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What’s the weirdest thing society accepts as normal?

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ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

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Samiloff · 10/07/2025 22:38

Killing and eating some animals, while spending huge amounts of money at the vet's to keep others healthy.

Mugsey62 · 10/07/2025 22:39

Can take five years for kids to sleep through the night.

With all my the it was three years, so nine years in total.

itsturtlesallthewaydown · 10/07/2025 22:39

Mutilating the genitals of small boys in the name of religion and culture.

Sidebeforeself · 10/07/2025 22:44

God why do threads like these always take a dark turn?

Isntiticonic · 10/07/2025 22:46

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MyDadWasAnArse · 10/07/2025 22:47

itsturtlesallthewaydown · 10/07/2025 22:39

Mutilating the genitals of small boys in the name of religion and culture.

Nobody has normalised that.

Sidebeforeself · 10/07/2025 22:49

See what I mean?

llizzie · 10/07/2025 22:51

thepariscrimefiles · 10/07/2025 20:01

Those 300,000 babies probably wouldn't have been put up for adoption. They will have been born into difficult circumstances and possibly resented by their mother. A lot of them might have ended up in care.

I think that a government which does not allow abortion should give the mother free health care for life as well as the child.

I am thinking of the states in America that do not allow termination.

IDontHateRainbows · 10/07/2025 22:52

Dogaredabomb · 09/07/2025 15:56

Yes! I'd rather grow wheat or something and eat it. Makes much more sense. I'd eat berries too so would be A-OK.

No one's stopping you

MsMiniver · 10/07/2025 22:56

IdaGlossop · 09/07/2025 16:54

High heels.

This. In the Barbie movie when her feet go normal instead of stuck in tip toes position, she can barely walk in her shoes and she says “I would never wear heels if my feet were this way”. Indeed!

Kleya25 · 10/07/2025 22:59

That the jobs that benefit society the most are amongst the lowest paid, and kicking a bit of leather around a patch of grass for 90 minutes while stopping your opponents from doing the same thing is somehow worth millions.

BambinaCucina · 10/07/2025 23:02

The expectancy that everyone is contactable 24/7.

Here, take this work phone so I can phone you at home, on your own time, or when you're on holiday.

Stuff that.

Weedhog · 10/07/2025 23:20

ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

the weirdest thing that is taken as normal? the election of an idiot to POTUS

littlejo67 · 10/07/2025 23:26

That we drink the breast milk of another species! Totally normalised...

TheGrimSmile · 10/07/2025 23:31

Abusing and killing farm animals but getting upset about cruelty other animals - (especially as pigs are so intelligent and sweet).

The royal family and all the ridiculous fawning over them. Such a weird concept.

Riding horses ( and putting a big lump of metal in their mouths to control them)

Nationalism - preferring somebody because they are born on the same bit of rock as you.

There are loads...

TheGrimSmile · 10/07/2025 23:32

littlejo67 · 10/07/2025 23:26

That we drink the breast milk of another species! Totally normalised...

Oh yes. The strangest of all. And we think it's "natural"!

BobbySox71 · 10/07/2025 23:33

Un necessary rudeness. I work as a hospital receptionist and understand patient and family’s anxiety but today I was annoyed.
I’m very good at my patient facing role but today a whole family turned up and completely ignored everything I said and did and blanked me. When they left they left our wheelchair in the middle of the front door blocking access.
This was an oncology appointment not A&E. At first I thought it was communication/language problems but I heard them speaking good English. I deal with oncology patients every day but this wasn’t the norm, cultural differences should not make a difference.
I try my best every day on close to minimum wage but I felt dis respected

TheGrimSmile · 10/07/2025 23:35

MyDadWasAnArse · 10/07/2025 22:47

Nobody has normalised that.

Yes they have. Many religions circumcise boys and I believe it's absolutely the norm in America. Bloody barbaric! Yet "normal"..

FrijolesFrijoles · 10/07/2025 23:35

ThisMustBeMyDream · 09/07/2025 16:18

Kids "playing out".

Why?

DearDenimEagle · 10/07/2025 23:38

UnfashionableArtex · 09/07/2025 15:46

That women go through menstruation every month and give birth and breastfeed and yet we're just basically supposed to get on with full time work and everything else.

Erm…back in my youth, you weren’t but women demanded equal rights to work. Once upon a time, married women were not allowed to work. War changed that but still, mothers were expected to be home. Can’t complain now when women wanted to go to work

DearDenimEagle · 10/07/2025 23:43

Samiloff · 10/07/2025 22:38

Killing and eating some animals, while spending huge amounts of money at the vet's to keep others healthy.

Keeping the ones healthy that will be killed to eat also incurs large vet bills at times…even larger than pets.

Properjob · 10/07/2025 23:48

Belief in a God thing. Ridiculous and so clearly exploited to subjugate women

chaosmaker · 10/07/2025 23:49

Fogey · 10/07/2025 18:12

I find it strange that I am no longer allowed to express my opinions. My mouth is slowly being sewn shut by other people who are no
more entitled than me … if everyone has a voice then anarchy prevails . Generally, that’s a bad thing.
I don’t like the idea that if I don’t look 23 with Botox, I am somehow less valuable… that if I don’t have acrylic nails I “don’t look after myself” … that everyone celebrates a wedding, but forgets about the love.
That’s why I’m fucking off to France and avoiding the Americanisation of our society which is an abomination of everything the UK has been built on.
I love England but I’m so sorry that we’ve become lazy, entitled and introspective.

Surely the uk was built on slavery and being slaves (to the nations that conquered them) over centuries.

And 'landowners' people that stole land when others were off fighting wars or something... it's all shite

BobbySox71 · 11/07/2025 00:03

TheGrimSmile · 10/07/2025 23:31

Abusing and killing farm animals but getting upset about cruelty other animals - (especially as pigs are so intelligent and sweet).

The royal family and all the ridiculous fawning over them. Such a weird concept.

Riding horses ( and putting a big lump of metal in their mouths to control them)

Nationalism - preferring somebody because they are born on the same bit of rock as you.

There are loads...

I am a horse owner and rider, I have the kindest and sweetest horse.
i work hard to pay for boarding/livery, new shoes every 6 weeks, vet bills, unlimited food, insurance and plenty of love and kindness.
All I ask in return is a few hours of work per week which although I’m not Dr Dolittle he does it willingly. When I put the bit in his mouth he puts his head down so it’s easier. The bond I have with him I can’t into words. I’ve had him 7 years and he’s with me for his life. He weighs approximately 600kg, I don’t control him we’re a partnership, I’ve been through 2 hip replacements and he got me through them mentally and physically

T1Dmama · 11/07/2025 00:29

Thingsthatgo · 09/07/2025 16:06

Religion in schools.

Yes this!! Why is Christianity part of the curriculum ?

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