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Anyone else have a visceral reaction to the picture in the news of Axel the murderer

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Newyearnewmewoooop · 24/01/2025 19:27

I’m not going to link or post his picture as he’s beyond evil and I can’t bear to look at him. I don’t want to be a grief vampire at all, that’s not what this post is about. I just wondered if anyone else has experienced such a response to it or anything else? I haven’t experienced it before

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UnicornWorld · 25/01/2025 01:51

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 01:50

Read the post again, there is no sympathy there.

I'm not engaging with anybody who thinks people being sickened by this as van banging nonsense, thanks.

RocketNan · 25/01/2025 01:53

Not really, I just seen a coward that I hope never sees the outside world again.

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 01:59

UnicornWorld · 25/01/2025 01:51

I'm not engaging with anybody who thinks people being sickened by this as van banging nonsense, thanks.

You just did🙄

UnicornWorld · 25/01/2025 02:01

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 01:59

You just did🙄

Said like a classic attention seeker.
You've had your airtime.

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 02:06

UnicornWorld · 25/01/2025 02:01

Said like a classic attention seeker.
You've had your airtime.

Are you going to engage with debating the comment I agreed with and the topic of the thread, or merely trade insults?

UnicornWorld · 25/01/2025 02:07

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 02:06

Are you going to engage with debating the comment I agreed with and the topic of the thread, or merely trade insults?

Edited

Neither.

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 02:12

Well, that's something at least.

RogueFemale · 25/01/2025 03:06

AlbertCamusflage · 24/01/2025 19:43

No, I don't "have a visceral reaction to the picture in the news of Axel the murderer".
I don't understand why he is worse than Kyle Clifford, the man who murdered three women and recently pleaded guilty. In fact Clifford's crime is more troubling since it is just an extreme example of the type of misogynistic hyper-controlling crime of violence that men perpetrate against women time and time again every fucking week, whereas Axel Rudakubana's appalling crime is profoundly untypical.
What exactly makes your reaction to an image of the killer so visceral in this particular case? could it be to do with the incidental facts of his appearance?

I suspect many people of all races were repelled by Axel Rudakubana's police mugshot. It was an exceptionally startling and frightening image, - Hindley-esque - when you knew that he'd murdered three little girls and attempted to murder many more. And said he was glad he'd killed the girls.

If you're trying to make this about race, Kyle Clifford is obviously not 'white British' either. Clifford's murder of three adult women isn't more 'troubling'. Rudakubana killed little girls not little boys.

Rudakubana's crime isn't 'profoundly untypical' unless you think killing females is unusual for men.

RogueFemale · 25/01/2025 03:39

WhatterySquash · 24/01/2025 22:35

I really don't like the picture and do find it frightening but what I see is someone who looks very, very unwell to me. I'm not saying that's an excuse. But the deadness of the eyes and kind of collapsed facial expression look like other pictures I've seen of severely mentally ill people.

I'd prefer it not to be used because the victims and families have to see that. I feel awful for his own parents too.

I don't like "pure evil"/"face of evil" type descriptions because they make me feel like people want to locate evil as an external uncontrollable force. Those who do evil things come from society, from a family, from among us and we all know that "normal" people can do evil things with alarming regularity, or can be persuaded to in particular situations. We should guard against evil things happening but not assume they can only happen because of inherently evil people. And I feel that photos like this are used to encourage that.

You're right. Mental illness not presented as a defence at trial, Rudakubana was not committed to Broadmoor psychiatric prison, just 52 years in regular prison.

I'm not Jesus enough to be okay and forgive him. I'm really happy he's in prison for decades.

Purplelimesoda · 25/01/2025 03:40

I can't bear to look at his image, I really can't so I do all I can not to!

R053 · 25/01/2025 03:54

RogueFemale · 25/01/2025 03:06

I suspect many people of all races were repelled by Axel Rudakubana's police mugshot. It was an exceptionally startling and frightening image, - Hindley-esque - when you knew that he'd murdered three little girls and attempted to murder many more. And said he was glad he'd killed the girls.

If you're trying to make this about race, Kyle Clifford is obviously not 'white British' either. Clifford's murder of three adult women isn't more 'troubling'. Rudakubana killed little girls not little boys.

Rudakubana's crime isn't 'profoundly untypical' unless you think killing females is unusual for men.

I do think the media flashing this particular photo constantly is click baity though. Of course we are supposed to have visceral reactions.

Evil people in real life often look much nicer than that. One of DD’s friend’s former boyfriend was a truly evil person, a killer, now locked up for many years. I saw informal photos of him in the friendship group and he looks really nice. Smiling and gentle looking. It shocked me seeing photos that and knowing what he did.

Lampzade · 25/01/2025 04:00

MounjaroOnMyMind · 24/01/2025 20:22

What's so terrifying about the other guy, though, is that he looked normal. I prefer monsters to look like monsters, to give us fair warning.

Absolutely
The problem is that some monsters look like decent people, have decent jobs and are attractive which is why they are able to lure their victims

EasternStandard · 25/01/2025 06:15

Hear hear. Great post and far better than the van banging nonsense in most of the thread

What's 'van banging nonsense', what are you on about?

EasternStandard · 25/01/2025 06:20

Nobody can diagnose evil from a photo without the context of knowing what they've done.

I'm pretty sure people do know what he's done. Did you miss the victim statements and sentencing from the judge?

HawkinsTigers · 25/01/2025 06:21

UnicornWorld · 24/01/2025 22:11

Let's not pretend the media need to pretend he's more evil than he is.

Honestly, some of these comments.

I think you don’t really understand what people are saying. It’s much more complex than evil v not evil, or even about him and the abhorrent thing that he did.

Thats ok, you don’t want to / have to, that’s how the media works.

HawkinsTigers · 25/01/2025 06:25

Theunamedcat · 24/01/2025 22:50

Urgh murder apologists

Where?

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 25/01/2025 06:32

HalfMarathonWishItWasTheChoc · 24/01/2025 21:27

In the aftermath of this the media put out favourable pictures of him smiling with school mates, one of him outside a tardis when he was doing drama and a photo op for Doctor Who.

We only just got to see this real photo of him. It was part of the cover up. Look - he looks so nice, surely he couldn’t have done it?

I don't understand what you mean. He'd always done it. There was never any doubt that he'd done it. I saw absolutely no mainstream reporting suggesting that he hadn't done it or that this was anything other than an unspeakable and monstrous crime.

EasternStandard · 25/01/2025 06:34

yogasam · 24/01/2025 22:31

I can't believe you're actually suggesting that Op has had that reaction because he's black. Do you know how disgusting that is?

Yes, I do; that's why I wanted to double check

Are you aware of the details of his crime? Did you listen to statements on what he did?

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 25/01/2025 06:39

There's often a point to be made about reactions to images of black people over white but probably not where the image is the mugshot of a newly convicted murderer of children.

dappledgreyandwhite · 25/01/2025 06:52

Yes. This is natural. He enjoyed killing small children. We are biologically programmed to be repulsed and incensed by it.

dappledgreyandwhite · 25/01/2025 06:52

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 25/01/2025 06:39

There's often a point to be made about reactions to images of black people over white but probably not where the image is the mugshot of a newly convicted murderer of children.

I felt the same way about Fred West.

HawkinsTigers · 25/01/2025 06:53

WhatterySquash · 24/01/2025 22:35

I really don't like the picture and do find it frightening but what I see is someone who looks very, very unwell to me. I'm not saying that's an excuse. But the deadness of the eyes and kind of collapsed facial expression look like other pictures I've seen of severely mentally ill people.

I'd prefer it not to be used because the victims and families have to see that. I feel awful for his own parents too.

I don't like "pure evil"/"face of evil" type descriptions because they make me feel like people want to locate evil as an external uncontrollable force. Those who do evil things come from society, from a family, from among us and we all know that "normal" people can do evil things with alarming regularity, or can be persuaded to in particular situations. We should guard against evil things happening but not assume they can only happen because of inherently evil people. And I feel that photos like this are used to encourage that.

This is a great post and I think it gives a really clear context as to why these pictures are often used. It allows people to mentally distance themselves from the person and the awful thing they did.

‘This person is a monster / evil / inhuman and that’s why they did it’ is more palatable than ‘this is person who did something fucking horrifying which is unforgivable and they will probably rightfully never see the outside of a prison or hospital again but most of us will never understand why he did this’. Not understanding feels uncomfortable for lots of reasons, so we speak as if the have a devil inside them because it allows us to compartmentalise things. The media knows this, that’s why they use these photos.

Then anyone who recognises that it’s more complex is accused of being an apologist, not caring, lefty liberal, snowflake etc because it’s uncomfortable having that compartmentalisation challenged.

But just to be clear, those little girls and their families are central in my thoughts. The horror that the little girls must have experienced and the trauma their families continue to experience is beyond anything that most of us can comprehend. I'm not religious so don’t do ‘prayers’ but I really hope that they’re aware that they’re in people’s thoughts and good wishes for some sort of peace as time goes on.

augustusglupe · 25/01/2025 06:54

Yes it’s hideous.

AncientAndModern1 · 25/01/2025 06:55

It’s not a ‘stock shot’, it is a mug shot, taken when he was arrested. These images are released only after a guilty verdict. A guilty plea or on sentencing, depending on the individual force.
The earlier pictures from when he was younger were the only pictures available at the time and were taken from the Internet. It’s not a conspiracy ffs! As a pp said, we always knew he’d done it. He was arrested at the scene!

EasternStandard · 25/01/2025 06:59

The media knows this, that’s why they use these photos.

Which photo other than a mug shot should they use in this instance?

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