Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

What names do you think will die completely?

1000 replies

Soubriquet · 14/06/2025 14:43

I think Gary.

Ive only met one and he’s in his 50’s now. Never met a baby Gary

OP posts:
GalaxyWasOnOffer · 14/06/2025 16:10

I don’t see Mervyn or Melvyn making much of a return - but stranger things have happened!

EuclidianGeometryFan · 14/06/2025 16:10

Names that are already properly dead and buried, six feet under and pushing up the daisies:

Eadgar
Ethelred
Aelfric
Godwin
Hildburg
Wulfsige

All Anglo-Saxon.
I reckon just about any name since the Norman conquest could make a comeback.

OneNewLeader · 14/06/2025 16:11

Merle.

DaxieTaxi · 14/06/2025 16:13

SuziQuinto · 14/06/2025 15:07

Those are nice names, especially Elaine.

Thank you. One of those is my name and I love it. Agree it’s dying out though.

CowboyFromHell · 14/06/2025 16:13

The thing is it’s all cyclical isn’t it. Lots of the names suggested on this thread are ones currently associated with people in their 60s or thereabouts. So Gary, Keith, Brenda etc.

But in twenty years these will be the names of very elderly (or dead) people, and so will be equivalent to Edwardian names like Stanley, Violet, Florence etc today. And it seems as though it’s when a generation associated with a particular name is just dying out, that’s when it starts to become a popular baby name again.

And within the trend of a name coming back into fashion there’s a few steps that take place. So in five years time some hipster parents in Margate will name their daughter Brenda. A few years after there will be a few Brenda’s being born in London. A few years after that it will be widespread throughout the country, and a few years after that people on mumsnet will be saying of course they’d never call their baby an overused name like Brenda.

Nicelynicelyjohnson · 14/06/2025 16:15

IggyAce · 14/06/2025 15:47

I know of a Colin and Alan who are teens now.

I expect the following to die out:
Janet
Eileen
Brenda
Gary
Keith

I know them too! The Alan is Polish I think, not sure about Colin.
These boys are good friends with several boys called Sam - and a Barry!

I don't think anything will die out. There are always people looking for unusual names, that unusual name could be Janet.

Noshadelamp · 14/06/2025 16:15

RosesAndHellebores · 14/06/2025 16:03

My grandmother's generation:

Alice
Isabel
Evelyn
Helena
Florence
Mary Ann
Eleanor
Phoebe
Louisa
Naomi
Rose
Grace

All about 1880 to 1910 - I thought them very old fashioned when I was a little girl in the 1960s.

Most of those names are names for babies and young children now.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 14/06/2025 16:16

I know a teen Gary and I think Gary will become popular again, maybe not for another 20-30 years though. I could never have imagined names like Edith, Audrey, Enid, Ronald, Stanley, Arthur being popular when I was younger but I know multiple babies with these names. In a few more decades people will be naming their babies after their grandparents and Gary, Tracey, Sharon, Nigel etc will all make a comeback.

The only names I think will die out completely are those which becomes synonymous with something else; I know a woman called Isis but doubt anybody is going to use that name nowadays. I doubt anybody would call their daughter Alexa now either but it was a perfectly acceptable name a decade or so ago. Names synonymous with a notoriously bad/ evil person also tend to die out, you don’t really get people using Adolf or Myra as names for example! But otherwise names do tend to come around again and so given another generation or two names like Gary will be back in.

MrsMitford3 · 14/06/2025 16:17

My DD's middle name and my dog's name are both here 😂

MarisPiperSpuds · 14/06/2025 16:18

Kingsleadhat · 14/06/2025 15:32

I know a 25 year old Gary

But this is the thing - to me ALL Gary’s are now around 17-25

(and possibly doing a YTS course)

DeSoleil · 14/06/2025 16:18

Sandra
Carol
Sharon
Hilary
Karen
Colin
Alan

MolkosTeenageAngst · 14/06/2025 16:18

EuclidianGeometryFan · 14/06/2025 16:10

Names that are already properly dead and buried, six feet under and pushing up the daisies:

Eadgar
Ethelred
Aelfric
Godwin
Hildburg
Wulfsige

All Anglo-Saxon.
I reckon just about any name since the Norman conquest could make a comeback.

I know a toddler called Godwin! Parents are African immigrants (not sure which country though). I quite like it.

Guardin · 14/06/2025 16:18

Doris
Dolores

LivelyMintViper · 14/06/2025 16:19

Nigel
Gladys
Wilbur

Pippinsdiary · 14/06/2025 16:21

happyfluffyluckykitty · 14/06/2025 14:48

Dawn

Dawn will absolutely make a come back. It’s a lovely name

KTeachMom · 14/06/2025 16:22

morethanspice · 14/06/2025 14:52

Olive

A colleague of mine just had a DD and named her Olive

drspouse · 14/06/2025 16:23

I knew I'd see my DD name on this thread. She is one of only 83 born in the UK the year she was born (though actually she wasn't born here). It's a name that is v common among elderly ladies, not very common in Gen X or even I think Boomers (the ones I know are mainly 80+).
So it hasn't died but it's pretty rare. It's a name with a lot of nicknames but I don't know any with just a nickname either.

Tarkan · 14/06/2025 16:25

I’ve come across babies called Alan and Gary recently.

I also know kids with quite a few of the names mentioned here. Nigel, Margaret, Bob, Desmond, Barbara, Mary Ann, Colin, Jonathan, Mark, Bonnie, Olive, Kenneth, Audrey are all ones I know at least one kids with the name.

PointsSouth · 14/06/2025 16:25

Toddlerteaplease · 14/06/2025 14:58

Maud, hopefully. And I wish all old lady names would.

Thing is, you have to be quite old - as I am - to think that Maud is an old lady name. And it's because when we were young, there were old ladies called Maud and Dolly. Just as there were old men called Bert and Ron.

There aren't now. They're all dead. Now people's Nans and Grandads are called Tracey and Mark, Lynn and Andy, Cath and Nick.

To new parents, Maud and Albert are ancient mythical names untainted by outside lavs and endless stories about the Blitz. That's why they come back.

BishBashBoomer · 14/06/2025 16:26

Wayne, Dwayne, Colin and Lee.

MarisPiperSpuds · 14/06/2025 16:27

notmyrealnameok · 14/06/2025 15:48

There’s a Gary in my sons class

For some reason I expect a Gary to be wearing faded jeans, a leather jacket, DMs and in his way to the some office!

Todayisaday · 14/06/2025 16:28

Dennis, denise, sharon,

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 14/06/2025 16:33

JustAnInchident · 14/06/2025 14:50

Definitely Gary. Keith maybe, possibly Kevin? Vernon?
I know a couple of little Percys, preschool age.

Edited

Percy, really? That's cruel. A bit like calling your child Cecil or Nigel, sorry 😂
I have s Garry in my family and yes he's in his 50s

User14March · 14/06/2025 16:37

MolkosTeenageAngst · 14/06/2025 16:18

I know a toddler called Godwin! Parents are African immigrants (not sure which country though). I quite like it.

Edited

Wulfric - (sp?) have come across.

Cantabulous · 14/06/2025 16:39

Clare 😢

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.
Swipe left for the next trending thread