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What’s the weirdest thing society accepts as normal?

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ForFunAquaTurtle · 09/07/2025 15:42

Cheese on a stick

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emsie12345 · 10/07/2025 18:38

That men have power.

emsie12345 · 10/07/2025 18:41

And the Fucking royals

the80sweregreat · 10/07/2025 18:43

Dancing is strange , babies do it instinctively and adults seem to enjoy it. Maybe it’s just a release? Something in our DNA from cave man times? A chance to show off a bit ?

DrippingCeiling · 10/07/2025 18:46

ThisMustBeMyDream · 09/07/2025 16:18

Kids "playing out".

I think it’s much more ludicrous that society seems to moving towards kids not playing out! Kids should be playing out. It’s good for them to build confidence and learn essential life skills like problem solving and risk taking; children will always defer to an adult if an adult is around. We’ve gone safety mad (but only with very specific things) as a society and children’s development is one of the casualties.

Swimminginthedeepbluesky · 10/07/2025 18:54

DrippingCeiling · 10/07/2025 18:46

I think it’s much more ludicrous that society seems to moving towards kids not playing out! Kids should be playing out. It’s good for them to build confidence and learn essential life skills like problem solving and risk taking; children will always defer to an adult if an adult is around. We’ve gone safety mad (but only with very specific things) as a society and children’s development is one of the casualties.

Hard disagree
" playing out" is/was neglect
In the past it's seen as a lovely thing but it really wasn't.
Young children were kicked out for the day and abuse/ bullying was rife.
Not to mention accidents

They learn life skills playing in their own garden, with friends etc they don't need to be out on the street all the time

Playinwithfire · 10/07/2025 18:54

UnfashionableArtex · 09/07/2025 15:46

That women go through menstruation every month and give birth and breastfeed and yet we're just basically supposed to get on with full time work and everything else.

An then the majority of decisions that are made about women are from narcissistic men!

TaborlinTheGreat · 10/07/2025 18:55

Mrsgreen100 · 10/07/2025 18:27

Competitive sport and schools we teach our kids how to win how to beat somebody how to be victorious but we don’t teach them teamwork how to get along with other people and help each other. It’s bizarre to me.

What a ridiculous comment! Schools constantly teach teamwork and how to get on with people. Some exams even require it (e.g. drama).Team work is part of many competitive sports, and team work is promoted by the pair work and group work that goes on in classrooms and extra-curricular activities every single day. My school had its annual music festival today. It is a highly competitive inter-house event. It also demonstrated amazing cooperation, teamwork and support between students of all different ages and needs.

Crowpigeon · 10/07/2025 18:57

shar pei dogs

Bernardo1 · 10/07/2025 19:09

Trump being elected and confirmed 47th PoTUS.

K2054 · 10/07/2025 19:13

For me, Australia having drive through bottle shops (off licenses). Not really a surprise people drive, buy, then drink and drive.

Tryonemoretime · 10/07/2025 19:14

LillyPJ · 10/07/2025 18:34

Maybe, but it's not a baby.

But from the time it's concieved, it's a developing human. Embryo, foetus, baby child, adult - all developmental stages of a human.

BluntPlumHam · 10/07/2025 19:16

Strobbery · 09/07/2025 15:50

🙄

We wanted to. We fought for the right to do this and to be paid the same as men. It took a while.

You really think women should be kept at home and not allowed to work?

I don’t think the poster meant we should be tied to kitchen sink again but rather it’s gone to the other extreme now where we are still raising the next generation AND now expected to work as well. There’s need to be an element of choice, that’s what was fought for not exploitation in just another extreme.

venus7 · 10/07/2025 19:17

Staring at a device all the time, even while walking.

DopeyS · 10/07/2025 19:19

UnfashionableArtex · 09/07/2025 15:46

That women go through menstruation every month and give birth and breastfeed and yet we're just basically supposed to get on with full time work and everything else.

I think not just that. I read Persuasion by Jane Austen and any book from that period. Women at described as weak, the fairer sex and will get a shock/chill and faint and pass away. Yet were also going through menstruation, childbirth with minimal pain killers help. How were we ever considered weak and feeble??

Tryonemoretime · 10/07/2025 19:20

MidnightMeltdown · 10/07/2025 02:22

I would disagree with the first one. I don’t think that ignorance of different religions is good thing. We learnt 6 at school and it was really a very small part of the curriculum.

Thing is, that if you don't learn anything about the Bible, the world of art is closed to you. Thinking of the National Gallery etc many of the works of art depict Biblical accounts.

Pliudev · 10/07/2025 19:20

Mrsgreen100 · 10/07/2025 18:27

Competitive sport and schools we teach our kids how to win how to beat somebody how to be victorious but we don’t teach them teamwork how to get along with other people and help each other. It’s bizarre to me.

But team sports teach exactly that.

Pennyswimsplash · 10/07/2025 19:21

lazy & entitled people who choose not to work & live off benefits or work 16 hours a week & claim top up benefits.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 10/07/2025 19:23

That it's possible to change your biological sex

thepariscrimefiles · 10/07/2025 19:30

Tryonemoretime · 10/07/2025 18:13

Abortion. Killing a human, developing baby, no matter what terminology you use, is now normal. Accidents happen - but one's deliberate action in having sex (and I do know that there is rape) shouldn't result in the killing of a vulnerable human being - no matter how small. Sex may result in getting pregnant. And if a woman does get pregnant, adoption is the answer. My husband was adopted (and so was his sister) and brought huge joy to his parents - and some much loved grandchildren and great grandchildren.

The practice of abortions has been known since ancient times. The difference between now and then is that prior to safe, legal abortions, women died or became infertile following illegal abortions.

shuggles · 10/07/2025 19:31

@ForFunAquaTurtle Just a couple I'm thinking of...

Lying out in the sun on sunny days. It is not possible to sleep with the sun in your face, and lying in the sun literally serves no purpose.

Using a phone for all day to day digital tasks, when a standard desktop computer is much faster and more proficient for completing those same tasks.

Seeing housing as an investment, rather than a functional place to live.

Idling an engine outside a shop. Why? This has a negative impact on the car, and also harms people's health, so it's not clear why people do this.

Driving a car that is much bigger than it needs to be. Again, why?

RealStork · 10/07/2025 19:33

That ultra processed food and processed food is ok to eat

RealStork · 10/07/2025 19:33

That ultra processed food and processed food is ok to eat

WomanOfSteel · 10/07/2025 19:36

Using facebook as a way to communicate with dead people like it’s a direct line to heaven.

WooleyMunky · 10/07/2025 19:40

Chicks with dicks.
No.

AtLeastThreeDrinks · 10/07/2025 19:41

That the animals you deem acceptable to eat is based on where you’re born/the culture you’re born into. We’d never eat dogs (more social than religious though), Hindus don’t eat cows, Muslims won’t touch pork. Who decided which animals are pets and which are fine to kill and eat?

Capitalism in general. I find it so bizarre that a lot of people do completely pointless jobs for an annual salary. I’ve seen a lot of hours wasted in offices.

Raising children without a wider network of supportive adults and older children. Insanely hard and far removed from what’s natural for humans, but completely accepted as normal here and a lot of the world over.

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