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Would you be interested in multi-generation living?

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CanadianJohn · 29/06/2025 18:30

I have relatives in England. They have bought a very large house in the country (about 4 miles from a small city), and remodelled it so it has three entirely separate homes; separate entrances, living areas, kitchens, bathrooms, etc. The house was originally built as a small hotel/conference centre.

  • They (in their 50's) live in one part;
  • her parents (in their late 70's) live in another part;
  • the third part is occupied by their daughter, her partner, and their children.

I have no idea how they work out "rent", etc.

Would you like to live like this, or would you prefer more distance from your relatives?

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julietteoubliette · 01/07/2025 15:40

Not in a bazillion years. DM asks often if we could buy a house with an annexe for her to live in, and my response is always absolutely not.

DearDenimEagle · 05/07/2025 13:58

Ezzee · 30/06/2025 18:46

We are contemplating this BUT on a large plot of land, 4 detached homes with large hedges/fences between and not over looked.
Our children are up for it ( both adults and oldest has stated he will sell his house to fund his build), and my best friend.
DH does have a construction company that specialises in 'unusual' homes.

4 detached homes like that is not multi generation living. You’re hardly running into each other on a staircase, or trying to organise food for all

Bridport · 05/07/2025 14:05

Fuck no. I'm of the 'Get out as early as you can and don't have any kids yourself' school of thought.

Rallentanda · 05/07/2025 14:33

Maybe with my kids. Definitely not with my parents.

I would do a version of this with all my lovely female friends. We've often talked about it!

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