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What’s the weirdest thing society accepts as normal?

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ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

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NetballHoop · 09/07/2025 16:35

That you can buy fireworks and set them off at home.

I'm convinced the only reason no goverment has banned them is because they want us to remember what happens to people who try to blow up the polititians.

Strobbery · 09/07/2025 16:39

UnfashionableArtex · 09/07/2025 15:58

@Strobbery It's a con, didn't anyone tell you? There is no real choice for most of us. In the before times, we had to do all the child rearing, housekeeping stuff. We weren't able to work like men could. Now we HAVE to do employment outside of the home, and often most/all of the other stuff too. We aren't able to opt out if we wish to.

There is no "we". Women are not a homogeneous group when it comes to politics or most other things.

At no point did I say women should be kept at home and not allowed to work. As you well know. Go and jump down somebody else's throat.

Well what do you want then? What would you like society to accept and expect for women?
If full time working is too hard for women because of periods, childbirth, menopause or whatever then what do you propose as an alternative?

Lesser expectations will mean less opportunity, unequal pay and prospects, and ultimately less of a voice in society.

And I don't need anyone to "tell" me what to think thanks.

dovetail22uk · 09/07/2025 16:39

ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

Transphobia/homophobia. I hate that this is normalised. Anyone who is transphobic or homophobic should be publicly shamed.

Mumoftwoboysaged4and5 · 09/07/2025 16:40

That it’s illegal to mutilate girls’ genitals (rightly so) but perfectly acceptable to do it to baby boys who have no say in the matter.

tulippa · 09/07/2025 16:40

UnfashionableArtex · 09/07/2025 15:46

That women go through menstruation every month and give birth and breastfeed and yet we're just basically supposed to get on with full time work and everything else.

Yep, quite happy to do that. It's perfectly possible for most women to work full time and have periods.

cloudyblueglass · 09/07/2025 16:41

Men having kids with little financial and reproductive labour consequences and then daring to accuse women of PA or mental health difficulties in the face of absent feckless sperm doners.

or society telling women they're mentally unwell when theyve been abused by men and are having a perfectly normal reaction to abuse.

Wild shit

mugglewump · 09/07/2025 16:42

That we drink and make food stuffs from the milk produced to feed another species young. Would you drink another mother's milk? Or a pigs?

ExquisiteSocialSkills · 09/07/2025 16:43

Mydogiscuter · 09/07/2025 16:08

UPF
Drinking alcohol as a social pastime

This. It is almost compulsory in the UK to consume a harmful, addictive substance that makes many people act like idiots.

MorrisZapp · 09/07/2025 16:43

Double beds. Wtf.

minnienono · 09/07/2025 16:43

Using procedures to look younger, from hair dye to Botox. Grow old gracefully and take holidays on the money you saved!

BillStickersIsInnocent · 09/07/2025 16:44

Our very existence is very fucking weird to be honest and I’m surprised we don’t collectively freak out about that more.

Expecting little children to sit still in school, and older children to learn in crowded, hot, smelly classrooms wearing polyester uniforms.

Seeing mental health worsen and suicide rate pretty much stay the same and not consider that the pace and breadth of modern life is just too much sometimes for our nervous system.

Not recognising that child rearing takes a village.

villamariavintrapp · 09/07/2025 16:44

Sex

nightmarepickle2025 · 09/07/2025 16:45

The necessity for refuges where women can go when the father’s of their children decide they want to kill them.

Squishymallows · 09/07/2025 16:45

Mumoftwoboysaged4and5 · 09/07/2025 16:40

That it’s illegal to mutilate girls’ genitals (rightly so) but perfectly acceptable to do it to baby boys who have no say in the matter.

Massively this!!!!

lifeonmars100 · 09/07/2025 16:46

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 09/07/2025 15:51

This, particularly childbirth.

You give birth, quite often a lengthy and bloody process that leaves you feeling as though you've been run over by a truck (or, in the case of cs, having major abdominal surgery) - and then someone hands you this totally dependant creature and says 'well done, here, now go and get no sleep for the next five years. Best of luck with your recovery!'

That's how it felt to me anyway.

And that you will be fully recovered after 6 weeks, I really believed all that when I was pregnant and got a real shock at how long the healing process was. It was a year until I felt in any way back to my old self and I had problems with the episiotomy scar for years, it would swell and itch every time I had a period. I was referred back to the hospital and they told me that it was "nothing" and to basically get on with it

Wheezygonzalez · 09/07/2025 16:46

Squishymallows · 09/07/2025 16:45

Massively this!!!!

Every time I say this on other social media I get absolutely flamed. It’s true though.

nietzscheanvibe · 09/07/2025 16:47

Women with penises.

Strobbery · 09/07/2025 16:47

mugglewump · 09/07/2025 16:42

That we drink and make food stuffs from the milk produced to feed another species young. Would you drink another mother's milk? Or a pigs?

There have been a couple of posts about this and you're absolutely right.
I recall that there was a human milk ice cream made somewhere and many people reacting with revulsion about this.
But cows milk? Fine!

Very weird!

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 09/07/2025 16:47

lifeonmars100 · 09/07/2025 16:46

And that you will be fully recovered after 6 weeks, I really believed all that when I was pregnant and got a real shock at how long the healing process was. It was a year until I felt in any way back to my old self and I had problems with the episiotomy scar for years, it would swell and itch every time I had a period. I was referred back to the hospital and they told me that it was "nothing" and to basically get on with it

While the old fashion for 'lying in' and spending the first six weeks of motherhood being confined to bed and being waited on while you learned to care for your baby had its disadvantages - it wasn't all a bad idea!

Epidote · 09/07/2025 16:47

Unwearable fashion garments and most of the trends like big nails, fillers, botox etc well over what is comfortable.
Food trends like put avocado in every meal like there there is no other healthy fat food out there.
Basically trends in general, Stanley cups, this or those shoes. I don't get them.

Lins77 · 09/07/2025 16:48

Flying above the clouds in a metal tube.

Setting fire to a small white stick to inhale the smoke.

(Not at the same time.)

HappyNewTaxYear · 09/07/2025 16:49

ThisMustBeMyDream · 09/07/2025 16:18

Kids "playing out".

Is this not a normal thing to do then? Socialise with your peers via playing?

minnienono · 09/07/2025 16:49

I personally like dancing and drinking alcohol, often (no surprise) at the same time Grin

I also don’t see how childbirth, menopause or menastration affects our ability to work as women??? I’ve worked with a newborn, I’ve never taken time off for the other two and no I don’t take hrt, I don’t do drugs

CopperWhite · 09/07/2025 16:50

That our allies frequently commit war crimes and continually break international law.

orangewasp · 09/07/2025 16:50

Mumoftwoboysaged4and5 · 09/07/2025 16:40

That it’s illegal to mutilate girls’ genitals (rightly so) but perfectly acceptable to do it to baby boys who have no say in the matter.

Agreed. It should be illegal.

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