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I'm so fucking angry. My poor neighbour daren't go to work because of the thugs.

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alrightluv · 05/08/2024 17:54

Just been talking to my neighbour. He and his family are Nigerian. They haven't been here that long. Both work. They have small dcs.
He's had to take today off work as he works in a town that's been targeted and he's scared to travel.

I'm in tears I'm so angry. Those bastards wouldn't know how to fucking spell work. Luckily I got inside before I broke down. Dh is also teary. They're the loveliest family. I'm genuinely scared for my African neighbours. There's a lot of families moved here from the south because of a housing shortage. All of them that I've met are decent lovely people. Wish I could say the same for a lot of people who are from here.

We're broken aren't we? What the fuck is to be done?

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Miley1967 · 05/08/2024 19:17

Such a bunch of mindless thugs. I hope every one of those involved gets fined or put away. I doubt they will all get jailed as there's no prison space, maybe Labour shouldn't have highlighted that. Hope all those filming on their phones like they are making some kind of memories get put away too. Just thick idiots . I feel so sorry for the police, they just look woefully outnumbered.

doublecappuccino · 05/08/2024 19:18

Restinggoddess · 05/08/2024 18:17

I agree with you - national disgrace and shame doesn’t even cover it

I remember Rock against racism - we need something like this where the silent majority and some of our bands ( It was led by Two Tone and others) are very very public about this not being the country we want.

I know the above will seem flimsy to some - but I don’t believe the government or the courts have the power ( jails too full already)
Time for good people to speak up and show the world us at our best

This is such a good idea. We need all these influencers and personalities to lend their weight to sending a message of unity. Heartbreaking to see decent families terrorised by thugs with only hate in their heart

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 19:19

@DazedNotConfused1 please get off this thread. Idiot.

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Greytulips · 05/08/2024 19:20

I do wonder what their families are like?

Can you imagine your son or partner being involved and letting them home every night?

doublecappuccino · 05/08/2024 19:20

Are any of those hare rioters sober ? They're swaying so hard .. Delighted to see Stand Up to Racism peacefully protesting

TattiePants · 05/08/2024 19:21

@Demonhunter hope you've be following the arrest of the delightful local 'business' woman who was caught throwing bins at the police on Friday and is now on remand pending sentencing next month. The comments on social media have given me a much needed laugh over the weekend.

nocoolnamesleft · 05/08/2024 19:22

I've just had a colleague message me that she's not sure if she can safely get back to work from where she had been staying away for the weekend, due to the rioting thugs. She is an immigrant who has worked in the NHS for decades, as has her husband. I wouldn't like to guess how many British children are alive because of her. Another of my colleagues, from the north east, messaged last night that he'd spent part of a weekend off ferrying "brown members of staff" to and from their NHS shifts, because public transport wasn't safe for them. He's mixed race British and again served the NHS for decades.

At work today, very valuable colleagues that I have seen save the lives of British babies were discussing how this made them feel scared, and vulnerable and unwanted.

I hate this. I had seen, and deplored, that racism had been stirred up by politicians and online hate speakers. And was rising. And if I could see that as a white person, I dread to think how much more obvious it was to the poor sods experiencing it. But this? This makes me ashamed to be white British. Not in my name.

rsih91 · 05/08/2024 19:22

Yep, we are in London and have been allowed to wfh for as long as we want due to the violence - it's a shit show.

It's not easy being of ethnic minority as it is - now it's currently 10x worse with all the racists coming out of the woodwork!

Demonhunter · 05/08/2024 19:22

Bellevu · 05/08/2024 19:12

When people say that there's no racism in the UK, black people are being over sensitive and prickly this is what many of us know lies beneath the snide remarks and indignities at work.

I'm not a fan of the concept of royalty but when Meghan Markle got engaged to Prince Harry so many of my friends and family started our internal countdown to when the racism would bubble.over.

Even now she's subject to more vitriolic threads and posts than randy Andy ever has been. The vile and petty attacks on her for being brave enough to remove her children from the damage of a country in denial of its racism is in itself illustrating her point.

Lots.of you have come out against the mob, and some posters will claim it's a small minority; but for brown and black people in the UK these psst few days show how fragile it all is

My kids school is quite diverse now, and they tell me people are often calling out the same little racist group so I trust it's happening, hopefully enough of us are raising our kids to call it out.

My youngest son had a lad in their friend group who made a really racist comment to one of the others and they just cut him out immediately and the parents have told the parents if they ever need backing up with complaining we'll be with them.

DazedNotConfused1 · 05/08/2024 19:22

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 19:19

@DazedNotConfused1 please get off this thread. Idiot.

Go bake your cake love and see if that helps.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 05/08/2024 19:23

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 17:54

Just been talking to my neighbour. He and his family are Nigerian. They haven't been here that long. Both work. They have small dcs.
He's had to take today off work as he works in a town that's been targeted and he's scared to travel.

I'm in tears I'm so angry. Those bastards wouldn't know how to fucking spell work. Luckily I got inside before I broke down. Dh is also teary. They're the loveliest family. I'm genuinely scared for my African neighbours. There's a lot of families moved here from the south because of a housing shortage. All of them that I've met are decent lovely people. Wish I could say the same for a lot of people who are from here.

We're broken aren't we? What the fuck is to be done?

Take some comfort from the fact that the majority of indigenous Brits are like me and you, ie, normal and relatively educated. I know it's scary seeing these scumbags but they are definitely in the minority.

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 19:24

@Greytulips can you imagine. Dh just wouldn't be one anymore,he'd be exdh sans bollocks! Adult dcs wouldn't even think it. Their friends are from all over the world. They're as disgusted as I am.

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alrightluv · 05/08/2024 19:25

@Didshejustsaythatoutloud I know. Just hate the thought of them being scared.

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Demonhunter · 05/08/2024 19:26

TattiePants · 05/08/2024 19:21

@Demonhunter hope you've be following the arrest of the delightful local 'business' woman who was caught throwing bins at the police on Friday and is now on remand pending sentencing next month. The comments on social media have given me a much needed laugh over the weekend.

Me too. Used to see her vans and bouncy castles everywhere 😂 apparently she's on licence so might just get sent to jail, do not pass go, do not collect £200

AllPrincessAnneshorses · 05/08/2024 19:26

okydokethen · 05/08/2024 18:28

Shameful indeed, it's disgusting.

If this supposedly links to the horrific killing of the young girls.. why are mosques being targeted? Rwanda is largely Christian.

The irony is of targeting asylum seekers accommodation is presumably they will need to be re housed for their safety.

I'm impressed and relieved with starmers stance that it is thuggery.

Because the thugs are pig ignorant racists who think Muslim=black or brown = foreign = the enemy and neither know nor care about inconvenient facts.

CastlesinSpain · 05/08/2024 19:26

Has anyone ever drawn a graph comparing mindless mob violence/vandalism vs periods of war? ie. Do the yobs tend to sign up for the army when there is a war rather than causing trouble locally?
nb. I am old enough to remember the "Mods and Rockers" violence. The wiki article is an interesting read. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mods_and_rockers

Tristar15 · 05/08/2024 19:27

I’m so sorry for your neighbours and all of the other terrified people living in Britain at the moment.

LBFseBrom · 05/08/2024 19:28

I too feel ashamed, it's just dreadful - that is not a strong enough word

I came across these posts from someone on another forum:

"WE WANT OUR COUNTRY BACK
And the title just about sums it up.
The white working class say they have had enough ( of Muslims, mosques being built,and foreigners of all types being accomodated at government expense ) while they, the backbone of England linger on with no change,no improvement to their living conditions deeply resent this.
And it is a long warm weekend and the hooligans will out in force attacking police and immigrants, and refugees.
All this talk about social misinformation and Right-Wing attacks - is a lot of nonsense! "

and:

"Educational opportunities for the working class whites are limited, partly because all white working classdon't want it, or think they don't have the intelligence to absorb it. Only a few get out of that working class.
Accent is another thing as parodied in the show My Fair Lady. Why don't the English teach their children to speak English?
They don't. There is a lot of good among the working class shown by those who remember the Christian tradition. Unfortunately there are "Those at the Bottom" (read the book) describing self indulgence to a scale never seen before the 1950's."

It beggars belief. The poster is an Englishman who emigrated to Canada many, many years ago, married and brought up his family there.

Badgertime · 05/08/2024 19:29

It's scary. My kids are half Nigerian and are teenagers so go into town etc with friends.
I'm in a smallish town in SW and am hoping nothing happens here.

It has made me worried though.

They get enough racism as it is.

A couple of weeks ago my daughter (12) was told she'd be pretty if she was white!
She was crying all evening.

AInightingale · 05/08/2024 19:30

Hopefully the courts coming down on them like a ton of bricks will help. Heavy sentences for riotous behaviour.

Ihateboris · 05/08/2024 19:32

That's absolutely bloody awful. I'm so angry and upset on their behalf. I'm probably going to get slated for this, but it's time for water cannons and rubber bullets.

Badgertime · 05/08/2024 19:32

Demonhunter · 05/08/2024 19:26

Me too. Used to see her vans and bouncy castles everywhere 😂 apparently she's on licence so might just get sent to jail, do not pass go, do not collect £200

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Is that the one who has mental health issues?!

alrightluv · 05/08/2024 19:32

DazedNotConfused1 · 05/08/2024 19:22

Go bake your cake love and see if that helps.

Thanks you seem so nice. Now fuck off.

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alrightluv · 05/08/2024 19:34

@Badgertime that's terrible. Who said that ffs?

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Prawncow · 05/08/2024 19:35

Don’t worry. DazedNotConfused1 probably has to pop out to set fire to some bins soon.