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Anyone else have a visceral reaction to the picture in the news of Axel the murderer

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Newyearnewmewoooop · 24/01/2025 19:27

I’m not going to link or post his picture as he’s beyond evil and I can’t bear to look at him. I don’t want to be a grief vampire at all, that’s not what this post is about. I just wondered if anyone else has experienced such a response to it or anything else? I haven’t experienced it before

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madson · 24/01/2025 22:33

@MJconfessions just looked it up, your so right. 2 completely different sides to that face

UnicornWorld · 24/01/2025 22:34

yogasam · 24/01/2025 22:31

I can't believe you're actually suggesting that Op has had that reaction because he's black. Do you know how disgusting that is?

Yes, I do; that's why I wanted to double check

It was disgusting of you to suggest that. Op didn't deserve that, we already had this earlier in the thread which makes me think you just came looking for a reaction.

WhatterySquash · 24/01/2025 22:35

I really don't like the picture and do find it frightening but what I see is someone who looks very, very unwell to me. I'm not saying that's an excuse. But the deadness of the eyes and kind of collapsed facial expression look like other pictures I've seen of severely mentally ill people.

I'd prefer it not to be used because the victims and families have to see that. I feel awful for his own parents too.

I don't like "pure evil"/"face of evil" type descriptions because they make me feel like people want to locate evil as an external uncontrollable force. Those who do evil things come from society, from a family, from among us and we all know that "normal" people can do evil things with alarming regularity, or can be persuaded to in particular situations. We should guard against evil things happening but not assume they can only happen because of inherently evil people. And I feel that photos like this are used to encourage that.

UnicornWorld · 24/01/2025 22:36

madson · 24/01/2025 22:29

Bore off with the race line.

Completely agree re Kyle Clifford

Kyle has only had one photo released and he looked like a normal young man in that.
I obviously have some other choice words for Kyle.
But I don't know why people are pretending that irs not normal to feel a physical reaction to a photo of someone who stabbed a small child over 100 times. I appreciate that Kyle is just as heinous, but irs plain what about ery.

BoeufBourguig · 24/01/2025 22:37

Wise words, @WhatterySquash

luckylavender · 24/01/2025 22:40

coxesorangepippin · 24/01/2025 19:45

Odd how we get that pic now, but before it was when he was Doctor who?

Just shows how the media portrays people how they think we ought to see them

It was pre trial and he was a minor. There probably weren't many pictures around of him.

MorrisZapp · 24/01/2025 22:41

adminicle · 24/01/2025 22:15

It's impossible to see a murderer's picture without thinking of what they've done - take other killers, such as Shipman, the Wests, the Moors murderers, the Yorkshire Ripper - so, yes, there is a visceral reaction, but based on his crimes, not his appearance.

If Axel Rudakubana was a different person and his photo was in the news, say, because he'd raised a load of money for charity, I doubt I would glance twice at it.

People always go on about how evil Myra Hindley looks in her mugshot, but if it was just a random picture of a 1960s office worker (as she was before she met Brady) that popped up as a stock photo somewhere, no one would single it out as 'the face of evil'.

This is spot on. Nobody can diagnose evil from a photo without the context of knowing what they've done.

UnicornWorld · 24/01/2025 22:45

MorrisZapp · 24/01/2025 22:41

This is spot on. Nobody can diagnose evil from a photo without the context of knowing what they've done.

OP never said she could .
We are diagnosing him with evil because of what he's done.
It honestly baffles me that you're putting your energy into arguing a non point.

Go and watch the video of him getting the taxi, hear the victim statements, or the proceedings of what he did to these girls

Anything except try and find ways to prove he's not evil. Does it really matter.

SwirlyShirly · 24/01/2025 22:49

No, not visceral but I'm probably desensitised due to my line of work.

I hope things are changed very quickly.

Theunamedcat · 24/01/2025 22:50

Urgh murder apologists

VividBlue · 24/01/2025 23:02

AlbertCamusflage · 24/01/2025 19:43

No, I don't "have a visceral reaction to the picture in the news of Axel the murderer".
I don't understand why he is worse than Kyle Clifford, the man who murdered three women and recently pleaded guilty. In fact Clifford's crime is more troubling since it is just an extreme example of the type of misogynistic hyper-controlling crime of violence that men perpetrate against women time and time again every fucking week, whereas Axel Rudakubana's appalling crime is profoundly untypical.
What exactly makes your reaction to an image of the killer so visceral in this particular case? could it be to do with the incidental facts of his appearance?

Reported me did you? Well point still stands even if I have been deleted 😡

UnicornWorld · 24/01/2025 23:03

VividBlue · 24/01/2025 23:02

Reported me did you? Well point still stands even if I have been deleted 😡

Imagine them having the audacity to report you 😅

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 24/01/2025 23:03

I think he's horrific but I don't see evil in pictures.

Not sure why we are talking about " side show Bob" hair.

He did a repulsive thing. Absolutely repulsive.

I don't know how people can see that from a picture though.

SinisterBumFacedCat · 24/01/2025 23:26

Pigeonqueen · 24/01/2025 20:21

I felt that way when I saw the mugshot of Emma Tustin (murder of Arthur L Hughes). All the photos we’d seen of her up to that point were very flattering, heavily edited selfies, and there she was looking every inch the hard faced murderer she was / is.

Edited

Agree. I don’t think heavily edited/filtered photos should be used at all.

I don’t at all like seeing this guys stupid mug shot. But showing photos of him as a child before the trial is baffling.

missbeehive5 · 24/01/2025 23:39

He looks like an idiot in the photo. I wouldn't have found it frightening if I didn't know what he'd done iyswim. I'd think he looked like a tit. However with the context, yes it is disturbing and I'm sick of seeing it everywhere these past few days.

As details have emerged about the injuries inflicted on those poor little girls I honestly can't bear to think about it any more, it's unfathomable. I really don't think he will last long in prison. Pure evil. The death penalty would be too good for him.

Pilgrimgirl · 24/01/2025 23:58

I was repulsed when I saw his photo. He looks exactly like the monster he is. To think that evil face was the last thing some of those poor girls ever saw is absolutely horrific and knowing this must be unbearable for the poor parents. 52 years in prison is a very long time, I honestly don't think he'll last that long. I'm just glad he's in a normal prison and not in a hospital for the mentally ill. I've had dealings with Ashworth where he was held previously via my job and I'm glad to hear he's now in Belmarsh which I imagine is nowhere near as "cushy".

TheScenicWay · 25/01/2025 00:10

I always wonder what happened to make him so evil. Not excusing him at all but it's not normal, is it?
Not just him but others too. It's frightening to think people like him just walk around and live somewhat normal lives and then do something like this.

TheOracleatDelphi · 25/01/2025 00:17

Newyearnewmewoooop · 24/01/2025 19:27

I’m not going to link or post his picture as he’s beyond evil and I can’t bear to look at him. I don’t want to be a grief vampire at all, that’s not what this post is about. I just wondered if anyone else has experienced such a response to it or anything else? I haven’t experienced it before

Yes, I did!!!! Honestly, I hardly ever have these and haven't to other really horrid killers but when I looked at the photo of him my insides screamed in a weird way, really awful

Violet35 · 25/01/2025 01:29

howrudeforme · 24/01/2025 19:48

No.

The stock photo was deliberately chosen because he looks frightening in that pose with is head down looking up. It’s meant to cause shock.

Agree as opposed to Kyle Clifford's picture in the news where he was wearing a tuxedo, neat haircut, beard trimmed and smiling. They are both men and hideous criminals but please note the difference to Axel's photo in the news.

Violet35 · 25/01/2025 01:34

AshCrapp · 24/01/2025 20:39

I did, but only because I knew what I was looking at. I feel the same about all of the child murders in the press. There's just something insane about looking at the face of a person who could do something like that to little helpless children.

Would you say the same thing if you looked at Lucy Letby's mug shot?

UnicornWorld · 25/01/2025 01:34

Violet35 · 25/01/2025 01:29

Agree as opposed to Kyle Clifford's picture in the news where he was wearing a tuxedo, neat haircut, beard trimmed and smiling. They are both men and hideous criminals but please note the difference to Axel's photo in the news.

Has it occurred to you that there was perhaps no other photos of Axel?

Kyle's photo has clearly been taken off his social media

There's a gent in Gloucester who campaigns against media reporting because when his daughter was murdered by her bf, the photos they posted of her had him in or cropped out.

They just lift from social media or whatever is closest to hand.

There's no agenda here. They used the quickest photo they could find

Incidentally they couldn't have used Kyle's mugshot because he won't have had one!

UnicornWorld · 25/01/2025 01:36

Violet35 · 25/01/2025 01:34

Would you say the same thing if you looked at Lucy Letby's mug shot?

Yes she gives me chills.
But I'm confused by the whataboutery. Are we suggesting poor old axel is a victim of bad reporting?

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 01:43

WhatterySquash · 24/01/2025 22:35

I really don't like the picture and do find it frightening but what I see is someone who looks very, very unwell to me. I'm not saying that's an excuse. But the deadness of the eyes and kind of collapsed facial expression look like other pictures I've seen of severely mentally ill people.

I'd prefer it not to be used because the victims and families have to see that. I feel awful for his own parents too.

I don't like "pure evil"/"face of evil" type descriptions because they make me feel like people want to locate evil as an external uncontrollable force. Those who do evil things come from society, from a family, from among us and we all know that "normal" people can do evil things with alarming regularity, or can be persuaded to in particular situations. We should guard against evil things happening but not assume they can only happen because of inherently evil people. And I feel that photos like this are used to encourage that.

Hear hear. Great post and far better than the van banging nonsense in most of the thread.

UnicornWorld · 25/01/2025 01:48

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 01:43

Hear hear. Great post and far better than the van banging nonsense in most of the thread.

'Van banging nonsense'

I didn't bang any vans neither did anybody else on the thread. I don't entirely blame the people who did.

Would that be not having any sympathy whatsoever for someone who gleefully stabbed a child over 100 times? Who said he was glad he did? Who dragged a child back in after she nearly got out?

Boohoo if he hadn't drank enough water (which incidentally he shouted about while the bereaved parents tried to speak at the trial).

It's worrying there are people with these views in the world. And on a parenting site.

SharpOpalNewt · 25/01/2025 01:50

Read the post again, there is no sympathy there.