Bog standard childbirth can take up to a year to recover from. Add in complications and for many full recovery is not possible.
Pregnancy, whilst not an illness, is debilitating for loads of women - the sickness, the whole carrying a growing baby 24/7 and the bodily and hormonal strain that causes. Then the birth. Yikes the birth.
I don’t understand why so many go out of their way to dismiss and minimise the toll that pregnancy and birth takes on a woman, and that’s even before you start parenting, the early stressful newborn days, the sleepless nights, and often dealing with it alone, even when they’re in a relationship.
Then when you work it’s still mothers who bear the brunt of sick days, parenting duties etc. I honestly think your unfortunately popular take on it is a sanitised, men’s view of parenting. Designed to be yet another stick to beat women with.