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Husband isn't happy I have booked a weekend in Blackpool...

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ringsingling · 17/09/2024 13:03

Next weekend he said he fancied going away in the UK for two nights.
I asked him where he fancied and he's words were "I don't care ,just a nice break with you "
We haven't been away since July when we went to Cyprus so thought a little trip was a nice idea.
I looked at Edinburgh and hotels were so overpriced
Found a b&b in Blackpool for £130 for two nights with breakfast.
Reviews said it was nice.
Obviously it's a no frills b&b but I don't care.

I used to go to Blackpool every year with my mum and she passed away when I was 13 (now I'm 30) and honestly it was the place with all my happy memories.
I know the back is run down now but I thought it would be nice.
I found a couple of nice bars -bloom bar and beach club or beach bar.

Anyway told husband and he isn't happy
He said he didn't mind ...then I book and he's miserable

Is it that bad now ?
I just thought a couple of cheesy days
Maybe do madam tuzaards,the tower etc
I just want to go to remember my mum too,walk past the hotel we used to stay at.
It's still open

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betterangels · 17/09/2024 20:55

Tralalaka · 17/09/2024 13:45

If someone booked me Blackpool I wouldn’t go either regardless of whether I had expressed a preference for somewhere or not. There’s a definte middle ground between expensive hotels in Edinburgh and a no frills B&b in Blackpool. If sounds hideous

Hardly somewhere I'd pick for a couple's getaway. Of all the places...

Disturbia81 · 17/09/2024 22:07

Some proper snobs on this thread 😂

GutsyPoet · 17/09/2024 22:10

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Codlingmoths · 17/09/2024 22:20

ringsingling · 17/09/2024 17:36

Well as he wasn't bothered I didn't think he would mind tbh
I've had loads of little trips with him just for him
He has had me doing the Man U stadium tour and staying in hotel football class of 92 (I think ) room when I don't like football
Went to London to see a rugby match (no clue what was happening )

I like to think it's a compromise 🤣

Given this, have a great time. If he makes a negative comment ask how many times you moaned at the rugby match or stadium tour, and does he really think he’s the only one who should ever be prioritised?? Tell him If he wants to make one more comment he can not come/go home and you will never again do something that’s not your favourite because he wants to, now you know that’s not a two way thing.

sometimes men forget their partner is actually a person too. He didn’t book anything, you did, and he can come as long as he doesn’t moan.

ItWasOnAStarryNight · 17/09/2024 22:45

"There need not be a dull minute all day and there are plenty of pubs and restaurants in the town so no need to travel elsewhere."

Lytham is a few quid in a taxi and a meal and a bit of a pub crawl there will be nice for both the OP and her husband. Blackpool is good at what it's good at but on a Saturday night I imagine they'll be glad of the change of scenery

bigoldnamechange · 17/09/2024 23:53

ItWasOnAStarryNight · 17/09/2024 19:16

"You said Edinburgh or Blackpool as if they were your only choices... what about Cambridge, Rye. Dorset, the Isle of Wight, plucking random examples out of the air?"

The Isle of Wight and Dorset for 2 nights from Newcastle? 🤪

Not the gotcha you thought it was considering I hadn't seen the post saying she was in Newcastle at that point. It was posted a few minutes earlier.
But yeah. Absolutely hilarious!
🤣

ItWasOnAStarryNight · 18/09/2024 00:25

"Not the gotcha you thought it was considering I hadn't seen the post saying she was in Newcastle at that point. It was posted a few minutes earlier."

Or you could just RTFT.

ClaudiaWinklepanda · 18/09/2024 03:18

OP, your love for Blackpool and unwavering enthusiasm for your trip in the face of us naysayers is making me happy, I can’t quite explain why. Hope you have a lovely time.

ringsingling · 18/09/2024 07:35

You know what weird thing I'm looking forward too ...you know when your staying in a b&b and you walk down the stairs and can smell the breakfast (that makes me feel so nostalgic ha ha )

He has seen our excited I am and is okay about it now
He wants to go see The Corrs in November so I have said that can be "his thing" of the year.
I can't remember a song they sang so il be on Apple Music all October 🤣

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This ☝🏼

ItWasOnAStarryNight · 18/09/2024 08:16

The Corrs? Crikey, and people thought you had bad taste with Blackpool 😂

ringsingling · 18/09/2024 08:36

@ItWasOnAStarryNight honestly what a pair we make ha ha

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Bearpawk · 18/09/2024 09:26

I don't know, in my relationship even if we say 'I'm easy' we'd both know that meant somewhere nice and not Blackpool 😂 unless specifically discussed to go somewhere niche like Blackpool, if that makes sense.

Disturbia81 · 18/09/2024 09:59

Bearpawk · 18/09/2024 09:26

I don't know, in my relationship even if we say 'I'm easy' we'd both know that meant somewhere nice and not Blackpool 😂 unless specifically discussed to go somewhere niche like Blackpool, if that makes sense.

My god..

BigDahliaFan · 18/09/2024 10:08

Disturbia81 · 18/09/2024 07:44

This ☝🏼

Yes definitely not a dull moment, I'd echo that.

But it depends if not dull includes open drug taking, fighting and smashed out of their faces stag and hen dos...

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Disturbia81 · 19/09/2024 10:15

@BigDahliaFan Easy to avoid..

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