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Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 33: Calmly through the day

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MissConductUS · 17/02/2025 15:23

I've started a new one. Please join us and share the boring and mundane things happening in your world. It will be calming for all. Here's a link to the prior thread:

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Welcome to all regulars, lurkers, and new contributors! Everyone is welcome to join.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 30/04/2025 07:28

Took dc shopping this evening to a mall, Metrotown, in a suburb, Burnaby. The mall was very nicely decorated for spring and Mother's Day. Lots of areas for photos. Saw a gorgeous cherry blossom tree on the way there and a beautiful crescent moon on the drive home.
Bought runners for both dc, some t-shirts, socks and a pair of rain boots for baby. The boots were on clearance and were $15 (!!!) and the t-shirts $7.99 each. Success! 🤗

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Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 33: Calmly through the day
bizzey · 30/04/2025 16:04

Having wibbley wobbledy nerves this afternoon !

Tomorrow is my VV procedure.
I can't quite believe it is going to happen .

Had phone call this morning confirming the details and things.

The letter says the appointment is 7.30 ..
But it is not ..the building doesn't open till 7.30 so she said come a bit after is fine .

So I don't have to be on a stressful time schedule which will help.

I think it is something like day surgery cases where everyone booked in for that day all turn up at the same time .

I don't have to fast , so I imagine I will be one of the last to get seen to .

Obviously...the fasting people need to be done first.

I have got snacks and drinks prepped and ready .

Power bank , charger and a good old fashioned book in case I get bored of phone/no signal !

bizzey · 30/04/2025 16:06

The joke is in me though...
Waited so long to have treatment for the vv ...
And I have the treatment carried out on the hottest day of the year so far 😂😂🥵🥵 .

bizzey · 30/04/2025 16:09

Very pleased with my lazy dinner though so far .

I bought a 65p kit , which was a special cooking bag and Cajun spices .
Added chicken thighs and drumsticks , carrots, broccoli and new potatoes.
Tied it up with special tie thing..

In pot and in oven !

Proof will be in the pudding in about an hour 😂

bizzey · 01/05/2025 00:01

Dinner tasted nice and hardly any washing up !

The thighs worked better than the drumsticks...

mathanxiety · 01/05/2025 00:49

Best wishes for tomorrow, bizzey. Your dinner sounds lovely.

Great shopping havoc. Small DCs can get very tired of shoe shopping ime. It's nice to get what you were looking for in as few attempts as possible.

The trees are looking incredibly green and there are blossoms everywhere. I saw a gorgeous crab apple and many lovely redbuds today. There's a little front garden that I pass that's full of tulips and forget me nots. Not a mosquito in sight! I love this part of the year, before it gets too hot and sticky and before I have to think about being bitten.

bizzey · 01/05/2025 11:12

Thanks @mathanxiety .

Well I am home !
A lot sooner than I expected.

When I got there they told me I was 3rd on the list and would get done about 10-11 ish.

But nope !

Had checks done and got given gown , knickers (!!)and non slip socks and told to change , do a wee sample and wait in waiting area .

They kept asking for my wee sample .
I couldn't do one 😂..

I thought I had enough time to do one if It was needed by 10 .
But no they were just waiting for my wee...

Tried again and got a bit out ...

It was needed for a pregnancy test !!! 😂😂😂..

I mean ...come on ...

Not only have I not had a period for 10 years ...I have not had any jiggy jiggy for nearly 16 years 😂😂😂😂..

Anyhow ...

All bandages up and I have taken some painkillers in anticipation of the pain that is going to kick in soon !

They have told me not to wait for the pain but just take pain relief regularly.

bizzey · 01/05/2025 11:14

The whole leg bandage looks impressive though!

They said to me. it looks worse than it is...

I reassured her that's ok ....I will milk it for all it's worth with the DC's ! 😂😂

Umanresources · 01/05/2025 14:27

@Mumtobabyhavoc I’m loving the photos of the observatory and the constellation of you and baby is gorgeous. You are making some brilliant memories with your children.
When my children were small we used to visit a local nature reserve with my mum. We had no car, so we walked or used public transport. There was a wooden bridge over a stream and we used to spend time there playing ‘Pooh sticks”, then carry on to the Flash which is a large man-made lake and watch the swans and ducks. In summer we used to take a picnic and then we would go and sit on one of the hides to watch the other wildlife. It cost us nothing but my adult children talk about how much fun it was. We loved going to museums, libraries and art galleries too. All free activities but treasured memories.

Ooh @MissConductUS I love herons and turtles. The photos are lovely. I’m sure your eyesight must be so good to actually spot the turtles, they are tiny.
I’ve only been to London a few times. My OH and I did a long distance when we first got together. The first time we went there, we went into a bookshop and my DS’s ex girlfriend was working there. I went up to her and tapped her on her shoulder, she turned round, screamed and ran off. I managed to catch up with her and just said, hello. She thought I’d stalked her and had gone to tell her off for breaking my DS’s heart. I hadn’t and she didn’t (this was 2 years later and he wasn’t even that bothered at the time!)

My OH and I went on the London eye at sunset, which was fabulous and we also went to the Globe Theatre, which was an incredible experience. We had seats, but there were lots of people standing and almost leaning on the stage. It was very hot and one of the ushers fainted, and had to be carried out. At the end of the performance they announced that she was fine!

Another very hot day here, so I’m about to head outside with my book and sit in the shade under the parasol, in the garden. Enjoy your Thursday.

MyrtleLion · 01/05/2025 15:46

In the garden drinking lager, listening to the birds, realising we have starlings at the feeders, chilling with my DH.

Will eat by the river later.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 01/05/2025 15:53

Bizzey, jiggy jiggy? 😂.
Glad the procedure went well.🤗
Math, that all sounds so lovely. i haven't seen crab apple trees since I was a kid.
Uman, those outings sound great! I love that your kids remember them. 💕 What are Pooh sticks? 🧐

I woke up at 7, before dc. Managed to get washed up and a load of laundry in. I was exhausted yesterday, so have ensured I didn't brew decaf this morning. Have got an activity to take baby to shortly.

Deathraystare · 01/05/2025 16:01

Had a day of admin. Filled in a housing form for emergency housing only to find I have to apply for universal credit first so have done that too. It is amazing how much the forms repeat themselves. I guess they want to catch you out??? Was suggested by a lovely lady at work to apply for pip as well due to health problems . I would never have considered it myself and doubt I would get it. You first have to phone them so I need to get all my info up front.

Also tried to fil in a Peabody housing form but I would be classed as over 55 and all the housing is at the seaside. Long commute into London!

Deathraystare · 01/05/2025 16:02

bizzey · 01/05/2025 11:12

Thanks @mathanxiety .

Well I am home !
A lot sooner than I expected.

When I got there they told me I was 3rd on the list and would get done about 10-11 ish.

But nope !

Had checks done and got given gown , knickers (!!)and non slip socks and told to change , do a wee sample and wait in waiting area .

They kept asking for my wee sample .
I couldn't do one 😂..

I thought I had enough time to do one if It was needed by 10 .
But no they were just waiting for my wee...

Tried again and got a bit out ...

It was needed for a pregnancy test !!! 😂😂😂..

I mean ...come on ...

Not only have I not had a period for 10 years ...I have not had any jiggy jiggy for nearly 16 years 😂😂😂😂..

Anyhow ...

All bandages up and I have taken some painkillers in anticipation of the pain that is going to kick in soon !

They have told me not to wait for the pain but just take pain relief regularly.

They should have asked me for a sample. I have loads to spare!!!!

Deathraystare · 01/05/2025 16:06

@Mumtobabyhavoc ·

I expect @Umanresources will comment later but I believe pooh sticks is being one side of a bridge over water, chucking in a stick or sticks then running to the other side. Not really sure what the endgame is, perhaps your stick touching another one? I never played it.

Deathraystare · 01/05/2025 16:07

The weather apparently will be good (where I live in London) until the weekend. I guess this is our summer so I guess I should not complain about it being hot!!!

bizzey · 01/05/2025 16:22

Ohh "pooh sticks" is a wonderful little game to play with children and adults ! to use up a bit of time .

Everyone finds their stick .
Throw it in at the same time ..
Rune to other side ..
And see who's stick emerges from under the bridge first .

Works best with smaller bridges of course !
Like a bridge over a brook rather than a big river !

Called Pooh Sticks as Winnie the Pooh played it with Piglet 🥰

Mumtobabyhavoc · 01/05/2025 17:18

Thanks for the Pooh Sticks info @bizzey @Deathraystare
I don't remember that from Winnie the Pooh, but we did it as kids and I do it with Havoc.
Rushing of to baby's activity now. 🏃‍♀️

MissConductUS · 01/05/2025 20:48

I remember playing the game with sticks going under bridges, but didn't realize it had a name.

The carpenter installed the storm door yesterday. It's nice to have the huge box for it out of the garage. The color is bronze. The glass is two panels, and the top panel can be lowered into the frame to let fresh air in. There is a screen to keep the bugs out. It's much sturdier and better quality than our old one.

I'm screening resumes for my replacement, since my boss isn't qualified to do so. It's slim pickings so far.

The baby turtle was out today. I almost didn't see it, then noticed it had crawled up onto the back of one of the bigger ones. And, I found quite a few more at another location on the other side of the reservoir.

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DandyDandylion · 01/05/2025 20:58

Uman my dd is 13 and still hunts for the perfect stick when we cross a footbridge.
Hope you are milking it and being well looked after Bizzey.
I was glad of the hot weather yesterday as I went for my first proper cold water swim of the year. First time I’ve been in a proper deep lake and it was lovely. Took a while sat in the sun for my hands and feet to warm up even in 28 degree heat.

bizzey · 01/05/2025 22:29

I was sure he did it with Piglet as well !

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bizzey · 01/05/2025 22:30

Just reading my comment while the picture is under review ..

Oops !
😟😂

Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/05/2025 16:24

Good morning, everyone. ☀️
It looks like it will be a very nice day today here in YVR.
I'm online looking for things to do with the dc today and this weekend. The Kentucky Derby snuck up on me, it's this Sunday, so I think I might have to make a little party, for it. 🤔
Locally, our little track has a special broadcast of it (and all the majors) and it's quite festive. In another life I was quite into horse racing and went most weekends for lunch and to watch the races.🤗
It will be Mother's Day the following Sunday and I'd like to plan something special to do with the dc as well. Booking a table for lunch isn't my thing, but if Havoc has any say in the plans it will be to go through the car wash. 😂😂😂
I'm just finishing a latte and put a little fruit/bagel/croissant plate together. Havoc and I are having a bit of brekkie and baby is still asleep.
So. I dyed my hair last night. 😭 Since having the dc, especially since having Baby, I've noticed greys/silvers pipping up. It really bothers me. I bought a hair colour at the drug store about two months ago, but just managed to find the time to do it last night. After washing I put my hair up in a bun and went to bed, so the big reveal will be this morning. 🫣🤞

Bizzey, how are your legs today? Please remember to stay well hydrated, elevate your legs and rest. I think that's the protocol for a few weeks. 🫶
Death, application like that can be so daunting. Are you managing?
Miss, I really love the pics from your area. ☺️
Sprouts, when are you coming back here? 😃

MyrtleLion · 02/05/2025 17:25

DSD walked into a chair yesterday and badly hurt her toe. It had come up purple this morning so I took her to hospital to get it checked. Approx 3 hour wait but we were seen in 2. She has learning disabilities so I was allowed in with her. Yes, it is broken and she needs to wear trainers for two weeks to protect it. So we had a conversation about wearing shoes indoors (we're a shoes off house) and I explained she should wear one pair inside and change into a different pair outside. No need for an x-ray or bandaging or support.

DH and I tried to pay for our holiday as it would be cancelled if we didn't pay by midnight on the 4 May. The app wouldn't make payment but kept a hold on the card. I called the holiday company and they said they haven't got a hold and it wasn't paid. DH had to ring the credit card company to see what was happening. The holiday company placed the hold and it will come off automatically on the 6 May - after the holiday will be automatically cancelled.

Fortunately there is enough credit on the card to pay again and DH called them to pay. But if we hadn't had the credit we would have been a bit scunnered. We have 80% of the cost saved but would have not had enough funds to cover the cost. We always book with a credit card in case the company goes bust.

DandyDandylion · 02/05/2025 18:30

If it’s any consolation Mrytle my dyspraxic dd managed to send a toe off at a very funny angle last year walking into a door frame. Two weeks later when we removed the strapping she did a full ballet class so the young do heal quickly.
I am looking forward to the long bank holiday weekend. Does anyone have exciting plans, I am looking for inspiration?

Umanresources · 02/05/2025 20:24

Pooh sticks is indeed watching for the first one to emerge from under the bridge.

Myrtle I managed to break my little toe on a table leg. It was stuck out at right angles. I was five months pregnant and I’d been rushing to catch the ice cream man for my 3 year old. At the hospital they strapped my whole leg up and I was told to leave the bandage on for a week. We went on holiday to Bulgaria for two weeks the next day. After a week, on removing the bandage, I had one beautifully tanned leg and one white one. I’ve actually managed to break both little toes twice more each. I now wear slippers - finally!

A lovely day today. I spent part of the afternoon using my electric scissors cutting up cardboard boxes. Very satisfying to see a lovely pile of small pieces of cardboard, which will fit nicely into the recycling bin.

Dandy My DD and I will be playing a board game/escape room type activity again. If the weather is good, we can take it into the garden. We’ve not had a barbecue this year yet, and OH is excellent at those. I do hope he manages to cut the grass first though.

We’ll have a video call with my DS and family sometime over the weekend, which is always fun.

Lovely calamari and salad for dinner tonight, with Jersey Royal potato salad.

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