If you could say just one sentence to a person that you’ve never been able to…

[Arlanymor]

… what would it be?

I’ll go first: “You didn’t make a noble sacrifice, you went back to a relationship where you are used and abused in front of your children who will see this dysfunction as the ‘model’ for their future relationships. Wake the fuck up.”

Me too 😁.

@Strawberryfruitloaf sending hugs

Oh fuck off you stupid fucking cunt

I'm not going to raise your affair child with you. You can't expect me to. My nieces and nephews will always be my priority.

I know someone like this

You're a manipulator who always uses people as pawns in your game so that you win.
Eyes will open one day and you'll end up very lonely,

Why was your brother the most important person in your life? He was an alcoholic and you were his enabler.
Your children's voices weren't heard if it was something against him- you only loved us on the condition we loved him like you did. That's not a mothers unconditional love.
And it's not good enough.

I'd tell you I absolutely love the bones of you, always did and always will. And I know I told you when you were capable of understanding but I hope you remember sometimes, the odd times when the clouds of your dementia lift.

To my Girl Guides:
You are all lovely girls but could you please shut the fuck up and stand still for the first and last 5 minutes of every meeting and listen. The 2 who are diagnosed with adhd can manage, why can't the rest of you? You wouldn't last a week in a British school.

Your husband who you think is amazing and you pander to and go on about in such a smug way, abused me when I was a little girl.

You demonstrate zero strategic leadership and are running this organisation in to the ground with your poor decision making based on your hubris.

you have no regard for your employees and you are a rude, ignorant, self promoting piece of work.

And on a personal level brush your hair once in a while and try to dress in a manner befitting someone of your position, rather than looking like a burst sofa

I never learned to swim. That, literally, is the one thing missing in my life. I’m retired but busier than ever and I LOVE it. I’ve waited a long time to feel this content but I recognise it for what is might be “fleeting” so I embrace every single, smile, hug, kiss, joke, pratfall, the lot

I will be a swimmer (and I care not if it’s only doggy paddle) by December 2024 as the Caribbean Sea has my name on it (winter break to visit relatives) 😂

Thank you for sticking up for me, Angela. You're the only one who ever did.

I fought for you, took care of you and loved you like you were my own, so for you to say publicly that "nobody ever cared" about you was like a knife through my heart.

I hope those of you who've shared feel some release. Some of these posts are breaking my heart. I'm not ready to even type mine as I don't know whether I'll stop and it'll all come out.
💔

It's not that you can't, it's that you don't want to bother and you don't want to bother because you are lazy and selfish.

You might at least say sorry.

Stop thinking with your genitals, grow up and prioritise your kids, not your partner.

Also, they're not the love of your life, you know the only person you really love is yourself.

You don't deserve to have a close relationship with me and we're never going to have one.

Why are you horrible to the people who love you and you should love most, everyone else sees you as a calm, quiet man but they are so wrong. You're a coward picking on the easiest targets, and no I couldn't give a fuck that you're "hungry" "tired" whatever, stop excusing your outbursts and admit you've got an anger problem and go to therapy.

That’s 2 sentences

"It's an incredible invention but if you share it thus will destroy the planet and be responsible for the deaths of species and people" To several people.
Oh and "I'm really sorry" to ther boyfriend I had when I was 17.

It's not all about you all the time !

I wish I could say that without completely torpedoing a long standing friendship group.

I have 2 -
#1 You are the worst boss I've ever had. You are so horrible to everyone, we all hate you. i know you're stressed but I don't need to hear constantly in our 1:1s about how bad our team is. I actually despise you. I know your contract ends at the end of June and if it gets extended beyond that I will lose the plot.

#2 I was the last thing your ever wanted,. but the best thing you never had.