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My best friend has been attacked today.

157 replies

Cadela · 08/08/2024 19:28

She’s Brazilian and white, but because she has an accent whilst we were waiting for a taxi a group of very young, around 10-17 year olds white kids spat on her and started shouting fucking horrific abuse.

Police were there within a minute of our call THANK GOD and loads of people on the street stepped in to help, and if you were in Norwich today on Gentleman’s Walk. - THANK YOU for helping.

I cannot believe it has got to this point where my settled status friend is now having to give statements and recover after having a glass of wine and going home. What the fuck is this county?

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ProfessorPeppy · 08/08/2024 19:31

Awful for you and your friend, OP. I'm surprised this happened in a nice bit of Norwich. I suspect these thugs feel emboldened by the appalling behaviour of some utter twats over the past week.

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larklane17 · 08/08/2024 19:37

How frightening for her, I'm so sorry, I'm gad that people stepped in to support her but she must be really shaken.

MrsxDDx · 08/08/2024 19:38

Oh my god, your poor friend. I hope she doesn’t take too long to recover, but I’m sure she’ll never forget.

Just utter madness.

dothehokeycokey · 08/08/2024 19:43

Oh now that is just totally unacceptable

Makes me embarrassed to be British sometimes.

I'm so sorry for your friend

What a crock of shit this country is turning into.

GoTigers · 08/08/2024 19:44

I’’m so sorry for your friend.

A colleague of mine got told to ‘go back where you came from’ by a customer today. She’s a British woman with Pakistani heritage. It was on the phone and I doubt he’d have been so fucking ‘brave’ in person.

As the PP said, we agreed at work that the racist bastard had been emboldened by other racist bastards and their dog-whistling, racist, political leaders.

Cadela · 08/08/2024 19:44

She’s not ok which is the worst part. Never in her 8 years of living here (and working and paying higher rate tax) has she experienced anything like this.

How fucking dare they do this? But the worst part is they were children. Honestly I’d post the photo of them but I’m sure I’ll be banned immediately but one of them must have been in primary school.

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SallyWD · 08/08/2024 19:50

Absolutely awful. They must have learnt this hate from their parents. A never-ending cycle of prejudice.
I was walking home from work today and heard a black man on the phone. He was telling someone that a racist man had come in to the shop and refused to be served by him because he was black. WTF is wrong with people?

MissyB1 · 08/08/2024 19:54

Oh that is just horrible, your poor friend! What vile little brats, obviously being dragged up instead of brought up. God knows what gets said in their homes. I'm not surprised she's so upset, but I'm so glad people helped and supported her.

MounjaroUser · 08/08/2024 19:54

It's terrifying, isn't it? My DIL has a similar heritage and I know she would want to leave the country if she was treated like that. I know Starmer said hew was going to punish the thugs but the sentences so far have been shockingly low. Hitting a police officer in the face during a riot and trying to set fire to a police vehicle should have warranted much higher sentences, never mind the other sentences.

Mammajay · 08/08/2024 19:55

I think we are all whatever our ethnicity going to have to step up and speak out when we encounter this rather than stay silent. It will take courage but we must do it. Then these idiots, a small minority of British people, will shut up.

MounjaroUser · 08/08/2024 19:56

I agree with you, @mammajay. Time to be counted.

SummerSnowstorm · 08/08/2024 19:56

SallyWD · 08/08/2024 19:50

Absolutely awful. They must have learnt this hate from their parents. A never-ending cycle of prejudice.
I was walking home from work today and heard a black man on the phone. He was telling someone that a racist man had come in to the shop and refused to be served by him because he was black. WTF is wrong with people?

I hope to god noone else agreed to serve him. What is wrong with people.

Humdingerydoo · 08/08/2024 19:57

I'm sorry for your friend. That's really, really awful. Being children isn't an excuse - they knew exactly what they were doing. Revolting behaviour.

LumpyandBumps · 08/08/2024 19:58

This sort of behaviour is terrifying. I am surprised and saddened that it happened in Norwich, which I have always found to be a friendly place.
I hope your friend will get over this, and all credit to the more typical residents who intervened to help.

Frequency · 08/08/2024 19:59

Mammajay · 08/08/2024 19:55

I think we are all whatever our ethnicity going to have to step up and speak out when we encounter this rather than stay silent. It will take courage but we must do it. Then these idiots, a small minority of British people, will shut up.

Agreed.

The sooner these thugs learn they are a minority and they are the ones who are not welcome in our communities the better.

Velvian · 08/08/2024 20:00

I'm so sorry that happened to your friend. I'm really shocked it happened in Norwich. I was feeling confident that it wouldn't happen here. 💐💐 for you and your friend

Choochoo21 · 08/08/2024 20:00

I’m so sorry this happened to your friend.

It makes me sadder when things like this are done by younger generations and we’re supposed to be getting better as a society.

Unfortunately, many of these young kids don’t have good role models and so see these far right thugs and copy them.

I hope they get caught and are made to do some sort of punishment which will make them reflect on their behaviour in the future.

Boopbeepbeepboop · 08/08/2024 20:01

Gentlemans walk is always so busy, the nerve they must have too, to behave like that in such a public place. I'm really saddened by it all. Hope you're friend will be ok.

LumpyandBumps · 08/08/2024 20:02

Mammajay · 08/08/2024 19:55

I think we are all whatever our ethnicity going to have to step up and speak out when we encounter this rather than stay silent. It will take courage but we must do it. Then these idiots, a small minority of British people, will shut up.

Absolutely this.
There is a saying which goes along the lines of ‘all that is needed for evil to succeed is for good people to do nothing’ Well done to those who ‘did something’ to help.

BurntBroccoli · 08/08/2024 20:08

Cadela · 08/08/2024 19:28

She’s Brazilian and white, but because she has an accent whilst we were waiting for a taxi a group of very young, around 10-17 year olds white kids spat on her and started shouting fucking horrific abuse.

Police were there within a minute of our call THANK GOD and loads of people on the street stepped in to help, and if you were in Norwich today on Gentleman’s Walk. - THANK YOU for helping.

I cannot believe it has got to this point where my settled status friend is now having to give statements and recover after having a glass of wine and going home. What the fuck is this county?

Yes it's filtering through to the kids now...
The night after the riots there were a bunch of young teens going around hammering on people's doors at 10pm.

My heart was in my mouth as I'm home alone.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 08/08/2024 20:10

💐💐 A bunch for your friend and one for you. For a start what the hell is a 17 year old or even any teenager doing hangin about with 10 year olds.
My DD takes my DGS to a few play sessions ect and she told me that none of the Muslim families were there. They’re probably too terrified to come out. It’s absolutely heartbreaking. They’re all over the age of criminal responsibility so they are all liable to be charged. Spitting in itself is classed as assault

BurntBroccoli · 08/08/2024 20:11

Mammajay · 08/08/2024 19:55

I think we are all whatever our ethnicity going to have to step up and speak out when we encounter this rather than stay silent. It will take courage but we must do it. Then these idiots, a small minority of British people, will shut up.

Agree. I'm doing my best in Facebook groups but I will also stand up to them in person if I see or hear anything. Makes my blood boil.

Jamstones · 08/08/2024 20:12

It's not just filtering through to teens after recent events. This is how many act generally, whether in the street or at school nowadays. Consequences are too few and parents don't seem to care.

BurntBroccoli · 08/08/2024 20:14

Jamstones · 08/08/2024 20:12

It's not just filtering through to teens after recent events. This is how many act generally, whether in the street or at school nowadays. Consequences are too few and parents don't seem to care.

You're probably right but I think recent events will amplify it even more.

TheYetty · 08/08/2024 20:16

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