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Does anyone believe these men? (Gisèle Pélicot)

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suihi · 19/09/2024 20:44

Excepts here:

’“If I had known she wasn’t aware [of what would happen], I wouldn’t have gone there,” he told the court. “I should have checked that she was OK with it. I didn’t talk to her, so I could not get her consent. I feel guilty for what I did.
“I never told myself: ‘I will rape that woman’,” he said. However, he admitted, “I’m guilty of rape.” He added that he should have left when he saw she was unconscious, and that it was cowardly of him not to have said anything.’

’Some men have admitted Pélicot told them he was drugging his then wife, while others claimed they believed they were participating in a couple’s organised game.’

Dominique Pélicot has admitted the charges, telling the court he was “a rapist”. He has said the men he recruited online all knew they were coming to rape his unconscious, drugged wife.’

Somehow I have a feeling it’s the latter 🤨

www.theguardian.com/world/2024/sep/19/i-am-part-of-this-nightmare-man-admits-guilt-in-gisele-pelicot-trial

OP posts:
OrdsallChord · 22/09/2024 13:10

Brefugee · 21/09/2024 14:27

one of the (female) defence lawyers posted a tiktok of her singing and dancing along to Wake Me Up Before You Go Go and i am feeling violent thoughts.

Yes, I cannot fathom what the fuck she was thinking there. Just awful. I'm usually exceptionally unsympathetic to people slagging off defence lawyers, but on this occasion I shall make an exception.

fufulina · 22/09/2024 13:20

Brefugee · 21/09/2024 14:27

one of the (female) defence lawyers posted a tiktok of her singing and dancing along to Wake Me Up Before You Go Go and i am feeling violent thoughts.

My god. That’s appalling.

CrossUniStudent · 22/09/2024 13:24

I saw an article yesterday with one of the accused blokes who all woe is me and I was wtf! Delusional, utterly delusional.

BoreOffAboutYerChickensEmma · 22/09/2024 14:17

ColourByNumbers88 · 22/09/2024 12:44

@BoreOffAboutYerChickensEmma this is an excellent idea. I searched around even for a global petition on change.org - something to get the message to Gisele that women around the world stand with her and support her, but I can't see anything. Sick of hearing about rape and misogyny in the news. The discussion down the thread about a similar issue in NI. You just know these aren't unique cases. Often think this is how a lot of porn must be created.

I wonder if @mnhq can help? @Lozzalove is there a charity that helped you? Maybe we can set up a GoFundMe in MMe Pelicot’s name for a charity here?

ColourByNumbers88 · 22/09/2024 21:12

@BoreOffAboutYerChickensEmma the problem with sites like GoFundMe is that they take a commission. You'd be better sending it directly to a charity.

I was thinking more around the #metoo movement so that after all this is over and Gisele is back to reality that she knows she is supported globally. The aftermath of this is just incomprehensible. I cannot imagine what she must feel like every day having to face these men. At least she has her children but it's just vile.

MaidOfAle · 23/09/2024 14:44

she knows she is supported globally

I think she knows. There have been demonstrations in France and Belgium in her support.

On est toutes Gisèle. (We are all Gisèle.)

MaidOfAle · 26/09/2024 11:57

This open letter in response to these rapes, signed by over 200 prominent French men, acknowledges that all men benefit from the systematic oppression of women.

France is have a much-needed conversation right now. Bravo Gisèle.

ColourByNumbers88 · 23/10/2024 19:52

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/oct/23/gisele-pelicot-rape-trial-france-court?CMP=ShareiOSAppp_Other

I hope she gets the outcome she deserves. I want to weep when I see her.

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