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What’s the weirdest thing society accepts as normal?

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ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

OP posts:
JustDepleted · 10/07/2025 21:32

Just thought of another one - attendance awards, even in primary school! Well done for only getting ill in the holidays / making your classmate and teacher sick / not having a health condition requiring time off to manage or attending appointments / not being a young carer / managing to go home ill after registration so marked present / not having a religious holiday that falls outside the school holiday / having parent that can get you to school on time etc etc.

Oh, you lost a parent? In term time? Shame on you. You needed an operation? In term time?

How many kids that genuinely bunk off would be incentivised by a bloody attendance award?

What is the point of them?

MsNevermore · 10/07/2025 21:33

suerte1998 · 10/07/2025 21:12

Yes. Same for those people who say, ‘I like to speak my mind’.

Absolutely.
I hear either of those phrases and it’s just code for “devoid of empathy”.

Sometimes it unavoidable: you simply have to tell the truth regardless of whether it’s going to hurt someone’s feelings.
But those occasions are rare, and most of us would try to at least soften the blow.
Some people are just arseholes and don’t care who they upset or who’s feelings they hurt, and do it under the guise of “I tell it like it is” 🤨🤨🤨

suerte1998 · 10/07/2025 21:39

Isthisnormal10000 · 09/07/2025 17:14

Brands. Like a t shirt with armani written on it can be 20 times more expensive than the same style t shirt without. Madness.

It’s actually quite crass and trashy. There are people on low incomes who buy designer brands thinking it will make them look impressive on social media 🙃And no shade to working class people - not all of us are like that (yes my parents are and so am I, but some of us like to dress well which doesn’t have to involve a Gucci T-shirt you can’t really afford).

Mangosorbetrocks · 10/07/2025 21:40

The Gaza Genocide

suerte1998 · 10/07/2025 21:40

MsNevermore · 10/07/2025 21:33

Absolutely.
I hear either of those phrases and it’s just code for “devoid of empathy”.

Sometimes it unavoidable: you simply have to tell the truth regardless of whether it’s going to hurt someone’s feelings.
But those occasions are rare, and most of us would try to at least soften the blow.
Some people are just arseholes and don’t care who they upset or who’s feelings they hurt, and do it under the guise of “I tell it like it is” 🤨🤨🤨

Yes, and others just use those phrases as an excuse to be rude and off hand because they feel like it.

suerte1998 · 10/07/2025 21:42

DuckieDodgyHedgyPiggy · 10/07/2025 14:24

It may be now, but norms change. Go back to Charles 2nd or the court of Louis 14th and all the men would have had long hair. In strict Jewish families today the women will shave their heads and wear wigs.
Fashion! Someone decrees that we should be wearing this, not that, because we were wearing that last year. You have to buy something new in order to fit in.

Agree but I also think that in years gone by most people wouldn’t have had access to a hair dresser or barber 😂

Bikergran · 10/07/2025 21:44

Young women wanting to look like Jessica Rabbit.....and to some extent succeeding.....😳

Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 10/07/2025 21:45

That religion is still a thing.

BoudiccaRuled · 10/07/2025 22:01

Helen483 · 10/07/2025 21:03

Do you not understand that fermentation of fruit or grains is a very basic process that has been around for millennia.
Chimpanzees in the wild will eat fermenting fruit and get drunk on it!
In the middle ages beers and brandies were brewed in monasteries; alcohol is a good preservative.
The US tried prohibition in the 1920s & 30s and it didn't work.

The op clearly knows the history, but quite rightly states and that if alcohol was discovered today it would be banned i.e. a class A drug.
I drink a lot of alcohol, at home and out socialising. But even I admit that if discovered today alcohol would immediately be banned. Why do some people find this fact so difficult to comprehend?

BooneyBeautiful · 10/07/2025 22:01

MsNevermore · 10/07/2025 20:52

I’ve told DH the same.
If I die before him, don’t go spending $$$ on a funeral.
Let doctors take whatever they can take that still might help someone else, stick whatever is left in the cheapest container you can find and burn it.
None of that embalming shit either 🥴 The whole concept of open casket funerals with people you barely know gawping at your corpse is just bizarre.

Ex-DH (DC's DF) wanted to donate his body to medical science and was registered to do so. I rang them some months before he died (he was terminally ill) and explained that he had lost a lot of weight. Because he was so underweight, they weren't able to take his body, so he had an unattended cremation instead. The following week family and friends met up to have a drink in remembrance of him (as were his wishes). It was so much better than having a funeral.

Sickdissapointed · 10/07/2025 22:01

Poss eaten alive for this …. False nails
wigs false eyelashes eyebrows lip fillers plastic surgery false boobs body adaptations - what the hell ???
History will not judge this kindly.

MyDadWasAnArse · 10/07/2025 22:03

Gender reveal parties followed by a baby shower. Getting engaged when you've already got a few children. Fireworks and banners and signs and getting down on one knee for said engagement just to post on social media. Looking like Mick Jagger or Miss Piggy with ridiculous fake eyelashes and fish lips. Excusing crap use of the English language. They can't all be dyslexic.

LillyPJ · 10/07/2025 22:04

Tryonemoretime · 10/07/2025 19:14

But from the time it's concieved, it's a developing human. Embryo, foetus, baby child, adult - all developmental stages of a human.

Yes, but it's not a baby.

Yazzi · 10/07/2025 22:08

When kids start suspecting santa isn't real and ask you their parents if he isn't, telling them they're wrong and he definitely is and they should trust you.

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 10/07/2025 22:11

notacooldad · 09/07/2025 16:12

Religion in schools.
Religion.

This! Why do we pander to superstition! The Greeks and Romans worshipped the Mount Olympus gods and we think if them as primitive and simply needing ways to explain natural phenomena /human origins,
yet we still pander to religions which are equally irrational /why?

HauntedMarshmallow · 10/07/2025 22:13

ThisMustBeMyDream · 09/07/2025 16:18

Kids "playing out".

Even animals like foxes let their kids play out. What a ridiculous thing to be offended by.

HauntedMarshmallow · 10/07/2025 22:17

It is a bit of a contradiction for everyone to be bemoaning UPF and cows milk while happily shooting themselves full of fillers or steroids.
Edit: I was quoting someone upthread but it didn’t work.

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 10/07/2025 22:17

JustDepleted · 09/07/2025 16:30

Children sitting at desks for hours a day.

Totally agree! As a teacher I stand and walk in lessons -feel so sorry for the kids. The whole education system is antiquated and not fit for purpose.

PulchritudinousLycanthrope · 10/07/2025 22:21

That we have bred dogs so deformed they can't breathe, run or even sit and they suffer hideously as a result.

Other animals have been grotesquely bred but none to the level of suffering and disfigurement away from their natural conformation that dogs have.

LoopyLoo1991 · 10/07/2025 22:23

Under educated idiots from a 'certain' country spewing crap everywhere online ... 🙄
And then proved absolutely wrong on many levels, they start on you with stereotypical insults and false claims about your home country.
And it's getting worse ... 😑

ThisMustBeMyDream · 10/07/2025 22:25

HauntedMarshmallow · 10/07/2025 22:13

Even animals like foxes let their kids play out. What a ridiculous thing to be offended by.

What a ridiculous thing to use as comparison.
Also, the post isn't about offensive. It's about what society accepts as normal that you see as weird.

DuckieDodgyHedgyPiggy · 10/07/2025 22:28

LillyPJ · 10/07/2025 18:33

I lived with a French student once and she was astonished that we sent birthday cards to anybody that we would see in person - workmates, housemates, relatives, friends...

Same in Italy.

Cascais · 10/07/2025 22:29

People making excuses for bad behaviour and not taking responsibility
for their actions

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 10/07/2025 22:30

PuppyMonkey · 09/07/2025 17:15

lol at you pointlessly quoting “cheese on a stick” here.Grin

😂😂😂

MidnightMeltdown · 10/07/2025 22:35

The way that young people are expected to have experience to get a job, but nobody will give them a job to get experience.

CF employers who want people to have a long list of very specific knowledge or skills for a job that they are offering less than 30k full-time for

The fact that people can work full time and not earn enough to live on, so they have to be subsidised by other tax payers, instead of their employer

The grotesque wage discrepancy between the CEO and the lowest paid workers in many large companies.

The idea that most degrees are worth 3+ years if your life and getting into tens of thousands of pounds worth of debt

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