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Why is it a particular type of, usually men, who are normally the instigators of civil unrest?

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coworkingdesk · 04/08/2024 08:59

It can’t be that they’re all just disillusioned or angry or even just thick. It largely seems to be working class men (and yes some women). When I passed the Tommy Robinson March last week when I was in London, it was a very similar demographic although I must admit it looked mainly quite calm.

I feel angry for the families of those poor girls, it’s beyond dreadful what happened to them but the rioters must know that they’re not helping them at all (or themselves).

So is it just racism? I saw some of the videos on X last night of black men and Muslims being singled out and attacked and can’t really think it’s down to anything else. The footage was shocking.

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J316 · 04/08/2024 10:23

FancyNewt · 04/08/2024 09:47

Yes it's racism. I saw a shocking video this morning of a group dragging an asian man out of his car and smashing it up. Mindless thugs.

But I also think there is resentment simmering that should be understood rather than just written off as these people being thick knuckle dragging idiots.

I think the Tory government has a lot of responsibility for stoking so much anti immigration rhetoric. The number of people coming over in boats is tiny but was given so much attention.

I also think our policies of housing asylum seekers and how long it takes to process them is partly to blame. I think the reason it's so often white working class people is due to the fact they are more likely to be negatively impacted by immigration when groups of asylum seekers are housed locally to them. If you live in a middle class area then you are unlikely to have hotels full of male asylum seekers hanging around your local town with nothing to do.

It may also be that some white working class people and immigrants are competing for the same resources eg, social housing. If you've been sat in a bed-sit for years waiting for social housing and you perceived someone from another country getting it first then it's little wonder resentment builds.

There's also the echo chamber of social media and the views of your peers.

I'm in no way condoning this mindless violence but just wanted to point out that 29 and a half thousand people illegally entered the UK by boat last year. Not a tiny amount. I don't know what the answer is though 🫤

bombastix · 04/08/2024 10:24

Yes crime of passion is wrong; it was the language used by defence barristers to reduce sentences for men who killed their “loved ones”. It suggests there is a romance to the killing.

canyouseemyhousefromhere · 04/08/2024 10:24

When people feel powerless they need someone to blame, people like Tommy and Farage point at immigrants as the reason for them not having what they want. Then anyone who possibly could fit that description (not white, different religion, English not their first language) also is included as the 'problem', This often spills out and includes people with disabilities.
It is exactly how Hitler whipped up the hate against Jews, gypsies and disabled people.
There is always someone further up the tree pulling the strings. In this day & age with social media algorithms presenting the same message to them it soon takes off.
Scary times.

Crikeyalmighty · 04/08/2024 10:25

Oh and ladies if you are on Twitter- we now have the beauty parade of 'normal looking' 58 year olds posting with the 'I'm a thug- not' - all the same- all totally coordinated- they are either bots with fake pics or may actually be 'ordinary people' but their timelines make for some interesting reading- not a thug maybe- just a horrible piece of work

Rainbowsponge · 04/08/2024 10:25

canyouseemyhousefromhere · 04/08/2024 10:24

When people feel powerless they need someone to blame, people like Tommy and Farage point at immigrants as the reason for them not having what they want. Then anyone who possibly could fit that description (not white, different religion, English not their first language) also is included as the 'problem', This often spills out and includes people with disabilities.
It is exactly how Hitler whipped up the hate against Jews, gypsies and disabled people.
There is always someone further up the tree pulling the strings. In this day & age with social media algorithms presenting the same message to them it soon takes off.
Scary times.

Harehills, Manchester airport and the stabbing of a British soldier was also scary. There’s a lot of scary people about in general. Like I said, we have a male thug problem. Men who feel they’ve lost control and feel entitled to take it out violently on others.

sunsetsandboardwalks · 04/08/2024 10:27

Rainbowsponge · 04/08/2024 10:22

‘Crime of passion’ is very ewwww. It was classic male violence against women, and the word ‘passion’ makes it sound like he was overcome with lust or driven mad by infatuation. He too was a thug, plain and simple. Like the EDL, like Harehills, like Manchester airport - they’re all cut from the same cloth. Men who have lost control and tantrum because they can’t have what they want - whether it’s an ex girlfriend, or because somebody has ‘slighted’ their religion, or because we won’t kick out anybody who is non white so they can ‘have their country back’.

I know it wasn't the best phrase - I was just trying to say that a crime where the victims are known to the killer is (rightly or wrongly) seen very differently to a crime where someone just massacres random strangers.

I don't think it was to do with colour.

sadabouti · 04/08/2024 10:28

The far right has always appealed to under educated men in low socioeconomic groups. Had ever been thus. Hitler had the SA before he achieved real power and then liquidated the group. It's not complicated. They are angry about their low status, and lack of access to resource. The far right offers something that looks like power, fraternity, and advancement, while harnessing their prejudices to achieve aims for its leaders. So the foot soldiers never really rise, while the leaders profit.

sunsetsandboardwalks · 04/08/2024 10:29

bombastix · 04/08/2024 10:24

Yes crime of passion is wrong; it was the language used by defence barristers to reduce sentences for men who killed their “loved ones”. It suggests there is a romance to the killing.

Yes - not the best phrase I admit - but I was just trying to say that a crime where the victims are known to the killer is generally seen very differently to one where someone goes out to kill random strangers.

AzureBlue99 · 04/08/2024 10:30

All of the men, whatever their demographic, just want to fight and loot. If there are any riots in central London invariably it is black youth who take the opportunity to loot the Oxford St trainer stores. The dickheads doing the current rioting are from a different demographic but the results are the same. Men are violent thugs.

BippityBopper · 04/08/2024 10:30

FolkestoneMassive · 04/08/2024 09:35

I’m not defending the violence which I condemn absolutely but I completely understand why they are protesting. Men are more violent than women. And of course it’s the working classes. They are in competition with migrants for resources: housing, medical, education, community. If you own your own home, have a career and can afford a private dentist etc, you probably aren’t feeling so aggrieved about immigration. For many people each day is a struggle.

They aren't protesting though. They're just being agents of chaos, smashing up the community where those girls lost their lives and everyone was still grieving is a mindless and self indulgent act.
They've just used the awful tragedy as an excuse to behave how they wanted to behave regardless of what happened - to cause chaos and destruction.

frozendaisy · 04/08/2024 10:31

Some of these grunts will have made their own lives worse by their actions yesterday, criminal record for assaulting a police offer say, and it will still be someone else's fault.

They think they are big strong alpha men yet take absolutely no responsibility for anything they think is wrong in their lives.

Frowningprovidence · 04/08/2024 10:33

I've been on twitter for a few years and my feed (or whatever it's called) has consistently been dominated by education and SEN as thats all I follow, read etc - but over the last 3 weeks, it's been dominated by all this farage and Tommy Robinson stuff. I try really hard not to click or interact as i know how algorithms work with them presenting more and more of what you like, but I am convinced this is being pushed outside of the algorithm thing.

BurnerName1 · 04/08/2024 10:34

bombastix · 04/08/2024 09:46

Most of them just come across as very entitled; a strong need to control. That is what makes them so dangerous because they will use violence to get what they want. Their partners will be kept in line or just put them at the top of the hierarchy all the time.

Yea they are racist but it’s not confined to some working men in England. I reckon you could find similar mentalities in extreme Islamic groups where you also see controlling men. The thing is it’s the mentality of control and the right to use violence to get it.

Yes exactly. The far right and far left are just two sides of the same coin. So are white supremacy and radical Islam. I would argue the jihadists are more dangerous because they believe they have God on their side which never ends well.

Marchitectmummy · 04/08/2024 10:35

ilovemoney · 04/08/2024 10:01

The mob outside the police station in Manchester appeared to be all Muslim men after the airport footage of the fight and police being beaten up. The weekly appalling scenes in London seems to be a mixed bag of people just united by antisemitism. The riots in leeds were Muslim and Hindu men. The leeds riots that the police ran away from seemed to be mixed non white people in that area. Civil unrest and riots seem to be mainly men. In terms of race the UK is about 20% non white. Recent riots have been about 50% non white so on that basis and i am generalising it would seem from what is being reported that non white men are doing most of the rioting overall. It would be interesting to see the statistics.

I agree with you, for some reason people feel far more comfortable discussing some riots more than others. This whole thread ignores non white rioting men who are just as out of control and scary to witness. Both need to be solved.

chosenone · 04/08/2024 10:39

It’s a class issue. Some of my friends on social media who support and share this rhetoric are from typically working class families. Many have never left the town they live in, read the Sun newspaper, and have experienced or still experience poverty.

However, immigration does affect poorer communities more than affluent, at the moment anyway. People languishing on housing lists, working every hour god sends resent any help being given to people different to them.

The media feeds into this, if you’re living in poverty but being told new arrivals in Britain, who may or may not have a right to be here, are receiving aid in the way of housing/phones etc. resentment builds. Poor communities are very divided, I have more experience of northern cities, Stoke on Trent, Bradford, Derby. There is very little integration and lots of ‘othering’ from both sides. I saw FB post recently featuring a group of Asian men in Derby who had all been arrested for a violent fight involving machetes and guns, lots of racists comments and people remarking ‘can’t believe they didn’t all become doctors’

Rainbowsponge · 04/08/2024 10:43

Marchitectmummy · 04/08/2024 10:35

I agree with you, for some reason people feel far more comfortable discussing some riots more than others. This whole thread ignores non white rioting men who are just as out of control and scary to witness. Both need to be solved.

Because I don’t think it’s them showing actual concern, it’s posturing to appear the most left wing/anti racist person and gain the approval of others whilst feeling very superior. They would be horrified if a refugee hotel opened next door to them, but will happily call others racist for feeling the same when it actually does. They bang on and on about poverty and how awful inequality is, but what we saw last night and the night before is a raging symptom of poverty - racism comes hand in hand with deprivation. They don’t really like poor or working class people (who vote brexit and shit), they just have a Messiah complex in enjoying ‘representing’ and ‘advocating for’ them.

They’re unbearable!

Luminousalumnus · 04/08/2024 10:49

Aussieland · 04/08/2024 09:20

This has always been the group that is targeted for radicalisation like this. A tough life often, anger at not getting the advantages that many have, a want to have a physical outlet for that anger, promised so much and given so little. Out of work there may be little money to do much and time to think. It means they can easily be directed to blame that on “others” whether it be Muslims, Jews, Irish people, Black people at various times through history.

The women are stereotypically (but also genuinely) possibly less want to have a violent outlet and are busy with the realities of life.

Of course this is exactly right.
If everyone was invested in society and felt useful and valued there would be no riots.

Northernnature · 04/08/2024 10:49

Yes I agree @Rainbowsponge I can't stand the type of mc women you get on these threads. This is the first time I've seen wwc men rioting, it's usually ethnic minority (or Roma a few weeks ago) men which they either ignore or sympathise with so they couldn't give a shit about the misery these disturbances create its all about them. So the op is talking bollocks.

Fraaahnces · 04/08/2024 10:50

I think a lot of them have raging undiagnosed personality disorders.

Northernnature · 04/08/2024 10:52

Possibly @Fraaahnces but I think it's just a white saviour complex combined with being clueless because they get all their information from the BBC/Guardian so don't know what's going on in the country (see Brexit).

PigeonFeatherInMyChair · 04/08/2024 10:53

I can only assume by looking at them that they are filled with rage at having to go through life looking like a manky baked potato....

FolkestoneMassive · 04/08/2024 10:55

bombastix · 04/08/2024 10:04

This. These men can be abusive in their own homes. So have a thought for the women and children of such men. These types like to control

Where is your evidence for this? It’s my understanding that domestic abuse is much more likely in non-note British households.

As evidenced by this 2024 document from U.K. Parliament that discusses the problem of female homicides in ethnic minority women being massively over-represented.

sunsetsandboardwalks · 04/08/2024 10:55

frozendaisy · 04/08/2024 10:31

Some of these grunts will have made their own lives worse by their actions yesterday, criminal record for assaulting a police offer say, and it will still be someone else's fault.

They think they are big strong alpha men yet take absolutely no responsibility for anything they think is wrong in their lives.

The thing is, when you genuinely feel like you've got nothing to lose, you're not going to give two shits about having a criminal record.

Leniriefenstahl · 04/08/2024 10:56

Football hasn’t started yet and it’s been hot weather. Always a toxic potion for creating social dissent.
Working class they may be but not necessarily badly off. Most look like white van man, self employed, doing ok. Spend plenty of time in the pub, like agro at the footy match. Don’t read the news just SM conspiracy stuff.

BelleoftheBall5 · 04/08/2024 10:57

Leavetheminthebowl · 04/08/2024 10:19

I find it ironic that the “all Muslims are terrorists” crowd don’t realise that they’ve been indoctrinated in the same way and that their viewpoints are a form of extremism and, when they act on it, terrorism.

if you know anyone who behaves like these thugs, report them through Prevent.

I’d never thought of it that way. Such a good point.

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