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Expat or immigrant?

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dylexicdementor11 · 11/08/2024 19:13

I’ve noticed that many Americans and Brits on mumsnet tend to refer to themselves as expats if they live outside of their country of origin.

So an American living in the U.K. will say that they are an expat instead of saying that they are an immigrant.
But many people from other countries are referred to as immigrants even if their stay in a host country will be temporary.

Why is that?

OP posts:
User6874356 · 12/08/2024 05:40

dylexicdementor11 · 11/08/2024 19:29

Yes, I’ve heard that definition as well. But it is clearly not used to describe most non U.K. nationals that live temporarily in the U.K. for work, even if they are nationals of former colonies unless they are Americans.

I would call them expats if they were here temporarily.

I have been an expat - I worked overseas in a country that has incredibly restrictive immigration laws and so I was only allowed to work a few years then leave. I would have liked to have been an immigrant (good economic opportunities and lifestyle) but they wouldn’t allow it. Interestingly in most of these places the expats are mainly westerners (usually white) while the local population are not. Yet the expats are the ones without the rights.

that to me is an expat - people in places temporarily where they do not intend to, or are not permitted to settle. An immigrant is someone who is moving permanently. It’s a bit of a cliche used by a certain type that immigrant is some sort of slur but I don’t agree. Often calling someone an expat is pointing out they are only somewhere temporarily and do not have the rights of a citizen.

User6874356 · 12/08/2024 05:48

AsiaFlyer · 12/08/2024 00:40

I've always thought of myself as both.

Expat because sent by company.

Immigrant because I've immigrated.

The strange case was when I was posted to the UK on an expat package (I'm British). Then I thought of myself as sort-of an expat (meeting one part of the usual test for that word), but not an immigrant (am in home country).

It's certainly not always a pejorative distinction. Most expats I know see immigration as a good thing (and recognise they are immigrants). And 'expat' can carry a bit of a stigma too, depending on context.

I agree that expat can carry a stigma. You’re just temporary so you don’t get to have a say in the issues of the country you live in. Often in many places, their existence is quite precarious and expats are openly treated less favorably than the local population (eg in the Middle East). An immigrant will at least get the rights of a citizen when they qualify.

ProgressivePilgrim · 12/08/2024 06:21

Yes it is racist. Though often said in ignorance rather than knowingly, in the way that someone who said the n-word would know it's racist.

I often heard the expression 'expat' when I was a child and youth. I used to think it was just used by British people to describe fellow brits temporarily living abroad. Didn't occur to me about the double standards.

To my shame, I used it in conversation (years ago) once in that context, and a good friend lovingly explained to me why it's wrong, especially as I absolutely describe myself as anti-racist. I was horrified once I understood, and I've never said it again.

I'm grateful to said friend gently meeting me where I was at, rather than shaming me, which would have been devastating.

I guess we're all on a journey.

YellowAsteroid · 12/08/2024 06:45

nocoolnamesleft · 11/08/2024 19:21

One of us is an expat. One of them is an immigrant. Part racism, part xenophobia.

This.

AlisonDonut · 12/08/2024 06:49

ProgressivePilgrim · 12/08/2024 06:21

Yes it is racist. Though often said in ignorance rather than knowingly, in the way that someone who said the n-word would know it's racist.

I often heard the expression 'expat' when I was a child and youth. I used to think it was just used by British people to describe fellow brits temporarily living abroad. Didn't occur to me about the double standards.

To my shame, I used it in conversation (years ago) once in that context, and a good friend lovingly explained to me why it's wrong, especially as I absolutely describe myself as anti-racist. I was horrified once I understood, and I've never said it again.

I'm grateful to said friend gently meeting me where I was at, rather than shaming me, which would have been devastating.

I guess we're all on a journey.

Good lord. What utter virtue signalling nonsense.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 12/08/2024 06:54

Everyone uses this as an example of racism.

But I think it's how long you plan to be there
1-10 years = ex pat as you do plan to go back to your own country.

Building a life here for your children and grandchildren = immigrant.

When I went to Asia for a year I was an ex pat. If I moved to Australia and bought a home with no plans to come back to uk I'd be emigrating and therefore an immigrant.

Looking at eg the Indian community in the uk I would say the lovely family that run the corner shop with their parents are immigrants they have no plans to move back to India. An Indian banker working in canary wharf for a couple of years is an ex pat.

I do think there is an assumption you're a professional if you're an ex pat though. A fruit picker on a seasonal visa or an au pair here for a year wouldn't usually be called one.

Waterboatlass · 12/08/2024 06:56

AlisonDonut · 12/08/2024 06:49

Good lord. What utter virtue signalling nonsense.

Well exactly. A lot of the thread misses the fact that an expat is a type of migrant or immigrant in the same way any other is, it describes a particular pattern of migration plus not only whites use it. There's plenty of real racism around. No need to go digging.

Oopsohnoherewego · 12/08/2024 07:29

I have lived overseas for 5 years and refer to myself as an expat because I still see it as a temporary move. I'm not racist. I'm mixed race. My dad moved to the UK in the 60s and I say he's an immigrant because he moved permanently.

Sd352 · 12/08/2024 07:33

The 700,000 immigrants number in this country doesn’t distinguish between (temporary) expats and (more permanent) immigrants. It even counts international students.

I am Indian but started out here as an expat. However, I met my English husband and think I will be here for the foreseeable future so am now an immigrant even though that was not my original intent.

mitogoshi · 12/08/2024 07:34

Traditionally the difference lay in how you ended up overseas - expats were posted by their companies or government eg my friends are in the Middle East for 2 years seconded to that branch, his contract is with his employer in the U.K. and gets accommodation, flights home etc. Migrants on the other hand have moved permanently to another country, and any employment (their contract etc) is not linked to the country they left even if there was a branch where they lived before

Zonder · 12/08/2024 07:38

AsiaFlyer · 12/08/2024 01:05

I don't see a consensus. There seem to be three main answers so far:

  1. Employment contract type
  2. Temporary vs permanent
  3. Race

Some people see expat as a subcategory of immigrant, others not.

I think it would be interesting if people were to post their source.

Also, those saying 'race' I suspect are taking about how they think others make the distinction, not how they do.

Good point.

My source for use of the word immigrant is looking around at what people say here in the UK on the news or in my city. I've never yet heard an Asian or African called an expat, even if they are sent here by their country.

My source for the word expat is more than a decade working abroad where Brits would always be expats even if they had settled there with no intention of moving home.

Zonder · 12/08/2024 07:39

AlisonDonut · 12/08/2024 06:49

Good lord. What utter virtue signalling nonsense.

Why do you say that? I thought the post was quite understandable based on my experience.

thecoffeewasthething · 12/08/2024 07:58

I'm a white American, and I've lived in the UK for 25 years now. Immigrant vs expat is pure racism, for sure.

Edingril · 12/08/2024 08:16

As others have said to me immigrant moves permanently and usually takes up citizenship expat is like people who go to Spain then complain how terrible the UK is unti they need the NHS and move back

Waterboatlass · 12/08/2024 08:39

Zonder · 12/08/2024 07:39

Why do you say that? I thought the post was quite understandable based on my experience.

It's not experience, it's a friend's opinion.

I think part of the issue is that it's an old fashioned term associated with colonial times. That doesn't necessarily make modern day usage inherently racist, language and working practices move on. Plus as a PP says, there is usually a class element (does it apply to fruit pickers as well as diplomats)? Not necessarily the most straightforward term but not racist, it has a meaning that doesn't exclude, diminish or aggrandise anyone.

Zonder · 12/08/2024 08:43

Waterboatlass · 12/08/2024 08:39

It's not experience, it's a friend's opinion.

I think part of the issue is that it's an old fashioned term associated with colonial times. That doesn't necessarily make modern day usage inherently racist, language and working practices move on. Plus as a PP says, there is usually a class element (does it apply to fruit pickers as well as diplomats)? Not necessarily the most straightforward term but not racist, it has a meaning that doesn't exclude, diminish or aggrandise anyone.

It is MY experience. Of course it's an old fashioned term - the racism comes because people use one term for Brits and Americans, and another for no Europeans even if they're all doing the same thing. That's my experience and I'm clearly not alone in that.

I'm not sure it's classist - secretaries would be called expats as much as business leaders.

And before anyone comments about me saying secretaries - they would generally be far less paid than the CEO or MD!

ProgressivePilgrim · 12/08/2024 08:59

AlisonDonut · 12/08/2024 06:49

Good lord. What utter virtue signalling nonsense.

Sorry, I wasn't trying to virtue signal at all. Apologies if it came across that way. I was just explaining my understanding of the word, and how I came to that understanding 🤷‍♀️

McSpoot · 12/08/2024 09:00

Zonder · 12/08/2024 08:43

It is MY experience. Of course it's an old fashioned term - the racism comes because people use one term for Brits and Americans, and another for no Europeans even if they're all doing the same thing. That's my experience and I'm clearly not alone in that.

I'm not sure it's classist - secretaries would be called expats as much as business leaders.

And before anyone comments about me saying secretaries - they would generally be far less paid than the CEO or MD!

Edited

And my experience is the opposite - we use the term based on how/why we are here and not where we are from or what colour we are.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 12/08/2024 09:01

piperatthegates · 11/08/2024 19:24

I have always thought that an expat is someone temporarily living outside their home country and an immigrant is someone who moves permanently to a different country.

Yes, you are right.

Zonder · 12/08/2024 09:14

McSpoot · 12/08/2024 09:00

And my experience is the opposite - we use the term based on how/why we are here and not where we are from or what colour we are.

Clearly not everyone uses it the same way.

Hucklemuckle · 12/08/2024 09:19

piperatthegates · 11/08/2024 19:24

I have always thought that an expat is someone temporarily living outside their home country and an immigrant is someone who moves permanently to a different country.

The Brits living in Spain like to call themselves ex-pats.

SummerFeverVenice · 12/08/2024 09:23

Expats are a type of temporary immigrant who is only in a country for work/job reasons.

Some people misuse the term- ie all the OAPs who have retired abroad are not expats but emigrants from the U.K. and immigrants to Spain/Italy/France/Canada etc

The reason behind the misuse of expat is racist, in that many British feel they are coming from a superior country(U.K.) to their new country and they associate immigrants with people coming from what they see as an inferior country to a new country.

ProgressivePilgrim · 12/08/2024 09:26

Waterboatlass · 12/08/2024 06:56

Well exactly. A lot of the thread misses the fact that an expat is a type of migrant or immigrant in the same way any other is, it describes a particular pattern of migration plus not only whites use it. There's plenty of real racism around. No need to go digging.

Well, I see what you're saying, but often people refer to those living temporarily in the UK - to study or work in NHS or whatever, as immigrants still. So, there definitely is a racist component, even if it's totally subconscious.

Chipsahoy · 12/08/2024 09:28

My husband is American but is now a British citizen. Is he an immigrant? I guess so. Yet because he is American and white, he’s been widely accepted. Not fair is it? Very much racism.

Scarletrunner · 12/08/2024 09:29

Maybe expats (in the case of older people in Spain) is that they plan to continue their British lifestyle in Spain whereas younger people would problem adopt Spanish language and lifestyle and be an immigrant in their new country.

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