They also all claim to be "feminists," yet when Hamas committed horrific rapes and sexual mutilation against women on October 7th, they looked the other way-until the evidence became undeniable (even the UN was forced to acknowledge it). Then, instead of condemning the atrocities, they pivoted and shrugged it off, as if women's suffering doesn't matter when Israel is involved. Go figure.

Donttellempike · 14/09/2025 12:45

CookiesAreForSharing · 14/09/2025 11:52

I was on the train heading into London yesterday. It was packed with families and also men on their own, also women going in groups - all were going to the march. I know this because they were all discussing it and where to congregate/how long it was going to be etc. Most had flags and unfurled them either on the train and wore them getting off, then onto the tube. I actually (no idea how I was so ignorant) did not know the march was on, so I was looking it up when I got to the city. Young kids of around 10 were wrapping flags round their shoulders. I saw flags on prams. So a real mix and definitely not just men. They all seemed to be sane and sensible average run-of-the-mill people!

Yes. This really happened 😂😂😂😂😂

Theunamedcat · 14/09/2025 12:45

Was it peaceful?

PlanetJanette · 14/09/2025 12:46

Incidentally there is lots of evidence of women being less likely to be far right than men, so the absence of women shouldn’t be a surprise - and I don’t think it is just down to childcare/safety fears.

Historically in the UK women leaned slightly more towards the right than men but that started to shift in the 80s and by the 90s there was pretty much no gap in voting intention between women and men. But the pendulum kept moving and women are now (and particularly under Corbyn) much more likely to vote Labour than Tory or Reform.

But the gap when it comes to far right politics is much more stark. 90% of prevent referees for extreme right views were of men - more than referrals for Islamist extremism for example.

Plenty of legitimate hypotheses as to why that would be the case - I don’t know what the real reason is but I imagine it is a combination of things:

-women (esp younger women) more likely now to have higher educational attainment than men which is a main predictor of far right sentiment;

-women have disproportionately benefited from internationalist views - pay equality, maternity protections etc all have strong EU origins.

-the far right movement is close to interchangeable with extremely anti woman manosphere politics that wants women back in their place and denuded of rights.

-women are statistically more likely to be primary carers of both children and the elderly, as well as work in ‘care’ sectors etc. So more likely to be at the coalface of public services and more concerned with ‘bread and butter’ issues than more abstract concerns around flags and patriotism.

LizzyEm · 14/09/2025 12:47

CupOTeaFather · 14/09/2025 11:24

I would have loved to have been there, but with three young children it wasn't really practical. I was there in spirit. My husband and I watched the live feed and there were plenty of women and non- white people there. People standing up for British values and free speech.

I am certainly not a far-right thug, nor is my husband. I expect most people would describe us as middle class, and we have friends from different backgrounds/ religions including Islam.

However, I genuinely can't understand how some people don't have a problem with the rapidly changing culture of Britain. If you like anything about this country and it's people, you need to act now. Many of our major cities are now no-go areas for white Britons.

Most muslims in particular do not want to 'integrate' into our society/ culture. They view the west in general as sinful. Our culture is beneath them quite simply. This was confirmed to me by a close friend who is a moderate muslim and fully 'integrated'.

We recently had cause to visit Rotherham for eldest DCs sporting event. The scenes we saw there there were truly disgusting. Pakistani men in their 20s, 30's, 40's and older with young white teenage girls clearly drunk/ on drugs, being treated like pieces of meat.

Tommy Robinson (with the help of Elon Musk) has been instrumental in exposing the muslim rage gangs. Please watch his film on this and see if you still think he's the bad guy.

They won't though, their prejudice won't allow them to.

PlanetJanette · 14/09/2025 12:47

2dogsandabudgie · 14/09/2025 12:41

This is why I think protest groups should each have their own day. I can't understand why the two opposing sides were allowed to be so close to each other. It just makes it harder for the police. TR could have had his march yesterday and the counter group their march next Saturday. Anyone from either group who turned up at the other's should be arrested.

Less trouble that way.

Not really how freedom of assembly and the right to protest works though

PandoraSocks · 14/09/2025 12:48

2dogsandabudgie · 14/09/2025 12:42

And how would she know exactly unless she was there at the time.

I think it is fair to take the claims with a rather large pinch of salt, given the fact that the poster concerned is trying to direct people to Yaxley-Lennon material (and is presenting him as a hero).

YMMV.

nixon1976 · 14/09/2025 12:50

StewkeyBlue · 14/09/2025 10:04

Because they are essentially thugs.

I drove past a pub in Woolwich / Greenwich (The Angerstein Hotel, I think) absolutely teeming with them yesterday evening . Hundreds of them all dressed in black, all men, Police riot vans across the road.

They just get reincarnated: skinheads, football hooligans, ‘protecting the cenotaph’ and now apparently uniting the Kingdom.

And the fact that they are all men should in itself raise questions.

I am not saying that women don’t hold far right / anti immigration views but this is thugs jumping in a bandwagon.

It’s not to do with childcare

Childcare doesn’t stop the Palestine marches week after week, where women are prominent.

This

EdithBond · 14/09/2025 12:52

CupOTeaFather · 14/09/2025 12:16

Sadly not, just what we saw when we went out to eat in the evening (it was an overnight stay). But if it makes you feel better, stick your fingers in your ears and sing la-la-la!

Most muslims in particular do not want to 'integrate' into our society/ culture.

Could you explain:

  • How you define ‘our society/culture’? Some examples?
  • The evidence (other than one anecdote) for your assertion that ‘most’ Muslims don’t want to be part of it.
  • The evidence that recent immigrants who are Muslim are made to feel welcome and encouraged to be part of the society/culture.
2dogsandabudgie · 14/09/2025 12:53

Donttellempike · 14/09/2025 12:45

Yes. This really happened 😂😂😂😂😂

Why not, if you look at some of the earlier photos before the march started, people looked really happy draped in union jacks and St. George's flags, there was a photo of one man riding a Penny Farthing so I can believe that there were families there at the start.

But then once the march started and the two opposing groups were close to each other, tempers would have flared and that's when trouble starts.

There were so many people there that I can imagine some people were with groups of people where it was good natured. You always get a small group no matter what the protest who only go to cause trouble.

2dogsandabudgie · 14/09/2025 12:54

PlanetJanette · 14/09/2025 12:47

Not really how freedom of assembly and the right to protest works though

No but it's the police who I feel sorry for.

Crikeyalmighty · 14/09/2025 12:55

@Usernameunavailableagain12 somewhat like the anti Brexit marches on London then !! Strange when you don’t like it if it hits your kind of politics

2dogsandabudgie · 14/09/2025 12:57

PandoraSocks · 14/09/2025 12:48

I think it is fair to take the claims with a rather large pinch of salt, given the fact that the poster concerned is trying to direct people to Yaxley-Lennon material (and is presenting him as a hero).

YMMV.

Edited

No idea what YMMV means, is that another code.

sciaticafanatica · 14/09/2025 12:57

@StewkeyBlueso it’s good that women can go to marches that support a terrorist organisation that raped women and killed children but better they couldn’t manage an anti immigration rally?

FlayOtters · 14/09/2025 12:59

Usernameunavailableagain12 · 14/09/2025 09:58

I wish I was there, wouldn’t have gone though. It was great to see it online, they held a minutes silence for Charlie Kirk and honoured him so beautifully. I see the media tried to down play the number of people in attendance 😂

ew.

sciaticafanatica · 14/09/2025 12:59

@2dogsandabudgieit means your mileage may vary

CupOTeaFather · 14/09/2025 12:59

juldan · 14/09/2025 12:31

@CupOTeaFather

That is not true for most Muslims. I work in school where around 30% of students are Muslims and have not seen any of them not integrating. We are multicultural school and most friendship groups seem inter faith/ inter racial. Usually “good” kids stick together and “ naughty” kids stick together regardless of religion or race. Yes, some girls wear scarves and specific clothes on non uniform days, but that does not mean they are not integrating in the society.
I wear a cross and attend a Catholic Church. Should I join CoE instead?

Academically, the worst performing group in England are now white boys eligible for free school meals, which means they are the ones most likely to end up unemployed or in low paying jobs, so I don’t think the Muslims are the problem for our society.

Just to add. Yes, Elon Musk was very vocal about the Muslim grooming gangs, but I don’t remember him being as vocal about Epstein’s grooming gang, which was ran by a white multimillionaire.

Edited

I can't speak for everyone. It's my experience of many, not all Muslims and I'm talking about adults not school children.

Yes, Elon Musk has been vocal in critising Trump for not releasing the Epstein files.