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Southport - why do they keep saying a ‘Taylor Swift themed club’?

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SandrasNewDo · 30/07/2024 08:35

It’s really bothering me.

Is it because
a) the murder of 2 children and attempted murder and severe injury of 9 others isn’t newsworthy enough without involving Taylor Swift’s name?

b) Taylor Swift needs to suffer some guilt by association in the way Ariana Grande did with the bombing at her concert?

What’s the need or relevance? If it had been a 80’s music dance class would they keep saying that? Why not just say summer dance club and then focus on the children and adults who were hurt or killed - I can’t even imagine the devastation their families and the whole community must be suffering.

Anyone?

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lemoniessie · 30/07/2024 16:33

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 16:23

The statement was not to do with where the perpetrator was born it was

Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.

Are you suggesting you know his race and religion due to being born in Cardiff?

Is everyone born in the U.K. the same race and religion?

It’s speculation and the pp does not know those facts, no one has the information yet

The Telegraph published quite a long time ago that his parents are immigrants from Rwanda, so yes, we do have that information.

lemoniessie · 30/07/2024 16:37

The names and photos of all three little girls have also been published. Poor girls.

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 16:48

lemoniessie · 30/07/2024 16:33

The Telegraph published quite a long time ago that his parents are immigrants from Rwanda, so yes, we do have that information.

That’s not quite the same as this

Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.

Which was in pp. we don’t know with certainty what the implications are or motivations

lemoniessie · 30/07/2024 16:52

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 16:48

That’s not quite the same as this

Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.

Which was in pp. we don’t know with certainty what the implications are or motivations

Fair enough.

Dressinggowntime · 30/07/2024 16:52

My goodness their little faces. It’s unbearable. Their poor parents.

TickTockTickTok · 30/07/2024 17:07

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 16:31

His parents are from Rwanda, an over 90% Christian country with only 2% Muslims. My statement "Race and religion have nothing to do with this case" should be interpreted in the context of the Arabic-sounding false name circulating on social media. To be utterly clear: people looking to blame Muslims and Arabs for this tragedy should stop.

As should people like you making absolute statements like

”Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.”

when you cannot possibly know that

Devonbabs · 30/07/2024 17:23

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 16:31

His parents are from Rwanda, an over 90% Christian country with only 2% Muslims. My statement "Race and religion have nothing to do with this case" should be interpreted in the context of the Arabic-sounding false name circulating on social media. To be utterly clear: people looking to blame Muslims and Arabs for this tragedy should stop.

Interestingly this has changed since the Rwandan genocides. The Christian churches were often implicated in the genocide. Quite a few people converted or otherwise moved away from Christianity. But that isn’t really relevant. We don’t know the religion of this individual or whether it had any connection to the attack.

SeeSeeRider · 30/07/2024 17:31

MaturingCheeseball · 30/07/2024 11:46

@SeeSeeRider but you are making personal attacks. I wonder why? Children have been murdered and you’re banging the drum for the “boy”.

Where did I ever do that? Are you getting me mixed up with someone else?

Cabincrew1 · 30/07/2024 17:39

RedToothBrush · 30/07/2024 09:08

They've ruled out terrorism though.

Incels are terrorists.

It absolutely is terrorism when half the population are targets simply because they where born female.

The government and police wouldn’t even know how to get a handle on these freaks as they sit in the shadows of the internet spewing their hatred and making their sick plans.

Also when were women and girls ever cherished and protected in this patriarchal society. There would literally be panic in the streets if they declared incels as terrorists because misogyny is acceptable that’s why the government are so hesitant to make it a crime.

OdeToBarney · 30/07/2024 17:59

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 10:48

Not disagreeing with you, however it does speak volumes about the status of women and girls in society that targeted attacks against us isn't deemed terrorism.

Completely agree with you.

RedToothBrush · 30/07/2024 18:01

Cabincrew1 · 30/07/2024 17:39

It absolutely is terrorism when half the population are targets simply because they where born female.

The government and police wouldn’t even know how to get a handle on these freaks as they sit in the shadows of the internet spewing their hatred and making their sick plans.

Also when were women and girls ever cherished and protected in this patriarchal society. There would literally be panic in the streets if they declared incels as terrorists because misogyny is acceptable that’s why the government are so hesitant to make it a crime.

We don't know it's an incel attack or not.

But incels are terrorists.

And should be treated accordingly.

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 18:08

TickTockTickTok · 30/07/2024 17:07

As should people like you making absolute statements like

”Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.”

when you cannot possibly know that

What I was trying to say, and clearly worded very badly, is that this murder isn't an Arab Muslim as the far-right are claim. I'll concede that, without me specifiying the context, it came across with a different unintended meaning.

Devonbabs · 30/07/2024 18:10

OdeToBarney · 30/07/2024 17:59

Completely agree with you.

Unfortunately, it is now impossible to have a meaningful misogyny hate crime. Labour are not willing to define “woman” which would make drafting the legislation impossible. Forcing the definition of women to include transwomen is, in itself, misogynistic. It’s too big a political hot potato for the government to be willing to pick it up, mens actions leave women exposed again.

I don’t think legislation will do much tbh. We need to be changing education, social media, the media so that women aren’t silenced and women need to stop making excluded for men!!!

Hazelville · 30/07/2024 18:12

Nevergoodenoughforthem · 30/07/2024 09:49

You honestly think this horrific, brutal murder has received more interest/clicks because of the TS mentions. Are you serious??!

Yes, this. What a bizarre supposition.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 18:56

Devonbabs · 30/07/2024 15:54

Exactly - the Position here is marriage is legal at 16. British culture would see it at abhorrent for a 10 year old to get married because most right thinking people can see a difference between a prepubescent child and a child over half as old again who has gone through puberty, who has the ability to be independent.

Please stop. The legal age of marriage in the UK is 18. As an adult.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 19:01

Dylanesque · 30/07/2024 14:33

The law is an ass. 16 year olds can still get married in Scotland without parental consent. Are their brains more developed than their counterparts in England and Wales?
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/scotland/family/living-together-marriage-and-civil-partnership-s/getting-married-s/

No, they’re not. But it’s a biological fact that at 17 the brain is not fully developed. That’s why the age of adulthood is set at 18. I don’t give a shit where they’re from, countries set laws according to themselves. Doesn’t change the fact that in the UK it’s 18 and before that they are considered minors and entitled to be anonymous until charges are brought and reporting restrictions are lifted. I’m not defending in any way what this excuse for a human did, but the the law is the law. Whether it’s an ass or not is down to your own opinion. But you cannot, absolutely cannot single him out for ‘othering’ because of what he did. If and when he’s charged his identity will be made known. Until then our empathy and thoughts should be with the dead and injured and the families who grieve them.

FarmFlowers · 30/07/2024 19:04

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Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 19:14

CantDealwithChristmas · 30/07/2024 14:26

They WERE tried as adults!! It's a rather well known and controversial decision by the then Home Sec Michael Howard in response to the public outcry.

Ten is the age of criminal responsibility. They were 9.

And the law was changed as a result of that. The law everywhere else in Europe is that 12 is the age of criminal responsibility. Here it remains at 10. Because Michael Howard decided to try them as adults doesn’t make it right. They were children at the time. Absolutely not defending them in any way before I’m flamed, it was a terrible crime. My point is that you can’t chop and change because of public opinion. The law is the law, and it should apply to everyone regardless of what they are accused of. Anything else risks mob rule.

Dylanesque · 30/07/2024 19:14

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 19:01

No, they’re not. But it’s a biological fact that at 17 the brain is not fully developed. That’s why the age of adulthood is set at 18. I don’t give a shit where they’re from, countries set laws according to themselves. Doesn’t change the fact that in the UK it’s 18 and before that they are considered minors and entitled to be anonymous until charges are brought and reporting restrictions are lifted. I’m not defending in any way what this excuse for a human did, but the the law is the law. Whether it’s an ass or not is down to your own opinion. But you cannot, absolutely cannot single him out for ‘othering’ because of what he did. If and when he’s charged his identity will be made known. Until then our empathy and thoughts should be with the dead and injured and the families who grieve them.

Last time I looked, Scotland was still part of the UK

FiddlyDiddlyDee · 30/07/2024 19:15

Lilysgoneshopping · 30/07/2024 15:48

Pointless comment.
We are not in Sudan

We're not in Scotland either

pam290358 · 30/07/2024 19:16

Dylanesque · 30/07/2024 19:14

Last time I looked, Scotland was still part of the UK

And ?

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 19:17

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The Office for National Statistics aren't politicians. They are scientists.

FarmFlowers · 30/07/2024 19:22

If I look at a pig and say, 'that's a pig' and then the government say to me, 'no we have declared-in law-that all pigs are now cows. We will now treat pigs as cows and try to milk them.'

I can't stop the government defining a pig as a cow. I can't stop them treating the pig as a cow but I don't have to believe it myself..

I look at a 17 year old man who has murdered children and I see a man, a strong man, a devious man, a dangerous man. The government may come along and say, 'he's a child' and he will be treated as such in law.

I can't stop the government defining him as a child and treating him as a child but I will not deny the plain truth-he is a man.

He has acted like a man, a dangerous man, he has the strength of a man. He is a man.

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 19:23

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 19:17

The Office for National Statistics aren't politicians. They are scientists.

What are the stats on fatal attacks on multiple children as this must feature quite highly given its horrific nature

That’s why your posts come across as they do

Devonbabs · 30/07/2024 19:29

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 19:01

No, they’re not. But it’s a biological fact that at 17 the brain is not fully developed. That’s why the age of adulthood is set at 18. I don’t give a shit where they’re from, countries set laws according to themselves. Doesn’t change the fact that in the UK it’s 18 and before that they are considered minors and entitled to be anonymous until charges are brought and reporting restrictions are lifted. I’m not defending in any way what this excuse for a human did, but the the law is the law. Whether it’s an ass or not is down to your own opinion. But you cannot, absolutely cannot single him out for ‘othering’ because of what he did. If and when he’s charged his identity will be made known. Until then our empathy and thoughts should be with the dead and injured and the families who grieve them.

But the brain isn’t fully developed until mid to late 20s the decision making part is the last part to develop. Are you saying a 23 year old shouldn’t be tried as an adult.