In love with a streamer

[Buttercupflying]

Hi everyone im Falling for a bigo host ive been gifting and chatting 2 this person offline not just bigo and we chat 4 long hours on insta but im Starting to catch feelings we have a bit of flirt time also but nothing to deep the flirt bit happeend once out of no where. Does he like me or because i gift? Also watched a movie via because i was higher gifter but he hinted for me to get higher to win. He started the flirt bit not me we chat for ages on call one on one please am i being silly here

Ive only started the past month and half so i would say about about £380 in total for diamonds I've spent. I will give that a watch tonight Nchanged89 · ivr been watching bad girls been binge watch that which ive been enjoying watched it years ago and found it on itvx

I get discount threw him he knows discount ways to get then cheaper than they actually are

You need to block any access he has to your son also.
He is a predator and you need to open your eyes to this fact.

He's never spoken 2 my son or anything just offered to do gaming etc if i gift 2000 diamonds he sent one of his gifters son a present before i think he's good with kids as he hasn't got kids off his own he seems ti bond with kids he said

You can add grooming to the list of reasons he's not lovely.

Omg, he wants paying to play games with your son?
How much £ is 2000 diamonds?

2000 is £42 yeah its like highest gifter gets to do different activitys with him etc

Do you realise he is grooming and scamming money out of you?
Do you acknowledge that?

And god only knows where he’s uploading any videos you’ve done for him

OP, come on!

OP, you sound lovely but he is completely taking advantage of that and unfortunately, laughing all the way to the bank. It's his job to say the right things, you are his making up his salary. Con men have to be charming - they wouldn't earn otherwise. He has learned the most effective things to say to get your money and make up his salary. BUT you deserve better. Everyone is advising you to block all access to him and you are lucky, you have all this advice! - please listen, don't let him manipulate you.

Thank you all yes jn going to watch Netflix tonight and get him out my head before i make my self unwell because it's effected me he's all i really had 2 chat with

Well you can chat on here!

Thank you it helps alot that everyone here as gold me what i really already new just thought there was slight chance i was wrong and he was genuine

You don't work, so is this benefit money you're paying this prince charming?

No chance he's genuine I'm afraid. This has been one of the very few threads where everyone agrees.

Have you blocked him yet?

Not that i think your going to listen OP but i will give it a shot..

He does NOT like you.

He is ONLY after your money.

You've told him you'll step away because you have feelings, he then USED you by talking sexually to ensure you stay in contact - He ONLY wants you to stay in contact for THE MONEY

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE BLOCK HIM.

And seek therapy for your low self esteem, you are putting yourself in danger by interacting so intimately with a STRANGER online.

You do NOT know him, you know whatever lie he has told you.

THIS IS NOT REAL, THAT MAN IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU

Please believe I say this with love. You have hundreds of women on here telling you the same thing.

HE IS NOT LOVELY - HE IS USING YOU BECAUSE HE KNOWS YOU ARE VUNERABLE. BLOCK HIM

FFS DO NOT LET HIM ANYWHERE NEAR YOUR SON.

HE ISN'T GOOD WITH KIDS.

HE'S GROOMING THEM.

That £380 could have been spent on Christmas presents for your son.

Must be.

SMH.

Do you not know this is how paedophiles access children? They make out they’re the good guys, befriend the mother. They play the long game, gaining the child’s trust ( and the mother’s)
You are far too trusting, far too naive. Please stop all this online nonsense before some serious happens. You can’t undo abuse.

I am definitely going to do this this time i have 2 that might on video call has just proved it because that's not anyway to act after ie told him im getting feelings 4 him just made me feel worthless and low about myself

Please tell your support worker what’s been happening with this man. They won’t be judgemental but they need to know so they can help you. This man is not a nice person. He is using you to make money and possibly for access to your son. Speak to someone in real life. Don’t be embarrassed. He’s the one who should be embarrassed, taking advantage of a vulnerable woman.

Holy shit, 360 quid!

You could have bought a games console for that.

I've just watched my celeb crush on a vr headset...pretty sure theyre 360 quid too. And at least you don't have to worry about being scammed.

Oh @Buttercupflying What could buy YOURSELF for £340? Or your child? Would that have been a nice amount of cash to put towards Christmas presents?

Have you gone short of anything recently you could have done with?

Think of that and realise he has taken this away from you.

Please please never engage with this scammer again. Block his number, delete the app.