I’ve hesitated to post here, since whenever my situation is mentioned there is an influx of malicious and hurtful posts continuing to spread lies and nasty gossip.
I posted on MN for support . I got that, thank you to all the very kind posters. I also got ridiculed and indeed doxxed on Tattle (and I believe Reddit, but nobody shared that with me and of course I have not looked.). The level of vitriol was astounding, and downright cruel. It continues, indeed they call me ‘Clurr’s Mam’ I’ve been told, and raise it whenever they feel inclined. As you can in this thread, one poster here (perhaps the one who chose to post a derogatory and horrendously cruel comment on the public obituary is page?) there was much research and time spent to hurt and shame me and my family.
We are regular people. I’ve used MN for many years. I asked for nothing but support. Instead, anyone who looks can see a two year long campaign of bile about me. The distress this has caused is enormous, and ongoing. I’m constantly on edge, waiting to see who will bring it to my attention next. Losing a child, whether adult or a newborn, is pain enough. I don’t know what pleasure those posters got from this, only they do. Perhaps @theyallwent can elucidate? How spewing such hate has been necessary or fruitful?
I have consulted a lawyer. This clearly falls under the Malicious Communications Act. Tracking my work place and posting pictures of me from there, posting on the obituary, reviewing my Facebook. This was intentional and sustained- and illegal.
My mental health and that of my family have suffered enough. Please, stop.