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My best friend has been attacked today.

157 replies

Cadela · 08/08/2024 19:28

She’s Brazilian and white, but because she has an accent whilst we were waiting for a taxi a group of very young, around 10-17 year olds white kids spat on her and started shouting fucking horrific abuse.

Police were there within a minute of our call THANK GOD and loads of people on the street stepped in to help, and if you were in Norwich today on Gentleman’s Walk. - THANK YOU for helping.

I cannot believe it has got to this point where my settled status friend is now having to give statements and recover after having a glass of wine and going home. What the fuck is this county?

OP posts:
TheaBrandt · 08/08/2024 20:20

A family member teaches secondary in a deprived white majority area. She wasn’t in the least surprised about the recent riots racism is endemic in her school. Lots of us myself included live in a bubble of “nice” well educated people and don’t realise.

Jellybeanbag · 08/08/2024 20:22

Cadela · 08/08/2024 19:44

She’s not ok which is the worst part. Never in her 8 years of living here (and working and paying higher rate tax) has she experienced anything like this.

How fucking dare they do this? But the worst part is they were children. Honestly I’d post the photo of them but I’m sure I’ll be banned immediately but one of them must have been in primary school.

Please send the photo to the schools in the area.

So sorry to hear this

EasterIssland · 08/08/2024 20:23

Sorry to hear that and hope your friend feels better soon. Can’t believe what our next generations are turning into after learning it from us

Aprilmaymum · 08/08/2024 20:24

I am so so sorry to hear this. Please let your friend know this is a stupid minority of mindless thugs who have jumped on the bandwagon, not what the majority of people are like. I hope your friend is ok.

stronglatte · 08/08/2024 20:30

Horrendous - utterly appalling . I'm sorry your friend had to endure that . This is taking me back to the 80s and walks to school but last night's protests and reading so many people stepped in makes me feel hopeful the tide is turning in the right direction . We just all have to keep calling out these emboldened racist yobs

Jeannie88 · 08/08/2024 20:31

Appalling, pack culture cowardice. So glad others stepped in and the police came quickly, shows how these yobs really aren't the norm. Xx

Eldrick47s · 08/08/2024 20:36

ProfessorPeppy · 08/08/2024 19:31

Awful for you and your friend, OP. I'm surprised this happened in a nice bit of Norwich. I suspect these thugs feel emboldened by the appalling behaviour of some utter twats over the past week.

Flowers

I think the police haven't helped either with their passive approach. Any little thug watching the far right fascist riots where the police stood back and did nothing will have been emboldened.

LBFseBrom · 08/08/2024 20:38

That is dreadful, I am so sorry your friend went through it. It makes me feel ashamed. I hope she is all right now and not too unnerved for the future.

WhySoManySocks · 08/08/2024 20:39

This is appaling.

Are you comfortable telling us what happened next? Were the little shits still around when the police turned up? What did the police do? Were they caught and charged? Do the parents and their school know?

Eldrick47s · 08/08/2024 20:41

The Saudis chop your hand off for stealing a snickers.

The British (police) stand back and roll out the welcome mat while fascists smash up cars, office windows and throw bricks at them.

Rachie1973 · 08/08/2024 20:41

How awful for your friend. It’s just utter shite.

I thought we’d escaped the worst of it in Norfolk but clearly not. My kids in Essex won’t go near the town centres at the moment.

LateAF · 08/08/2024 20:43

It takes these riots for people to finally admit that Britain is racist. I’m sorry for your friend but getting spat on by adults passing me on the street happened several times in my childhood. No minority that has grown up in the UK is surprised by what is happening right now. It’s only the while people who refused to listen when we said that England is racist for years that seem shocked by this. This has been our daily reality knowing that many people in this country hate us for existing in the colour of our skin.

Marseillaise · 08/08/2024 20:43

I do hope the police make a real effort to find these children. It shouldn't need much more than showing the photo around the local schools.

BashfulClam · 08/08/2024 20:43

Fucking wee cuntard rats. I’ve had to point out so many times that ‘illegals’and ‘illegal immigrants’ aren’t taking housing and benefits as they are here illegally avg not exactly wanting to tick up to the authorities and say ‘here I am!’ . Legal migrants are working in many cases and paying tax and Asylum seekers are not allowed to work and get about £40 a week to feed and clothe themselves. Considering the cost of food at the moment I’m surprised they manage.

Stripedchutney · 08/08/2024 20:45

I’m so saddened to hear this. Tell your friend that there are way more people that find this abhorrent and welcome and value difference.

There is a lot of misinform on SM and young people and mindless idiotic thugs are being riled up and manipulated. I hope they are caught and get the right consequences for their actions. We need to really get to grips with unfettered SM access for young people and for SM platforms to take more responsibility for they allow out there. X and Tik Tok are the worst. Parents need to take more responsibility for what kids have access to. It’s all so fucking depressing.

Send love to your friend and hope she recovers quickly. We are all behind her, virtually.

WTAFisthisnonsense · 08/08/2024 20:46

Never has the Skunk Anansie song 'Little Baby Swastikka' ever been more right.

Cabincrew1 · 08/08/2024 20:46

It doesn’t even have to be about race in this country anymore. Since lockdowns I’ve noticed people are more rude in general, and have no shame in voicing their awful nasty judgements. The most worrying is seeing young children behaving this way, it’s obviously learned behaviour.

Stripedchutney · 08/08/2024 20:47

LateAF · 08/08/2024 20:43

It takes these riots for people to finally admit that Britain is racist. I’m sorry for your friend but getting spat on by adults passing me on the street happened several times in my childhood. No minority that has grown up in the UK is surprised by what is happening right now. It’s only the while people who refused to listen when we said that England is racist for years that seem shocked by this. This has been our daily reality knowing that many people in this country hate us for existing in the colour of our skin.

I’m so sorry you have had to experience that. It breaks my heart.

Stripedchutney · 08/08/2024 20:48

Eldrick47s · 08/08/2024 20:41

The Saudis chop your hand off for stealing a snickers.

The British (police) stand back and roll out the welcome mat while fascists smash up cars, office windows and throw bricks at them.

I don’t think that’s fair. I think they have done their best.

itsgettingweird · 08/08/2024 20:51

I'm so sorry for your friend and hope she recovers well. What a bunch of fuckwits.

My ds got told numerous times to "go back to where he came from" at secondary school. He's white British but just happened to be born in another European country.

Problem is that it wasn't taken seriously because he's British. White British. Therefore there's no crime as such.

Sad thing is it's emboldened a generation to think those statements are ok to say to anyone. (Ds is 19).

RenoDakota · 08/08/2024 20:51

So sorry to hear this, OP.
I had a much loved Brazilian friend who lived in Norwich. We lost touch for complicated reasons. Does her name begin with A?

oakleaffy · 08/08/2024 20:54

Eldrick47s · 08/08/2024 20:36

I think the police haven't helped either with their passive approach. Any little thug watching the far right fascist riots where the police stood back and did nothing will have been emboldened.

I was watching {on video} the Rotherham riots as they unfolded.
A ginger haired white boy was saying:

''Loving it! Best day of me life!''

He must have been all of 8 or 9 years old.

He looked like he really was having great fun...the police were backed against a wall like terrified people.

It was like they didn't know what to do??

Greytulips · 08/08/2024 20:57

Hopefully the police will put the wind up them and they’ll think twice before trying this again.

Im sorry your friend experienced this- it’s not who we are .

Dashel · 08/08/2024 20:57

I am sorry for your friend and for anyone who has experienced racism.