In love with a streamer

[Buttercupflying]

Hi everyone im Falling for a bigo host ive been gifting and chatting 2 this person offline not just bigo and we chat 4 long hours on insta but im Starting to catch feelings we have a bit of flirt time also but nothing to deep the flirt bit happeend once out of no where. Does he like me or because i gift? Also watched a movie via because i was higher gifter but he hinted for me to get higher to win. He started the flirt bit not me we chat for ages on call one on one please am i being silly here

You obviously are or you would have stopped doing it.

Enjoy being taken for a mug again in the near future.

Could you go for a day, a week, a month without watching these streams/interacting, @Buttercupflying? I suspect you are still hooked on them, and on him, and if that is the case, you need to give them - and him - up completely.

You can test this very easily. See how long you can go without wanting/needing to watch the streamers/interacting with them. See how it makes you feel, to go without these interactions. If you feel fine, and don’t miss it after a week or so, then maybe I am wrong. Maybe you can just dip in and out, with no risk of being pulled back in. But if you start craving these interactions/streams - I’m sorry, but that is a red flag, in my opinion.

There are plenty of other things you could do. Just cut the cord, block him.

I'm what world do you allow some random stranger to interact with your son. Never do I understand these parents who have no safeguarding for their kids. I realise we can't stop our kids ever speaking to other adults, there will be teachers or tutors and so on but we don't bloody actively seek out strangers to introduce to our kids either.

And so it continues : www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5257056-he-assumed-i-couldnt-go?page=1

This just sounds like classic relationship scam 😬

OP, you might find this Action Fraud website helpful. They describe fraud as,
"Fraud is when trickery is used to gain an advantage, often financial, over another person".
They have a free support line who can point you towards practical resources for further help and you can do it online or by calling 08 08 16 89 111.

www.actionfraud.police.uk/what-is-action-fraud

Oh my gosh OP seriously you are spiralling love..please seek help.

Girl you sound vulnerable, you are not taking advice and I can't believe people still fall for the biggest scam in the world. He wants your money , he prob has 20 other ladies doing the same thing . You will not listen to sense