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What are the simple things that made a true difference to your quality of life?

191 replies

GetOffTheCounter · 09/06/2025 18:05

For me it is terribly pedestrian.

Hot soapy shower before bed. Getting into bed all clean and warm makes me feel so good.

Peppermint tea before bed- same

Getting up at 5.30 am and having a quiet cup of coffee and reading a book before everyone else gets up at 6.

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Echobelly · 09/06/2025 20:59

Wireless headband headphones that I can wear while falling asleep and listening to YouTube relaxation videos, also good for the gym and keeping hair out of my eyes

TheSecondMrsCampbellBlack · 09/06/2025 20:59

A happy marriage
A well paid, interesting job
Having enough money
Sleeping on an amazingly comfortable mattress
Long standing friends
Huge fluffy white towels
HRT
Cats

Crushed23 · 09/06/2025 21:04

Living very centrally and walking everywhere.

TheaBrandt1 · 09/06/2025 21:10

Hot tub

PollyCreo · 09/06/2025 21:12

In no particular order:

Divorce
Cats
Exercise

Also, prioritising friends. I've had a spectacularly shit couple of years health-wise and only just now appreciating the love and support they gave me ❤️

Allseeingallknowing · 09/06/2025 21:15

Having a lay in, while listening to the radio
Watching favourite soaps, with chocolate fresh from the fridge.
Seeing my favourite rose bush come into bloom each year
A good book

Cathmawr · 09/06/2025 21:18

Spending time tinkering in the greenhouse 🥰

Kathbrownlow · 09/06/2025 21:21

GetOffTheCounter · 09/06/2025 18:05

For me it is terribly pedestrian.

Hot soapy shower before bed. Getting into bed all clean and warm makes me feel so good.

Peppermint tea before bed- same

Getting up at 5.30 am and having a quiet cup of coffee and reading a book before everyone else gets up at 6.

I was just going to say shower, too. I would add, using a bar of French soap in the shower, too - I love it!

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 09/06/2025 21:25

Another one for waking up early to drink a coffee while the rest of the house is asleep.

nothingagainstyourrightleg · 09/06/2025 21:25

Yoga
HRT
Dog walks
Sleeping tablets
Healthy, protein rich diet

idonethisthing · 09/06/2025 21:26

Dishwasher. I remember 15 years ago, taking delivery of our first machine, feeling like I had finally arrived! Going to bed so so happy that I didn’t have to worry about that crap anymore.

Tretinion. I feel like at age 45 it is completely resurfacing my skin, which is amazing.
HRT.
Mounjaro, which I didn’t think they’d let me have but I’ve just stopped and I lost 2 stone in 2 months. Mega.

quirkychick · 09/06/2025 21:29

Waking up at the same time in the morning - massively helped my sleep.
Yoga, weights, walking outside.
Journalling, meditation.
Meeting up with friends regularly.
Intermittent fasting - another fan of Mindy Pelz.
Scented candles.

DryDay · 09/06/2025 21:41

Brisk walk first thing - fills me with energy and good cheer

Pilates once a week - makes me feel strong

Clean sheets every Monday

Hot bath every evening so I feel clean, warm and cosy in bed

Eating really healthily - helps with good mood/ sleep/ digestion/ immune system

Budgeting and managing money thoughtfully so I know we are safe

Mumof1andacat · 09/06/2025 21:43

Dishwasher....i love it

NeedSomeComfy · 09/06/2025 21:45

Deleting social media

decafearlgrey · 09/06/2025 21:46

HRT
Daily exercise
Walking in nature
7-8 hours sleep
Meal planning
Yorkshire tea
Not chasing friends who don't value my time

overeater · 09/06/2025 21:49

Vitamin supplements and coffee

Nicepeople · 09/06/2025 21:51

Being single and really liking it in fact loving it.

orangetriangle · 09/06/2025 21:51

working from home
hrt
my kindle
mortgage free

IndigoBluey · 09/06/2025 21:57

Exercise and more exercise. I can go from knackered to a quick 30 min spin and feel brand new, no cup of coffee can reach it. Park walks, eating well and resting, Epsom salt baths

quirkychick · 09/06/2025 22:14

Also:

HRT
Healthy, protein-rich diet
Green tea, kombucha
Dry brushing
Retinol

Moveoverdarlin · 09/06/2025 22:17

Getting a dog.

SteamLover · 09/06/2025 22:19

Having more money. I’m not rich but I don’t have to worry about the bills or the weekly food shopping anymore.

Complet · 09/06/2025 22:27

Cold white burgundy
Kettle crisps
Nocellara olives
Family and friends
Comfortable bed
Our wonderful cleaner
Pets
A husband that brings me coffee/tea in bed every morning

Toseland · 09/06/2025 22:29

Vitamin D! Amazing stuff however you obtain it; changes my life.