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Witches - spell help

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lastminutetrip · 14/08/2025 11:09

Hey, looking for some advice as in all the years of spell work I have never had this happen before.

i did a spell on the full moon, all very well intentioned, to help me save money. I lit a candle in a special place to me, set my intention, and the candle blew out quite quickly. It was near a window, so I took it to mean spell completed ie wish made.

i took the candle home and lit it again later on the lionsgate portal night to strengthen my resolve. The wax kind of dripped on to my finger and burned me a lot. I’ve never had that happen before. I looked it up and some say it’s a warning (what can it be warning me about, it’s literally just to make me save money 😂) or - very differing view - the spell needed some kind of karmic or energy payment from me, and I “paid” with the burn to add strength and resolve to the spell.

any thoughts? I’ve done this a long time and never cast bad or ill intentioned spells so I don’t know what this was about! Has someone hexed me?

blessed be x

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Velmy · 17/08/2025 00:54

Notfeelinguptoit · 16/08/2025 22:03

How do YOU know it’s a fact though?

Why does it matter to you personally if somebody else that you’ll never meet in real life holds these beliefs so much to you?
Why is it offending you so much that you feel the need to call them out on it and shame them?

How do YOU know it’s a fact though?

Well, the burden of proof is on the person making the claim. If someone says they can cast a magic spell, it's not on me to prove that they can't, it's up to them to prove that they can. Otherwise we'd have to blindly believe anything.

Hitchin's Razor: "That which can be asserted without evidence, can be dismissed without evidence.”

Nobody has ever been able to evidence the existence of magic spells. Ever. And that's a fact.

Why does it matter to you personally if somebody else that you’ll never meet in real life holds these beliefs so much to you?

It doesn't. As I said in a PP, it fascinates me. I love learning about different sub-cultures, why they think and act like they do. What leads people to identify with them.

And as much as you can learn by reading, I've found the best way to do it is to speak to the people involved. But it has to be a two-way conversation. I think it's important to challenge people on their views, rather than just nodding along. I might change their mind. They might change mine, which I'm extremely open to!

Why is it offending you so much that you feel the need to call them out on it and shame them?

It's not offending me at all, I'm not sure what's given you that impression.

I would absolutely love someone to prove that magic is real. Can you imagine? It would literally undo everything we know about the world, our history, science. It could help us understand all manner of so-far unexplained things.

I haven't shamed anyone. I've joined in a discussion on a discussion board because it's something that interests me. If someone takes a perfectly emotionless, rational statement about their hobby/belief as a personal insult, that's on them.

But it speaks to my point; if I'm wrong, why has nobody even attempted to change my mind? Why has the default response been to accuse me of shaming people?

I expect that some of you do genuinely believe that you can cast spells, and don't care what people like me think. I also believe that many of you simply want to indulge in the fantasy with like-minded people, and that's why you take it so personally when someone bursts the bubble.

I find both incredibly interesting.

Velmy · 17/08/2025 01:08

Laurmolonlabe · 16/08/2025 21:06

We are not talking about facts we are talking about belief systems, there are no facts in the case either way. Just as it is unhelpful to you and the person you are criticising to tell them their god is not real- it is a matter of belief, exactly the same is true of Wicca and spell work- there are no facts just belief, telling everyone you don't believe in Wicca and spell work is just downright uninteresting, and best kept to yourself.

telling everyone you don't believe in Wicca and spell work is just downright uninteresting, and best kept to yourself.

If everyone kept their thoughts to themselves we'd never learn anything.

If what I'm saying isn't interesting to you, you don't have to respond.

We are not talking about facts we are talking about belief systems

You can't separate the two. People are claiming to be able to cast spells, and expecting people to believe that as fact. I'm saying that they can't, regardless of what they believe.

Plenty of people live by the Christian belief system, while accepting that nobody actually turned water into wine or cured leppers.

Commonsensemom · 17/08/2025 04:27

I think the witchpromiting brigade are on a mission ….. 🤣 seen a lot of people ruin their lives with this crap , I’m out , 🙄won’t be answering anymore of your teaching sessions , night and god bless

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

Velmy · 17/08/2025 04:34

Emonade · 16/08/2025 23:42

I don’t think you are genuinely interested

Then you'd be wrong.

Mere1 · 17/08/2025 07:28

Mere1 · 15/08/2025 22:52

Austen

Spell help….

Laurmolonlabe · 17/08/2025 07:44

Belief systems and facts are two completely different things- one may inform the other or not. Your example of Christians believing without believing in miracles is spurious- if you don't believe Christ died on the cross and rose again you are not a Christian- if that's not a miracle what is? Check your Creed.

SirRaymondClench · 17/08/2025 10:39

Mere1 · 17/08/2025 07:28

Spell help….

Have you finished? I've already explained I'm Dyslexic yet you keep coming for me after one auto-correct. You're disgusting.
Get a life.

Mere1 · 17/08/2025 11:15

SirRaymondClench · 17/08/2025 10:39

Have you finished? I've already explained I'm Dyslexic yet you keep coming for me after one auto-correct. You're disgusting.
Get a life.

Edited

It was a light hearted joke. Spell help. The theme was spells.
I’m after no one.

TheRobotsAreComing · 17/08/2025 13:12

Come to Jesus. He will transform your life and give you more money and teachings of money than you could dream of. Witchcraft will always make you pay it back, Jesus would never.

SirRaymondClench · 17/08/2025 13:57

Mere1 · 17/08/2025 11:15

It was a light hearted joke. Spell help. The theme was spells.
I’m after no one.

Apologies for snapping. Got out of bed on the wrong side today, it's been a very rough week. x

SirRaymondClench · 17/08/2025 13:59

TheRobotsAreComing · 17/08/2025 13:12

Come to Jesus. He will transform your life and give you more money and teachings of money than you could dream of. Witchcraft will always make you pay it back, Jesus would never.

Lots of Witches use psalms and the bible to work magick.

There is no paying it back for using Witchcraft.

Kreepture · 17/08/2025 14:15

TheRobotsAreComing · 17/08/2025 13:12

Come to Jesus. He will transform your life and give you more money and teachings of money than you could dream of. Witchcraft will always make you pay it back, Jesus would never.

i used to be christian, went to church, sang for God and my soul, then i studied christian philosophy, the problem of god how he cannot be omnipotent, omniscient and omnipresent all at once, because he clearly either doesn't care about the pain in the world, or can't do anything about it... i learned of free will & determination.. and was told my mentally ill cousin who killed himself would rot in hell by a priest i went to for help. My eyes were opened to what a HUGE problem your faith is and sought answers to my questions elsewhere, and got them.

Your religion is so corrupt it would make jesus weep if he saw it now.

I'll stick to being Pagan thanks.

Kreepture · 17/08/2025 14:16

Commonsensemom · 17/08/2025 04:27

I think the witchpromiting brigade are on a mission ….. 🤣 seen a lot of people ruin their lives with this crap , I’m out , 🙄won’t be answering anymore of your teaching sessions , night and god bless

tata.

Soberinthecity · 17/08/2025 15:32

BunniB · 14/08/2025 11:34

@IHateWasps ok wasp-hater (what’s that all about? Don’t the wasps have a right to exist too?) we don’t need your skepticism here.

I’m sorry that you don’t believe in anything at all, you are missing out on the wonderful power of the human mind and all that it can accomplish. Of course sometimes that backfires and people go down the wrong path, but when belief is channelled in the right direction it can achieve incredible things.

Let the OP have her beliefs. There is no need to be scornful and unkind about it.

But that’s her thing: she literally has the word “hate” in her moniker

IHateWasps · 17/08/2025 15:39

Soberinthecity · 17/08/2025 15:32

But that’s her thing: she literally has the word “hate” in her moniker

That’s a reach that even a brontosaurus couldn’t make. I don’t actually hate wasps. They aren’t my favourite but I don’t mind them all that much and appreciate how important they are to the ecosystem. I like lots of things too and some of those are incorporated into my long list of user names but none of them define my whole personality.

Soberinthecity · 17/08/2025 15:43

IHateWasps · 17/08/2025 15:39

That’s a reach that even a brontosaurus couldn’t make. I don’t actually hate wasps. They aren’t my favourite but I don’t mind them all that much and appreciate how important they are to the ecosystem. I like lots of things too and some of those are incorporated into my long list of user names but none of them define my whole personality.

Good for you.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 17/08/2025 15:47

IHateWasps · 17/08/2025 15:39

That’s a reach that even a brontosaurus couldn’t make. I don’t actually hate wasps. They aren’t my favourite but I don’t mind them all that much and appreciate how important they are to the ecosystem. I like lots of things too and some of those are incorporated into my long list of user names but none of them define my whole personality.

I hate the smell of petrol.

I still think ‘magick’ is complete nonsense and should be argued in the right place as being nonsense. And Chat threads on MN are as good a place as any.

IHateWasps · 17/08/2025 15:51

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 17/08/2025 15:47

I hate the smell of petrol.

I still think ‘magick’ is complete nonsense and should be argued in the right place as being nonsense. And Chat threads on MN are as good a place as any.

I’m with you on that.

MelonSurprises · 18/08/2025 07:36

IHateWasps · 14/08/2025 11:20

It’s chat not The Unexplained so I’ll feel free to comment on it if I wish thank you.

This nonsense is harmful, not innocent at all.

Please orient yourself towards joy / find love

MelonSurprises · 18/08/2025 07:39

IHateWasps · 14/08/2025 11:25

No it doesn’t work at all. People do plenty of things repeatedly that don’t work like pray to non existent beings and become involved in pyramid schemes that will never make them any real money in spite of it blatantly not working. That people keep doing it just shows how deluded they are and how this sort of nonsense sucks the gullible and vulnerable in.

As for open minded, believing in blatant nonsense is foolishness not being open minded. There’s not a shred of evidence for this.

The next time that an item goes missing in my home I could consider that Peter the Purple Pixie who may live in my garden may have taken it but people would rightly look at me like I’m an idiot if I went into the garden to ask him to give it back instead of looking in my home for the item that I’ve misplaced.

It seems you have had hard times in the past - I wish you to soften

MelonSurprises · 18/08/2025 07:41

MagpiePi · 14/08/2025 11:36

Of course sometimes that backfires and people go down the wrong path, but when belief is channelled in the right direction it can achieve incredible things.

Sounds awfully like this is drifting into curing cancer with the power of positive thinking.

And what? You are aware on the vast wealth of evidence linking mindset to outcomes, in various areas of health?

Mollypolly123 · 18/08/2025 07:59

Well I do believe in this, but it's from a very bad source , read the Bible , it's a spiritual con that will mislead you and all others that do it ,

Kreepture · 18/08/2025 13:05

Mollypolly123 · 18/08/2025 07:59

Well I do believe in this, but it's from a very bad source , read the Bible , it's a spiritual con that will mislead you and all others that do it ,

have you actually read the bible? The whole thing, cover to cover? As in yourself, reading it like a book, not just the snippets the Priests choose to read/confirmation studies make you look at?
I have.. both the KVJ version and a youth copy. The whole faith is bullshit quite frankly, made up by men to control people.

Do you have ANY idea how much 'magic' made up Catholicism and early Anglican practice? I do.. i've researched it.

MelonSurprises · 18/08/2025 18:26

Velmy · 16/08/2025 17:17

Yet you believe most of the “stories” about religion.

Do we? I certainly don't. I don't know anyone who does, atheist, Christian, Muslim...

You wouldn’t say these things to someone who believed in Islam, Christianity or Judaism

Of course I would, and I have. If someone looked me dead in the eye and told me that Jesus actually turned water into wine, or Moses parted the Red Sea, I would tell them that was plainly nonsense.

I certainly wouldn't criticize someone for simply following any of those faiths, living their lives in accordance with their teachings etc. Infact I admire people who have the strength of character to stick to them.

But completely ok to bring someone down for their beliefs in spells

Spells aren't real. You can't cast spells. I'm not bringing anybody down by pointing that out. If I believe with all my heart that I can fly, tell everyone I know that I can fly, and find a community of people who will reinforce that belief, it doesn't change the fact that I can't fly.

If you're obsessed with someone to the point you're 'casting spells' to help/inconvenience them, for example, you will surely notice something nice/inconvenient happen to them at some point, but correlation is not causation.

To go back to your point about 'You wouldn't say that to a Christian/Jew/Muslim', I consider it no different to someone praying for an illness to be cured, having medical treatment and crediting the recovery to the prayers. You can believe it all you want, but that doesn't make it true.

You are mostly right, but also a bit wrong - largely because you seem trapped in a western masculine worldview

Sharkpenis · 18/08/2025 18:35

My ex husband was into this, absolutely batshit man doing spells, overtime he used this pagan witch shit as a type of religious abuse.

He was an Abuser, a rapist and a paedophile. The wax burnt your finger because it melted from the flame and was hot.

Oh and he now has decided hes a woman. Weirdest person ive ever met. The witch stuff was insane.