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TinklySnail · 05/08/2024 19:42

I’m personally not okay with rioting but understand why it’s happening.
What is the best way to fix this issue and do you think it is mass immigration that has caused it?

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Twistybranch · 06/08/2024 09:55

AgnesX · 06/08/2024 09:51

It seems that three little girls weren't stabbed by an autistic boy of colour so they had noone they could specifically blame.

You might be right about the perception of softness, but you know what? When the army is brought in people like you will weep and wail that that's not the right solution either. Oh and there riots, just not that right wing in comparison.

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People like me?

The nastiness on this thread astounding.

Your lack of understanding of UK politics means you have incorrectly predicted that the Labour Gov will bring in the army. I can assure you, they won’t.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 06/08/2024 09:57

Why did these riots not take place when under the Tory Govt then?

Riots take place when any new government forms. It’s a defining marker.

2011
1981

Norwegiancopice · 06/08/2024 09:57

blacksax · 05/08/2024 19:59

Anarchists are causing it. I strongly suspect that the extreme far right had already decided to do all this, deliberately to cause problems for the new Labour government, and all they needed was a catalyst to stir up strong feelings among the faithful. They got one. If it hadn't been that, they would have waited for something else.

I'm not sure it's anarchists, but definitely the extreme far right. I agree 100% with the rest of your post. Why now when Labour have just come to power?? I can't help feeling that this is the UK equivalent of 6 January in the US. "Our party didn't win, we are not happy and we're not gonna take it."

RiotsLondon · 06/08/2024 09:58

@Dweebie

FE is under funded and under attack. It used to be a place where less academic students could go to either still work up to uni but in a less exam based way or get to a level and go and work.
Unfortunately with the introduction of t levels many students will be cut off and won't get the initial grades and then will struggle with the exams.

Zusammen · 06/08/2024 09:58

You’re turning it into a class issue (middle class v working class) when it wasn’t. Just maybe people with expertise understood the issue better than those without ? Nothing to do with higher incomes. More to do with an actual understanding of the decision to be made and how damaging a vote to leave was for the economy. Included business owners who predicted how it would negatively affect their ability to trade.

Working class people understood the issues just fine, and purposely voted the way they did. Part of it was how poorly the Remain campaign was presented. Part of it was because they focused solely on economic issues and ignored concerns like immigration.

The working poor don’t care about broader economic issues. When Remain said “labour costs will go up if we leave the EU”, working class people heard “my wages will go up and my boss will have to pay me more”. And they thought “stick it to the man, it’ll cost my greedy boss more money, serves him right for not paying me a decent wage”. You need to understand the psychology behind the vote.

3WildOnes · 06/08/2024 10:01

I think one the biggest problems is the lack of social housing in the UK.
Lots of working class people who grew up in social housing, who grew up with aunts, uncles and grandparents living a few doors down in social housing have lost that. They see people who didn't grow up in the area being moved into the houses that their relatives lived in whilst they either have to carry on living with parents or are placed in B&B accommodation. Instead of directing their anger at the government who hasn't built more social housing they direct their anger at the newcomers.

upinaballoon · 06/08/2024 10:05

Anonym00se · 06/08/2024 09:29

We shouldn’t write them off as “thick, racist and lazy”. They might be those things, but we need to understand why they have ended up that way.

It’s so complex. We read threads on here about mothers who are seen telling toddlers in a buggy to “Shut the fuck up” if they make a noise. Those parents will no doubt have been parented the same way, and don’t know any different. Our hearts go out to these kids, but we lose all sympathy the second they become adults and expect them to miraculously undo the damage and become functioning members of society.

These men often won’t just have grown up in poverty, they’ll often have had no love or parental support or encouragement. They’ll be ‘lazy’ because they’ve never seen anything different. When everyone around them is long-term unemployed, that’s just ‘normal’ to them. How can you have aspirations unless you see something to aspire to? Of course they’ll know that people can get good jobs and live in nice houses, but they’re not people like them. They’re for the “others”.

They’ll have attended shit schools where staff don’t have any expectations of them, and they’d be shunned by their peers (or beaten up) if they worked hard.

By the time they’re adults they’re still psychologically like children. They’ve never been given the tools to grow. And I’ll get flamed but I’ll say it anyway - most of them couldn’t get a job, not just because the jobs don’t exist, but because they’re frankly unemployable.

They’re truly at the bottom of society’s pile. They don’t want to be, so they’ll look around for someone they can deem to be ‘lower’ than them. Often that’s ethnic minorities, and they’ll focus their anger on those people because they don’t understand who it is that’s really keeping them down.

Prisons are full of adult males with MH problems, substance abuse issues and attachment disorders who don’t know how to behave. It started with their parents telling them to shut the fuck up.

This is what we need to tackle if things are ever going to change.

I could weep, really, reading this. In the 1960s a college lecturer said that there is a class 'lower than the working class' who seem never to be able to rise above that.

I agree with what you have written.

I knew a woman who used to be furious if she saw a mother pushing a child in a push-chair, not chatting to the child, but texting away on the mobile.

Education secretaries come and go and for decades not one government has ever taken out a few minutes of TV time and a bit of money to put out a 2-minute public service broadcast to tell parents that even if they are not good readers themselves, just talking to their children from the time they're in the womb will help them with reading when they get to school.

Lower the school-leaving age to 14, as long as the teenager has a work-place to go to. Give money to the employer rather than the school, to educate the youngster when he/she can see a point in what they're doing and stop the unions from demanding full pay for the learners.

Sorry, hobby horses of mine. Gotta go.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 06/08/2024 10:06

Twistybranch · 06/08/2024 09:29

2001 was a Labour Government

2011 riots were in London and not related to this issue

You missed a pretty bloody significant sideline in 2011 - whilst the SKYCopter was pointing its cameras at Reeves Corner and making it appear to be wholly black people, they were directly over - and ignoring - the swarms of people taking advantage to smash in the windows of places like Richer Sounds and Cycle King. And completely ignoring the groups driving in and attempting to smash into the gun shops in Coulsdon and Wallington, shops in Bromley, Sutton and the like. Because they were the same demographic who fetched up over the past week. The reason I know this? Because I was listening to the fuckers making arrangements outside my window.

Zet1 · 06/08/2024 10:07

3WildOnes · 06/08/2024 10:01

I think one the biggest problems is the lack of social housing in the UK.
Lots of working class people who grew up in social housing, who grew up with aunts, uncles and grandparents living a few doors down in social housing have lost that. They see people who didn't grow up in the area being moved into the houses that their relatives lived in whilst they either have to carry on living with parents or are placed in B&B accommodation. Instead of directing their anger at the government who hasn't built more social housing they direct their anger at the newcomers.

Or maybe not feeling entitled to social housing. The common theme seems to be a huge sense of entitlement.

Zusammen · 06/08/2024 10:11

Bodeganights · 06/08/2024 09:11

I've just looked up bricklaying courses.
You get up to nvq level 3 and each course costs money
The cost of this bricklaying course is £995 INC VAT. You only need to bring yourself, work clothes and footwear and your lunch, we will provide everything else. We ask for a deposit of £150 to secure your place on our bricklaying course and full payment 4 weeks before the course start date.13 Jun 2024

Just imagine you live on jobseekers allowance at
age under 25 - £71.70. age 25 or over - £90.50.

How are you going to find, or maybe when, are you going to find a thousand pounds plus travel. I looked up my nearest college that does bricklaying and for me that would involve travel of the cheapest I could see £11 a day.

And plumbing is even longer and roofing is longer still. With equivalent rise in costs.
And youd think people might have some affinity for these roles, not just get on a course for the sake of it especially like roofing if you can't stand heights.

I looked recently at a more local college to me for a friend who wanted to learn more about computers. There is a drop in that's free, just drop in any time, that's great. But if you need a certificate, well those courses start at £600 and only go up from there.

How are people supposed to afford these courses? You want the layabouts to get off their arse and do some kind of job, they need training. Training costs money, bring back free courses, local.

If you signed up for this course they’d stop your benefits too. No money for food and bills. No roof over your head. Then if the course didn’t lead to a job you’d have to fight to get benefits back.

They also stop your benefits if you do voluntary work or unpaid work experience. I think the maximum allowed is 16 hours a week. So you can’t offer to work for free in the hope of impressing the employer and being kept on, or at the very least getting a reference for your CV. That’s if you could even afford the bus fare to get there on a voluntary basis.

People who’ve never been in that situation don’t realise how you’re blocked at every turn. If they just offered some free courses and a bus pass if you do voluntary work, it would get loads of people into jobs.

flapjackfairy · 06/08/2024 10:11

Anonym00se · 06/08/2024 09:29

We shouldn’t write them off as “thick, racist and lazy”. They might be those things, but we need to understand why they have ended up that way.

It’s so complex. We read threads on here about mothers who are seen telling toddlers in a buggy to “Shut the fuck up” if they make a noise. Those parents will no doubt have been parented the same way, and don’t know any different. Our hearts go out to these kids, but we lose all sympathy the second they become adults and expect them to miraculously undo the damage and become functioning members of society.

These men often won’t just have grown up in poverty, they’ll often have had no love or parental support or encouragement. They’ll be ‘lazy’ because they’ve never seen anything different. When everyone around them is long-term unemployed, that’s just ‘normal’ to them. How can you have aspirations unless you see something to aspire to? Of course they’ll know that people can get good jobs and live in nice houses, but they’re not people like them. They’re for the “others”.

They’ll have attended shit schools where staff don’t have any expectations of them, and they’d be shunned by their peers (or beaten up) if they worked hard.

By the time they’re adults they’re still psychologically like children. They’ve never been given the tools to grow. And I’ll get flamed but I’ll say it anyway - most of them couldn’t get a job, not just because the jobs don’t exist, but because they’re frankly unemployable.

They’re truly at the bottom of society’s pile. They don’t want to be, so they’ll look around for someone they can deem to be ‘lower’ than them. Often that’s ethnic minorities, and they’ll focus their anger on those people because they don’t understand who it is that’s really keeping them down.

Prisons are full of adult males with MH problems, substance abuse issues and attachment disorders who don’t know how to behave. It started with their parents telling them to shut the fuck up.

This is what we need to tackle if things are ever going to change.

well said! I agree with every word.

Marchitectmummy · 06/08/2024 10:14

Dweebie · 05/08/2024 21:47

it’s not new that asylum seekers are mostly young men. This has always been the case as they are the most likely to make the journey. There have been large numbers of young male asylum seekers in the cities for years, but you’re seeing them in more places now because of the numbers and the backlog.

I used to teach groups of young male asylum seekers and refugees and you’re right they were often difficult, sometimes they behaved inappropriately towards females. Sometimes it takes them months to get to the UK and they don’t know how to behave when they get here. But they can learn. If they get permission to stay, they can find housing and work and they have to learn English because this is mandatory to getting permanent status. So over time many will adapt and integrate well. Minimising the time spent in hotel stays will support this, as will returning those with no legitimate claim. I think we have to stay positive about the potential for people to integrate and coexist peacefully. What is the alternative?

Is an equal effort being put into improving / educating British people in deprived areas, it isn't.

That is another of the them and us issues.

Zet1 · 06/08/2024 10:16

Marchitectmummy · 06/08/2024 10:14

Is an equal effort being put into improving / educating British people in deprived areas, it isn't.

That is another of the them and us issues.

There are courses and colleges. The people you are speaking about all had access to schools.

Anonym00se · 06/08/2024 10:23

Zet1 · 06/08/2024 10:16

There are courses and colleges. The people you are speaking about all had access to schools.

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Not all schools are equal. In Knowsley (one of the most deprived boroughs in Europe) there is a 26% GCSE pass rate. Loads of the ‘schools’ are glorified holding pens.

Marchitectmummy · 06/08/2024 10:24

Zet1 · 06/08/2024 10:16

There are courses and colleges. The people you are speaking about all had access to schools.

Edited

You are talking of a huge amount of effort re-educating adult asylum seekers and how well that effort rewards but in the same breath are implying the British requiring intervention have had their opportunity.

That's ok then, leave them to it.

Dweebie · 06/08/2024 10:29

Marchitectmummy · 06/08/2024 10:14

Is an equal effort being put into improving / educating British people in deprived areas, it isn't.

That is another of the them and us issues.

It really isn’t a them and us issue. Level 2 and 3 qualifications are FREE TO ALL. 16-19 education is FREE TO ALL. These are the facts. I was working in a massive FE. college catering to people from every local community. This happened to include asylum seekers. Same with housing. There is no special secret supply of housing for refugees.

frozendaisy · 06/08/2024 10:31

You don't need a course to accept if you are white and male that doesn't make you better.

Simonjt · 06/08/2024 10:31

Marchitectmummy · 06/08/2024 10:14

Is an equal effort being put into improving / educating British people in deprived areas, it isn't.

That is another of the them and us issues.

Free education from the age of 5-18 in England (not sure if it differs in other parts of the UK), free level 2 and level 3 qualifications if they are your first qualification of that level. Subsidised courses for mature learnings on a low income/receiving certain benefits if it isn’t their first qualification at that level. Access courses free until the age of 23, above that age a loan is available to cover the fees, this is still available to those in a lower income who pay a reduced tuition fee.

Zet1 · 06/08/2024 10:31

Anonym00se · 06/08/2024 10:23

Not all schools are equal. In Knowsley (one of the most deprived boroughs in Europe) there is a 26% GCSE pass rate. Loads of the ‘schools’ are glorified holding pens.

Yes, I went to a school with a 15% GCSE pass rate. These issues exist in many communities, but those communities are not trying to burn people alive in hotels. I have friends with no GCSEs and criminal records received as juveniles. They all are doing something with themselves. Do they enjoy those jobs? No, but they are paying their bills and trying to improve things for their children. They realise the government is not here to save them.

Marchitectmummy · 06/08/2024 10:34

frozendaisy · 06/08/2024 10:31

You don't need a course to accept if you are white and male that doesn't make you better.

No but refugees being taught not to behave inappropriately to females is ok?

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/08/2024 10:35

I am white, British, working class. I live in a tiny council house in a poverty stricken part of the UK.

The violence in my area is coming from thick, violent racists. When they're not intimidating black and brown people, they're intimidating children, old people and the disabled. Anyone "other".

https://www.irishnews.com/news/northern-ireland/loyalists-linked-to-heartless-sectarian-attack-on-new-home-of-nine-year-old-disabled-boy-in-shared-housing-development-GRAHMKGUTFHTLBOUPRHXAQTEFQ/

They are causing problems because they are Combat 18 led thugs. Many are stupid. Some are forced to riot by paramilitaries.

Jessy Clark

Loyalists linked to sectarian attack on home of nine year-old disabled boy in shared housing development

Two properties were attacked in shared housing development in Antrim before families moved in

https://www.irishnews.com/news/northern-ireland/loyalists-linked-to-heartless-sectarian-attack-on-new-home-of-nine-year-old-disabled-boy-in-shared-housing-development-GRAHMKGUTFHTLBOUPRHXAQTEFQ

Meadowfinch · 06/08/2024 10:37

@Simonjt 16-18 isn't free. School bus from our village is £450 a term. Books are no longer provided. Sixth formers are expected to lease a laptop and a locker. If parents don't have the money available, kids can't go.

londonmummy1966 · 06/08/2024 10:41

If you strip out the rhetoric, the root problem is that there is a British "underclass" that feels disempowered and unheard. It was the reason for the Brexit vote and the reason for anti immigration. It would have been better if the chattering classes had sat down after Brexit and asked why and what could be done about it. At heart, life for many in this group has been going downhill for some time especially in areas that traditionally relied on heavy industry with "man's jobs" which have closed usually without any proper thought to what could replace them. SO in eg a pit village the space of a generation you have lost a society that lived in tied housing, lived on the father's salary and dad and the boys expected to have a secure job. Instead there was widespread unemployment, enormous disenchantment with a political establishment that didn't listen and didn't bother to look at investment in the area to replace what had been lost. That background of disengagement and feeling unheard has continued into the younger generations. For them the housing and cost of living crises are exacerbated by an education system that only values the most academic (and by default therefore the better educated and resourced middle classes), the job insecurity of zero hours NMW contracts etc. Then they look around and what they see is "foreign families" getting the council houses their long term resident families' "taxes have paid for", jobs going to young economic migrants (there were cases before the Brexit vote where companies like Next were advertising vacancies in Poland rather than in the UK in the areas where the jobs were) etc etc. You can see how, once disengagement sets in the demagogues on the far right can have a field day by appearing to listen and how those who feel unheard may think that they need to take more drastic measures to make their point.

None of it is right but there are societal problems behind the violence that do need to be addressed.

frozendaisy · 06/08/2024 10:42

Marchitectmummy · 06/08/2024 10:34

No but refugees being taught not to behave inappropriately to females is ok?

You don't have to be a refugee to behave inappropriately to females. There is plenty of home grown "Christian" men who haven't got the hang of that.

If you wanted to move to Japan you would need to learn a whole heap of local customs to be able to live harmoniously.

There are bad apples in every barrel.

Zusammen · 06/08/2024 10:42

Simonjt · 06/08/2024 10:31

Free education from the age of 5-18 in England (not sure if it differs in other parts of the UK), free level 2 and level 3 qualifications if they are your first qualification of that level. Subsidised courses for mature learnings on a low income/receiving certain benefits if it isn’t their first qualification at that level. Access courses free until the age of 23, above that age a loan is available to cover the fees, this is still available to those in a lower income who pay a reduced tuition fee.

Lots of people got pushed into a random level 3 qualification at 16. Probably some Mickey Mouse course to keep them off the streets, chosen by their mum so she could continue claiming child benefit. It doesn’t help them 5-10 years later when they need a job. They need to be able to go back to college and do another free course, one which actually leads to employment.

It also has to be a part time course, because if you study full time they take your benefits off you.

The bigger issue is that you don’t get a bus pass to go to college and the bus is a fiver a day. People on benefits don’t have the money to catch the bus to college, even if the course is free.

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