I'm really sorry to hear this @Beemoth . It must be so distressing for your family.
And it's why I hate threads like this.
I fully accept that people genuinely feel concern and interest, and know that it's human nature to discuss and speculate. But people don't seem to see the difference between face to face discussion and publishing their thoughts and speculations on an Internet forum.
A random thought or opinion voiced over a cup of coffee disappears. When it's shared online it reaches millions and stays forever. There's a difference.
I think it feeds the destructive culture of "opinions matter more than facts"
There are opinions on this thread about the actions of MM, his wife, friends, the man in the other cctv clip, the people searching etc etc. And all without knowing the facts of the situation.
I think it feeds the notion that if it's ok to speculate and comment on a person's life on a forum then it's ok to comment and speculate on a person's life on social media and leads to bullying.