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What’s the weirdest thing society accepts as normal?

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ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

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chaosmaker · 17/07/2025 01:03

Engagebrain · 13/07/2025 15:40

Yes! I always used to say in clubs, "imagine if there was no music playing and we're all just bobbing about on the dancefloor"🤣

Haven't been to a silent disco?

chaosmaker · 17/07/2025 01:16

People leaving words out of sentences. Do they think it makes them sound clever because it does the opposite and makes them hard to understand. I see it a lot on here.

ai

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YourOnMute · 17/07/2025 01:31

Fathers who walk away from their children, don't support them financially and maintain no or minimal contact.
But "she doesn't let him see the kids" 🙄

llizzie · 17/07/2025 01:36

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 16/07/2025 22:37

But, given the article that I heard on the radio today about "how unfair it is that women end up with smaller workplace pensions than men" there is a level of entitlement that is hurting the cause.

For sure, complain that women are expected to work on days when they're hurting - even campaign that they should be allowed 4 days off a month more than men or post-menopause women, but someone will then come along and complain about the gender pay gap, or the pension pay gap, because women's average incomes will drop.

So, perhaps the fact that you recognise that these things, and taking time out for children should be personal choices that women have agency over is a really good thing. Provided that others accept that in making those choices there are sacrifices that happen elsewhere in their lives.

When western women complain about having to work in off days, or about having to work at all and care for children, they give evidence to extremist organisations like the Taliban, who use the ''unclean' label to for refusing to allow women to work at all, or even go to school once puberty kicks in.

When they hear western women complain, it reinforces their own rules and punishments, sort of proof that their treatment of women is OK.

We shouldn't complain about having to work, because both sexes have now to contribute to the general economy if we want to see the country succeeding. At the moment, that will not happen, but give it time and another election and who knows?

If you study social history, you will see that some male students received more pay/grants than female students, especially in hospital nurse training, even after the NHS. That was in areas where their was practical work, and not just study. It was very difficult for women to even think of going to university unless their fathers paid high fees for them, and few did.

It has always been unfair, and sticking a load of women in Westminster is unlikely to change the attitude, because they all have male bosses.

llizzie · 17/07/2025 01:42

chaosmaker · 17/07/2025 01:16

People leaving words out of sentences. Do they think it makes them sound clever because it does the opposite and makes them hard to understand. I see it a lot on here.

ai

Perhaps they are trying to put into their own words what they have researched in an effort not to make a post look too textbook like?

I always think it better to transfer word for word, so that the gist is not lost in translation.

scalt · 17/07/2025 06:31

Deliberately inflicting physical pain on children. Now thankfully mostly frowned upon, but quite recently (within the lifetimes of many of us) seen not only as very normal indeed, but part of one's parental duty.

@Igotmylipstickon I don't think airport security is weird at all. Flying has huge potential to go wrong, as we see occasionally, but the reason that it is statistically very safe (more safe than road travel) is precisely because of very stringent checks, in the airport, and on the plane. The thing that makes air travel very different from most other kinds is that a plane cannot stop in the air; and that one thing going wrong can mean that everybody on the plane is dead. There are also many, many routine safety checks which are carried out before a flight which we don't normally see, such as checking that vital equipment is working, and some of these have to be carried out by no less than the captain. Bear in mind also that that pilots and cabin crew have to go through security as well to get to work, but you don't often see this.

More recently, we also see bag checks at places such as theatres. This may be because of people like Just Stop Oil disrupting plays. They and others would probably be doing it far more if it wasn't for security checks.

ruethewhirl · 17/07/2025 10:23

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WTAF?? Are you actually saying you don't think society should accept people being gay?

chaosmaker · 17/07/2025 10:33

llizzie · 17/07/2025 01:42

Perhaps they are trying to put into their own words what they have researched in an effort not to make a post look too textbook like?

I always think it better to transfer word for word, so that the gist is not lost in translation.

No I mean leaving words out like 'to be' - hard to explain and nine of them seem to be on this thread.

llizzie · 17/07/2025 14:13

There is another thing that is so weird I find it very hard to accept.

Why are children being sent to fetch water in Gaza and on the TV ads?

Why would mothers send their children to fetch water into a war zone or desert?

It doesn't matter who is to blame in a war situation, but what parents being ruled by a terrorist organisation would send kids to fetch food and water?

None of the adults on TV look anywhere near starving. The women shown have fat faces.

Tryonemoretime · 17/07/2025 21:22

@llizzie Also....never understood why Hamas built all those huge, deep tunnels, wide enough for lorries to drive through, yet didn't use them for bomb shelters for the civilians.

Spiderx · 18/07/2025 00:10

Except our cat !

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 18/07/2025 07:21

Tryonemoretime · 17/07/2025 21:22

@llizzie Also....never understood why Hamas built all those huge, deep tunnels, wide enough for lorries to drive through, yet didn't use them for bomb shelters for the civilians.

Because they want civilian deaths because the more civilian deaths occur, the better for their cause, because the more deluded westerners blame Israel.

FromTheRiver · 18/07/2025 07:38

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 18/07/2025 07:21

Because they want civilian deaths because the more civilian deaths occur, the better for their cause, because the more deluded westerners blame Israel.

Fuck me, that is an insane construct to justify genocide.

FromTheRiver · 18/07/2025 07:39

llizzie · 17/07/2025 14:13

There is another thing that is so weird I find it very hard to accept.

Why are children being sent to fetch water in Gaza and on the TV ads?

Why would mothers send their children to fetch water into a war zone or desert?

It doesn't matter who is to blame in a war situation, but what parents being ruled by a terrorist organisation would send kids to fetch food and water?

None of the adults on TV look anywhere near starving. The women shown have fat faces.

are you for real?

LillyPJ · 18/07/2025 07:46

@FromTheRiver Yes. I was appalled when I read that. I'm amazed more people haven't picked up on it.

Dogaredabomb · 18/07/2025 08:20

CoubousAndTourmalet · 14/07/2025 23:50

I agree @Grammarnut and I am a vegetarian. A vegan world would not be desirable.

I also agree, I am a vegetarian and for me that's a personal choice. I'm not sure about the eco system or agro economics. I'm not sure if the planet can sustain the extra crops required to feed a planet of herbivores. So I leave it at a personal choice, although it does make me sad.

Dogaredabomb · 18/07/2025 08:24

deeahgwitch · 16/07/2025 13:08

Humans are the only species who go to bed when they are not tired and get up when they are still tired.
😀

That is such a good point!!!

pelargoniums · 18/07/2025 08:24

llizzie · 17/07/2025 01:36

When western women complain about having to work in off days, or about having to work at all and care for children, they give evidence to extremist organisations like the Taliban, who use the ''unclean' label to for refusing to allow women to work at all, or even go to school once puberty kicks in.

When they hear western women complain, it reinforces their own rules and punishments, sort of proof that their treatment of women is OK.

We shouldn't complain about having to work, because both sexes have now to contribute to the general economy if we want to see the country succeeding. At the moment, that will not happen, but give it time and another election and who knows?

If you study social history, you will see that some male students received more pay/grants than female students, especially in hospital nurse training, even after the NHS. That was in areas where their was practical work, and not just study. It was very difficult for women to even think of going to university unless their fathers paid high fees for them, and few did.

It has always been unfair, and sticking a load of women in Westminster is unlikely to change the attitude, because they all have male bosses.

Edited

Hang on, are you saying western women are to blame for the Taliban?!

Tryonemoretime · 18/07/2025 13:34

FromTheRiver · 18/07/2025 07:38

Fuck me, that is an insane construct to justify genocide.

I'm with Antony Blinken on this
"I wish that those who, understandably, have been moved and motivated by everything that’s happened since Oct 7th, if they’d spent maybe just 10% of their time, calling on Hamas, demanding Hamas put down its arms, give up the hostages, stop what it’s doing, maybe if the world had done that, we’d be in a different place.”

Dangermoo · 19/07/2025 09:33

FromTheRiver · 18/07/2025 07:39

are you for real?

Well you certainly aren't.

llizzie · 19/07/2025 18:11

FromTheRiver · 18/07/2025 07:39

are you for real?

So you would send your children to fetch food and water in a war zone?

CurlyhairedAssassin · 19/07/2025 18:43

Obesity. I am always shocked when I see old footage of normal people going about their business in the 60s, 70s, 80s and 90s and see how few obese young people there are compared to now. Somehow it's been normalised, to the detriment of people's health...

LillyPJ · 19/07/2025 18:53

llizzie · 19/07/2025 18:11

So you would send your children to fetch food and water in a war zone?

And do you think they're doing it because they don't care about their children or that they have a choice? You would do what they do if you lived there.

MyDadWasAnArse · 19/07/2025 21:36

CurlyhairedAssassin · 19/07/2025 18:43

Obesity. I am always shocked when I see old footage of normal people going about their business in the 60s, 70s, 80s and 90s and see how few obese young people there are compared to now. Somehow it's been normalised, to the detriment of people's health...

If anyone comments on it they're accused of fat shaming.

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