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Southport - why do they keep saying a ‘Taylor Swift themed club’?

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SandrasNewDo · 30/07/2024 08:35

It’s really bothering me.

Is it because
a) the murder of 2 children and attempted murder and severe injury of 9 others isn’t newsworthy enough without involving Taylor Swift’s name?

b) Taylor Swift needs to suffer some guilt by association in the way Ariana Grande did with the bombing at her concert?

What’s the need or relevance? If it had been a 80’s music dance class would they keep saying that? Why not just say summer dance club and then focus on the children and adults who were hurt or killed - I can’t even imagine the devastation their families and the whole community must be suffering.

Anyone?

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TickTockTickTok · 30/07/2024 14:09

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 11:18

"Who is behind the murders" is a British-born 17 year old with Rwandan parents, raised in a population 4000 village in Merseyside since the age of six. 90% of Rwandans are Christian. Rwanda, if you forget, was deemed safe enough by the previous government that they tried to send asylum seekers there. In a population 4000 village, you don't get a choice about integrating.

The "no more mosques" and "they don't integrate" crowd can cry harder. Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.

Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.”

pray tell how you could possibly know, otherwise just making stuff up

is making stuff up OK for you

Or to quote Sir Keir is it. … one law for them and another for everone else

Devonbabs · 30/07/2024 14:10

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 14:05

Of course I can. Just making the distinction between the rule of law and doing as we like based on what crime has been committed. He’s a minor and is being treated as such according to the law. Why on earth people have a problem with that I don’t know. Jamie Bulgar’s’ killers weren’t allowed to be named.

Yes it is the law and sometimes the law is an ass. Maybe this should be a catalyst to change the law so that a 17 year old old enough to drive is treated as an adult in criminal investigations.

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 14:10

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 14:08

Men have always done this.

Some of your jury posts I get more although idk if it’s ok to say what the pp did online

But others really do look like minimising how awful this is. This attack on young girls is remarkably unsettling and horrific

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 14:12

CurbsideProphet · 30/07/2024 14:06

The Hart Space was initially set up for pregnant women and baby classes. There's nothing seedy about it at all like a previous poster has suggested. The owner rents out the space for toddler music classes, holiday clubs, all sorts of events for mainly women (or parents) and children. It's tucked away in a little business park. There are no signs for it. You wouldn't necessarily knew it even existed if you aren't the target audience.

The fact that it is a Taylor Swift yoga and dance workshop is relevant, as it was for primary aged girls. He has deliberately sought out a Taylor Swift themed event for girls aged 6-11.

We live locally and I can confirm there’s nothing seedy about it at all. There are baby massage classes held there too and all kinds of events during school holidays. The event was well publicised so he would have had no problem finding it.

Prawncow · 30/07/2024 14:12

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Make social media companies responsible for the content they publish. It’s their algorithms that push people down rabbit holes of extremism and artificially boost the popularity of hateful posters.

WeatherNanna · 30/07/2024 14:13

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 14:08

Men have always done this.

How about boys? In the UK? Has there ever been anything on this scale in the UK, where 6-11 year old girls were stabbed and murdered in a frenzy by a boy? Is there a precedent? The weirdo Incel in Bondi also stabbed babies, children and women. This did not use to happen. Man on man knife violence yes, man or young male adults slaughtering little girls in the UK, in Wales? Naaa, that's pretty unheard of.

Cattery · 30/07/2024 14:14

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 14:08

Men have always done this.

Lived in their bedrooms being brainwashed by the dark web? I don’t think so

Prawncow · 30/07/2024 14:15

blacklippy · 30/07/2024 14:05

I saw a screenshot elsewhere from a popular incel forum where the men who frequent that site are celebrating what happened yesterday, calling it “lifefuel”. I’ll need someone to explain to me why these men are not all on a list somewhere and under some kind of surveillance by the authorities.

They think murdering children is a positive thing and then wonder why women and girls don’t want anything to do with them?

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 14:15

TickTockTickTok · 30/07/2024 14:09

Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.”

pray tell how you could possibly know, otherwise just making stuff up

is making stuff up OK for you

Or to quote Sir Keir is it. … one law for them and another for everone else

No-one knows. And this thread is a perfect example of why the police have asked people not to speculate about it on social media. Surprised this thread is still here to be honest.

BeckyAMumsnet · 30/07/2024 14:16

We're just dropping in to remind you that this is a current police investigation and as such we will have to remove posts which speculate about the case or those involved. If these posts continue, we will remove the thread.

More information on contempt of court can be found here

Contempt of court

What being in 'contempt of court' means, who can be in contempt of court, what the consequences are, how to report it, how to avoid it on social media (such as Twitter and Facebook).

https://www.gov.uk/contempt-of-court

Goldenbear · 30/07/2024 14:16

Cattery · 30/07/2024 14:14

Lived in their bedrooms being brainwashed by the dark web? I don’t think so

Exactly and if you are discussing teen boys then what age did they start listening to this stuff. Inception ideology has become mainstream now. I wonder if the tide will turn.

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 14:17

TickTockTickTok · 30/07/2024 14:09

Race and religion have nothing to do with this case.”

pray tell how you could possibly know, otherwise just making stuff up

is making stuff up OK for you

Or to quote Sir Keir is it. … one law for them and another for everone else

Why else were the police so vehement about where this suspect was born and where his family were from?

Grossgross · 30/07/2024 14:18

It gives a bit of context as to the type of event where the children were targeted. With very little information it will give an indication of who was targeted.

It could have been a school event, church event, family party, etc.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 14:18

Devonbabs · 30/07/2024 14:10

Yes it is the law and sometimes the law is an ass. Maybe this should be a catalyst to change the law so that a 17 year old old enough to drive is treated as an adult in criminal investigations.

How are they going to do that when the age of adulthood is 18. Would you have tried Jamie Bulgers’ killers as adults ? Because that’s where we’re headed the minute we go down this road.

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 14:19

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 14:17

Why else were the police so vehement about where this suspect was born and where his family were from?

Why does that count as vehement and why does it suggest anything?

PandoraSox · 30/07/2024 14:19

Thanks @BeckyAMumsnet for reiterating what @MaidOfAle and others have been trying to hammer home (and have been attacked for doing so).

Pip2345 · 30/07/2024 14:19

@CantDealwithChristmas Yes maybe you're right. I suppose whether what I've heard is true or not it's probably irreversibly made my mind up on something I've always tried to be open to even when I was skeptical...

Female and children's spaces needed to be fully protected with no if's, but's, maybes or wokeness about it.

Although a lot of the speculation is around terrorism which appears not to be the case so it may help defuse those tensions, although it could build them elsewhere.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 14:20

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 14:19

Why does that count as vehement and why does it suggest anything?

Possibly to head off any suggestion of him being an immigrant, and sparking trouble ?

SerafinasGoose · 30/07/2024 14:21

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 14:10

Some of your jury posts I get more although idk if it’s ok to say what the pp did online

But others really do look like minimising how awful this is. This attack on young girls is remarkably unsettling and horrific

It's beyond horrible. This, coming after the crossbow killings, the reflections in the wake of that crime that the week after that it would be someone else whose loved ones were grieving, and the week after that, and that ...

And in the interim we saw sobering reports that VAWG is now a national emergency. 2024 is a terrifying time to be female. We've gone so far backward in the last two decades: at a far more rapid rate than our twentieth-century feminist forerunners could ever have dreamed of making process.

Which is precisely why I don't want this trial prejudiced. I want justice for these families. It's the only thing left this society has to offer them, having failed their daughters so spectacularly in other respects: the basic, fundamental value of being seen and treated as a human being which, if you're a female human being, increasingly feels like too big an ask.

I don't want the hateful male perpetrators of acts like these to get away with it. And I don't believe this is an outcome one single poster on this thread wants to see. My heart breaks for these girls, and on a broader level all women and girls who have to navigate this palpable hatred on a more-or-less daily basis. And we all know this is not an exaggeration.

I want these fuckers held accountable.

Devonbabs · 30/07/2024 14:22

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 14:18

How are they going to do that when the age of adulthood is 18. Would you have tried Jamie Bulgers’ killers as adults ? Because that’s where we’re headed the minute we go down this road.

Actually, yes I would.

At 16 you can enlist in the army- are. You suggesting the army jace child soldiers?

At 16 you can get married, are you suggesting we have child brides

At 16 you could legally be in a sexual relationship with a 30 year old, aAre you suggesting the law allows paedophillia?

At 17 you can drive a car.

The current government want to lower the voting age to 16.

EasternStandard · 30/07/2024 14:24

SerafinasGoose · 30/07/2024 14:21

It's beyond horrible. This, coming after the crossbow killings, the reflections in the wake of that crime that the week after that it would be someone else whose loved ones were grieving, and the week after that, and that ...

And in the interim we saw sobering reports that VAWG is now a national emergency. 2024 is a terrifying time to be female. We've gone so far backward in the last two decades: at a far more rapid rate than our twentieth-century feminist forerunners could ever have dreamed of making process.

Which is precisely why I don't want this trial prejudiced. I want justice for these families. It's the only thing left this society has to offer them, having failed their daughters so spectacularly in other respects: the basic, fundamental value of being seen and treated as a human being which, if you're a female human being, increasingly feels like too big an ask.

I don't want the hateful male perpetrators of acts like these to get away with it. And I don't believe this is an outcome one single poster on this thread wants to see. My heart breaks for these girls, and on a broader level all women and girls who have to navigate this palpable hatred on a more-or-less daily basis. And we all know this is not an exaggeration.

I want these fuckers held accountable.

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Same and yes you’re right no one wants the male perpetrator to get off

I’ll take care although I haven’t read the guidelines from below. I have done jury service so know about SM part but not for pre trial

blacklippy · 30/07/2024 14:26

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2024 14:07

I saw a screenshot elsewhere from a popular incel forum where the men who frequent that site are celebrating what happened yesterday, calling it “lifefuel”. I’ll need someone to explain to me why these men are not all on a list somewhere and under some kind of surveillance by the authorities.

Hopefully they are.
Why such hate sites are allowed to stand I don't know.

I don’t understand either. I assume that level of hatred is normal for that site but no way am I going to look and find out!

CantDealwithChristmas · 30/07/2024 14:26

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 14:18

How are they going to do that when the age of adulthood is 18. Would you have tried Jamie Bulgers’ killers as adults ? Because that’s where we’re headed the minute we go down this road.

They WERE tried as adults!! It's a rather well known and controversial decision by the then Home Sec Michael Howard in response to the public outcry.

Ten is the age of criminal responsibility. They were 9.

Rosscameasdoody · 30/07/2024 14:28

Devonbabs · 30/07/2024 14:22

Actually, yes I would.

At 16 you can enlist in the army- are. You suggesting the army jace child soldiers?

At 16 you can get married, are you suggesting we have child brides

At 16 you could legally be in a sexual relationship with a 30 year old, aAre you suggesting the law allows paedophillia?

At 17 you can drive a car.

The current government want to lower the voting age to 16.

I really can’t be arsed with this nonsense any more - your examples don’t make sense and aren’t relevant to anything I’ve said. The law is there for a reason. You can’t dick about with it based on what kind of crime the suspect has committed. The age of adulthood is 18, so the suspect is a minor, and like it or not he has to be treated according to the law, which is there to protect all suspects irrespective of what they are accused of, until they are charged and a judge lifts reporting regulations. Nothing to do with when they can marry, drive a car or be in a sexual relationship. And by the way, 16 year olds can’t get married. It’s 18.

blacklippy · 30/07/2024 14:29

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I’ve seen people say that non of these comments are meant badly that it is just them blowing off steam, in other words boys will be boys. It’s just dismissed as not a real threat and even when attacks like this happen and I understand we don’t yet know the full story but even when we know it was driven by bigoted hatred of girls and women just for existing nothing is done about it.

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