Human remains found in search for Jay Slater

[davegrohll]

No more in information as of yet. His poor family

Exactly... but I never compared Keith's and Jay's DEATHS I said I'm glad Jay's mom won't have to wait years n years to bury her son like poor Keith bennets mom... I'm strictly talking about giving a FUNERAL I'm not bother if you dont get what I'm saying. I meant thank god she's not waiting years to have her sons remains returned.

What's gratuitous about saying (pretty much) it must be awful never knowing where a loved ones body is but at least one family now knows?

Thank you Jay's at important to hes mom as Keith was to hes all I said was I'm glad she didn't stuffed years of torment being unable to plan a funeral. Didn't ever compare deaths and used Keith as an example of a missing remains as I know Britain knows him. I was saying she's luckily found him before years of torment.

@paywalled Give it a rest. Your faux outrage over the poster mentioning Keith Bennett is disrespectful.

Good grief, can’t believe the thread has been hijacked to discuss keith bennet and someone even posting a link.

back to the thread, i think it’s good he’s been found, gives his parents closure, and it does look like it’s what his friend said. He slipped and died. A sad sad outcome, but hopefully it was quick and he didn’t suffer.

I have a son the same age and I just don't know how you even begin to process something like this.

When you have no choice you have no choice.

I knew what you meant and understood. I think with an emotive subject sometimes people get worked up, no fault of yours if they don't understand what you meant. I have two teenage boys and believe me I would be absolutely in bits even if they made a mistake. I love my children more than anyone on this planet, including my own parents.

Did your parents used to yell at you like this? Or someone else? It’s not on.

What shot are you not giving away? I hope it's rum 🙂 thank you all I knew I wasn't being insane x

Haha! My username is a line from the musical Hamilton, I'm rubbish at alcohol shots!

This was my first thought, hopefully it was a quick death. The thought of the poor lad lying there any length of time, hoping to be found, is a horrific one.

When he'd first gone missing, I speculated (nothing mean, but speculation nonetheless) on an earlier thread about the circumstances. I feel awful about that, lesson learnt, and it's not something I'll do again; his family have had to endure all this online speculation on top of their son being missing.

More likely to be Christian Brueckner. Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence. Sadly, he may be freed next year.

Not sure why all the drama for a pp mentioning KB.
I knew what they meant.

There is no closure for a dead child as many on here will know. It doesn't leave you.

However, parents of missing (presumed dead) children are left in limbo. Indeed, in the press there have been families empathising with Jay's family who have still not found their relatives after they disappeared e.g. Ricky D'Cotta and Kevin Ainley.

Corrie McKeague's body was never found.
Ben Needham's body was never found.
Whilst there are suppositions as to what happened to them, their mums went through hell and back.

Peter Wilson's Mum talked of the shock of relief that after two years, they could at least bring him home.

Jack O'Sullivan is still missing.
A 77 year old man, Mike, is currently missing.

So although closure may be the wrong word, at least Jay's Mum will not be living in false hope. She won't be in limbo.

RIP Jay.
It is sad for all concerned.

@ttsundoko -.I imagine they Will use the money to bring their son home where they can lay him to rest and some to keep them going while they take a min to recover from losing their son and having their family dragged through the mud by the media and online 'experts'.

Thank you! I seen the argumentative poster do similar to somebody else twisting what they said! Never ever did I compare the deaths there's zero comparison. If she's got anything else to say then 🫵🖕 plenty of lovely members got what I was saying x

No, they'll move onto the next current thing to get views (and money) over.

Trump 'faking' the assasintion attempt seems to be the hot one atm.

Yes, it won’t be cheap.

Thanks for explaining

It is not the same situation at all. Michael Mosely a well respect Dr became ill in the heat and was found within a few days. The young lad has been missing a month after allegedly trying to walk an 11 hr walk and having been in the company of some pretty dodgy characters linked to drugs as well as accusations of theft and have been involved in criminal activity back home.
His family will at least get some closure - it must be terrible not knowing.

@lto2019 They had very different lifestyles thats for sure. But do you not just think the lesson that should be learned here is how dangerous it can be to be walking alone in a hot country and take a wrong turn? I honestly don't think there's anything more to his death than misadventure/accident. Same as the Moseley case. They both deserve sympathy.

Young and fit people don't fall?!?!?

You clearly do NOT know Tenerife.

@Taxingtaxhelp Also I'd say if he'd not eaten for a couple days, nor slept, and had no water he'd not be 'fit and healthy'. After a couple of hours walking uphill in that heat you'd be delirious and weak as a newborn?! He'd never been abroad before, even experienced hikers and stuff consider that area to be hardcore.

Of course the guardia civil are not ''in on this''. They looked for him in an area that is full of loose rubble, full of rough plants, and steep with a gradient of .6 kilometre and cold at night