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People of the left, can we learn some lessons from Trump's win please?

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Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 08:07

And other things, like Brexit, the disaster that was Jeremy Corbyn and his campaign.

Whilst there will be multi-factorial reasons for the way all these votes went, one of the reason, imo, is that far too many people on the left think anyone who disagrees with them is thick and racist. Do you remember that mock advert for Labour during JCs campaign? ' You are thick and racist - Vote Labour!'. That raised laughs because it resonated with how people felt about the Left.

Just stop being so bloody certain you are right and everyone else is wrong and start bloody listening to people who voted the way you don't want them to. Figure out why that is. Realise they actually have some legitimate concerns. Find ways to address these.

Because, and I can't believe I actually have to point this out, insulting people is not the way to win them over. Addressing their concerns is.

Because its not smart to sit there smugly thinking you are always right, even when voters are repeatedly disagreeing with you. It feels nice to think that, yes. But all that means is that you lack the courage to move yourself out of your psychological comfort zone. Its lazy, not smart. And it shows a distinct lack of intellectual curiosity.

I'm pretty pissed at Trump winning as I support Ukraine. I think the Left in America needs to look pretty hard at itself as to why a candidate such as Trump has won. And the left in the UK has lessons to learn too.

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ByMerryKoala · 06/11/2024 09:49

JohnnyRememberMe · 06/11/2024 09:37

The left completely ignores all of history and the scientific consensus when it comes to two sexes. And is willing to allow rapists in women's prisons, and harmful puberty blockers to be given to children

Yes, I don't think this helps. Demanding that people believe in the absurdity that sex is changeable and then berating them for objecting doesn't build on the idea that they are a fact checking power house of truthfulness.

And I'm not a climate change denier. Obviously. But I can see how that can become a contested narrative, obfuscated by the background noise of the global climate being forever in flux. I understand how someone could believe that without a shred of malice, whilst absolutely disagreeing with them.

But do I believe someone can say that that 6 foot guy with a pronoun badge, mopping up the sporting titles is a woman - without suspecting that the intention is that I submit to a falsehood to prove allegiance? Nope.

crackofdoom · 06/11/2024 09:49

Foxblue · 06/11/2024 09:42

I'm not sure why people keep saying the left won't look at themselves to examine why Trump won, i see plenty of discussion of it in left leaning media, and I do hear 'people feel talked down to' mentioned. It's just that normally the 'people feel talked down to' is often coupled with discussion on why people in right wing circles, when faced with facts that counter their argument or asked to provide evidence, deflect/ignore. (To be 100% clear, I am not saying the left don't ever do this, but its very noticeable in right wing circles and understanding why this is is imperative)

We live in an environment where peoples' entire sense of reality and everything they think they know about the world has been relentlessly shaped by billionaire- funded propaganda. These are the limits of the current Overton Window. And what we're going to do about that I don't really know...

quantumbutterfly · 06/11/2024 09:50

ByMerryKoala · 06/11/2024 09:25

Please, the peppers should never be smug, they only have four days in them, tops. Give me an onion anyday.

😂bloody vegetarians controlling the internet with their autocarrot.

Peppers keep longer in the fridge, preppers keep longer in bunkers.

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dottiehens · 06/11/2024 09:51

Miniopolis · 06/11/2024 08:13

Nope, I still can’t think of a good enough reason that I could use to justify voting for him. There seems to be non stop berating of the democrats and their supporters on here. How Trump and his repugnance is all our fault. How people who vote for him do it because of us. Honestly, no. Take some responsibility for your choices. We will all be on the receiving end. The whole world. If I were religious I’d say god help us.

Maybe the way to see it if that not everyone would have your same opinion, views and priorities? And that is ok. We can’t all be the same. Respect other people’s view and if you want to persuade them do not alienate them by insulting their intellect. Be aware of generational gaps and do not make older people irrelevant.

Fluffyhoglets · 06/11/2024 09:52

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 08:36

Ok, you learn nothing and keep on thinking like that, and you know who the next President of the USA will be? Vance.

Trump is an bombastic egotist, doing this for the attention and glory. He's like a baby in softsuit compared to Vance.

If Vance wins next that will not be the fault of the left that will be on the people that voted for him because they don't like what the left offer them.
If people don't want the progressive offer from the left - the left can't just fundamentally change and become the right instead.

crackofdoom · 06/11/2024 09:52

Fluffyhoglets · 06/11/2024 09:52

If Vance wins next that will not be the fault of the left that will be on the people that voted for him because they don't like what the left offer them.
If people don't want the progressive offer from the left - the left can't just fundamentally change and become the right instead.

Oh I don't know, seems to have worked for Keir Starmer...🙄

Fluffyhoglets · 06/11/2024 09:54

dottiehens · 06/11/2024 09:51

Maybe the way to see it if that not everyone would have your same opinion, views and priorities? And that is ok. We can’t all be the same. Respect other people’s view and if you want to persuade them do not alienate them by insulting their intellect. Be aware of generational gaps and do not make older people irrelevant.

I can do that but they've always got a "reason" why they won't vote left
And tbh I don't respect anyone who'd vote for a racist rapist criminal - and they certainly don't respect my left leaning views.
It goes both ways.

Seasmoke · 06/11/2024 09:54

User37482 · 06/11/2024 09:21

Refer you to the race traitor coconut thing. It is only ever levelled at brown and black people.

It’s used by people who are often lazy and/or stupid. It is basically saying I can’t argue with you so instead I will paint you are a stooge, a betrayer, white wannabe.

It’s race gatekeeping. Plus it’s ignorant, my country of origin has everything from communists to ethno-nationalists. The idea that brown and black people should only have one type of politics will be news to all those people out there in the world.

Absolutely this. It's infuriating that people can't see how irritating and demeaning this is even when scores of Black and Asian people say it, over and over again. All Black people aren't the same. They have different backgrounds and experiences, just like White people. In fact moreso, when you look at the spread of Black people over two continents, and differences in religion amongst Asians in particular. We are far less homogeneous than White Europeans. They are entitled to have different views. By saying Badenoch/Patel /Braverman/ Cleverley etc are trojan horses for White Racists is basically denying them a right to autonomous thought. It's saying they are too stupid to think for themselves because they have come to the wrong opinion. Too stupid to know when people are being racist towards them. I am of the Left but this is the one thing that infuriates me more than anything else. As an Asian woman, I find it personally insulting and dehumanising in ways almost nothing else does. Other Black and Asian people have said the same thing but it keeps on happening. Mostly by White Lefties.

Bonnyrowantree · 06/11/2024 09:55

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 09:48

Oh we do get it it's you that don't get it. It's not for me as a while woman to say Dawn is wrong as that's a conversation maybe black people should have

Wrong...White people are entitled to a view. Why wouldn't they be?

crackofdoom · 06/11/2024 09:55

I wonder, after Biden's victory in 2020, how many right wing commentators were publicly asking whether calling their opponents out-of-touch, foolish, unpatriotic libtards might have lost them the election? My guess is close to zero.

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 09:56

Foxblue · 06/11/2024 09:42

I'm not sure why people keep saying the left won't look at themselves to examine why Trump won, i see plenty of discussion of it in left leaning media, and I do hear 'people feel talked down to' mentioned. It's just that normally the 'people feel talked down to' is often coupled with discussion on why people in right wing circles, when faced with facts that counter their argument or asked to provide evidence, deflect/ignore. (To be 100% clear, I am not saying the left don't ever do this, but its very noticeable in right wing circles and understanding why this is is imperative)

The 'debate' on women's sex based rights shows that the Left are certainly not the fans of facts and evidence you are claiming here. but are as a capable of holding firm to fact free positions as anyone else in the world. And in this case its stark. Its blatantly obvious that there are two sexes, that people cannot change sex, and that gender identity does not trump sex when it comes to women's prisons, rape crisis centres, changing rooms and sports, and that male predators will take advantage of the safeguarding loophole this position provides. It is very hard to take seriously the left's claim that they are the smart critical thinkers, based in evidence when they are the ones primarily pushing this agenda. They cannot even define their own key terms yet alone mount evidence to support their position, and their only tactic seems to be to call people who disagree with them names.

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Noisylass · 06/11/2024 09:57

Bonnyrowantree · 06/11/2024 09:55

Wrong...White people are entitled to a view. Why wouldn't they be?

You can't tell dawn she's wrong about this you really can't as she's entitled to her view as a black woman

circleback · 06/11/2024 09:58

I don’t know whether this was an issue for many voters but for me I was taken aback about how much they covered up Biden’s decline. I know the media played a role in that so it’s not just the Democrats.

I did hear voters interviewed mention that Harris wasn’t selected through a primary and didn’t think that was legit. Also long before the election there has been criticism that Harris hasn’t been visible and certainly not at the border when immigration was supposed to be one of her roles. And immigration is a big concern for a lot of voters.

MrsSkylerWhite · 06/11/2024 09:58

Seasmoke · Today 09:40

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · Today 08:27
Have you heard of Dawn Butler?

Butler is one of the Hard Left Labour MP's who are exactly what the OP is talking about. Labour generally have ditched most of them but she is so dim and does this so often she is easy to ignore. There are far fewer of them than they were in the Corbyn days but they and their activists are still there. They are more of an opposition than the Tories to the Labour government.

So we mustn’t insult the intelligence of right wingers but it’s ok to call Butler dim?

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 09:59

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 09:56

The 'debate' on women's sex based rights shows that the Left are certainly not the fans of facts and evidence you are claiming here. but are as a capable of holding firm to fact free positions as anyone else in the world. And in this case its stark. Its blatantly obvious that there are two sexes, that people cannot change sex, and that gender identity does not trump sex when it comes to women's prisons, rape crisis centres, changing rooms and sports, and that male predators will take advantage of the safeguarding loophole this position provides. It is very hard to take seriously the left's claim that they are the smart critical thinkers, based in evidence when they are the ones primarily pushing this agenda. They cannot even define their own key terms yet alone mount evidence to support their position, and their only tactic seems to be to call people who disagree with them names.

So you pretended that you was on the left when you wrote the post then that's OK then so we know where we stand

quantumbutterfly · 06/11/2024 09:59

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 09:48

Oh we do get it it's you that don't get it. It's not for me as a while woman to say Dawn is wrong as that's a conversation maybe black people should have

When you meet someone do you just see their skin colour, is it the most important thing about them? Not their sex, or their life experience,education,aspirations? That's racist.

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 09:59

Fluffyhoglets · 06/11/2024 09:52

If Vance wins next that will not be the fault of the left that will be on the people that voted for him because they don't like what the left offer them.
If people don't want the progressive offer from the left - the left can't just fundamentally change and become the right instead.

Ok. If your position is that in a democracy the parties do not have to listen to the concerns of voters and address them, then enjoy opposition.

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Noisylass · 06/11/2024 10:01

quantumbutterfly · 06/11/2024 09:59

When you meet someone do you just see their skin colour, is it the most important thing about them? Not their sex, or their life experience,education,aspirations? That's racist.

Are you a little bit daft? Where have you got that from? I am saying what I am saying. Is if a black woman wants to have the conversation about another black woman How she believes she's been a traitor to her own race. She's entitled to have that conversation. I as a white woman, don't get to say, oh, that's not Fine. I don't judge people based on nothing but what I find them to be. It's not me that goes on about how many black people are in adverts that tends to be a lot of people on the right. You always see that on groups like this, for instance, as an example

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 10:01

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 09:59

So you pretended that you was on the left when you wrote the post then that's OK then so we know where we stand

I don't have party allegiances anymore but my politics are of the left, as are 98% of the women who support sex based rights that I know.

The fact that you think women's basic human rights are not an issue an issue for the left, tells me a lot about you.

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FrostFlowers2025 · 06/11/2024 10:01

quantumbutterfly · 06/11/2024 09:21

Existential dread is a marvellous tool to stop people acting only in their own immediate self interest, all religions use it, the democrats tried to use it.

The world didn't end last time Trump was in despite COVID, but the peppers were a bit smugger.

It's having the opposite effect on me. If all I have it today, or even just this moment, I am going to enjoy it as much as possible. There are too many assholes out their who demand attention or they will burn the world down.

I can't stop them, but I can plug my ears and do my own thing for as long as possible.

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 10:02

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 09:59

So you pretended that you was on the left when you wrote the post then that's OK then so we know where we stand

Oh and plus, I note that you proved here the point I made in my post that people with your views don't mount arguments to support your position but instead just throw out what you think are insults.

So thanks for evidencing my argument 🙃

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CurlewKate · 06/11/2024 10:04

So basically, we're sacrificing our right to abortion and contraception and to read whatever books we want to read on the gender critical altar.

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 10:04

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 10:01

I don't have party allegiances anymore but my politics are of the left, as are 98% of the women who support sex based rights that I know.

The fact that you think women's basic human rights are not an issue an issue for the left, tells me a lot about you.

It was more when you stated the lefts claim which you put showing you r not on the left even though you claimed you was. I haven't been personal to you I have critiqued yes

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 10:06

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 10:02

Oh and plus, I note that you proved here the point I made in my post that people with your views don't mount arguments to support your position but instead just throw out what you think are insults.

So thanks for evidencing my argument 🙃

Hardly an insult if being progressive means you want equality for all then yes count me in even trans people I don't see that is contrary to me being a woman but hey ho

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 10:06

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 10:04

It was more when you stated the lefts claim which you put showing you r not on the left even though you claimed you was. I haven't been personal to you I have critiqued yes

What a bonkers argument. If I were a Christian and I said, ' Christians believe...' would you take that as evidence that I was not a Christian?!

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