If you could say just one sentence to a person that you’ve never been able to…

[Arlanymor]

… what would it be?

I’ll go first: “You didn’t make a noble sacrifice, you went back to a relationship where you are used and abused in front of your children who will see this dysfunction as the ‘model’ for their future relationships. Wake the fuck up.”

Your wife had a lucky escape when she died and since you're a Catholic and believe in hell I hope you burn in it for eternity.

I feel desire for you I never knew was possible and the fact I can't have you is killing me inside

Im still furious that you left me alone to miscarry our child on my own, and when i went a bit off the rails you didnt explain this to your mates. So now when i see you with them they look at me like im a crazy bitch and i know they dont know the full story. But if i were to tell them, i'd look even more crazy. So im stuck being the crazy bitch, while you get away scott free.

Your children are not your possessions.

To my DF he who took his own Life when we were Teens.

"We're worth sticking around for, I promise ❤️"

You were the first person to break my heart and I've never been the same since.
I hate you for not trying to hold on more but I love you so much because you were my best friend and my only person. When you died you left me all alone with nothing. Everyone rallied around mum because she lost a son but no one really thinks how it feels to lose a brother. No one wants to play with you and at school all you are is the little girl with the dead brother

You are a pampered entitled controlling over indulged hypocritical inflexible cow who has single handedly lowered morale to below the floor it was at before you got here. And by the way the only reason you got the job is because nobody else applied and senior management were desperate. I just hope you get seen through before you kill someone.

You didnt fight for me, for us, you bullied and manipulated everything including my children. You were wrong, you broke me. BUT now I am stronger, I am loved and cared for. You are not happy and now know what grief feels like.

The common denominator of all your failed friendships is you. Your husband is a doormat, your daughter is a nasty bully, and you have a problem with alcohol and are the nastiest bitchiest cunt I have ever met…. and your makeup looks shit!

@Arlanymor Wow thanks, that was great to get out. Great thread.

You are the best big brother in the world, I love you, please don’t die and leave us with a huge hole in our lives 💔.

Probably just my dead parents to tell them how much I love them and I miss them, particularly to my mum who died many years ago.

To my beautiful granddaughter, you broke my heart by walking away, I miss you everyday and live in hope, remember " sometimes words have two meanings "
To my cruel, heartless and selfish daughter, I won't forget what you have done and taken from me " How could you "!!

I think you are an absolute hypocrite- you preach the importance of doing what you say you are going to do and being "kind" as part of your literal job and yet you dont do it yourself. How can you seriously lecture others about this when you dont even do it yourself?! Dont you even realise how hypocritical this is? You insufferable twat.

That felt good :)

I would have flipped my life upside down for you, but in reality you weren't good enough for me.

Joseph, I'm so sorry my darling and if I had a time machine I would go back 10 years and change my decision. I should have found out more, been braver and fought for you 💔

You are a bitter, nasty, empty-headed woman and my life is so much better without you in it. And by the way, your husband is gay.

Dad, I'm sorry that we didn't get more time.

You were a fantastic parent and I only have good memories of being safe and cared for by you.

I see a lot of you in my sister.

DH shares your sense of mischief and humour.

I wish you could meet him, and Dsisters DH.

They are wonderful men who have given 100% to our family.

You have 3 wonderful grandchildren.

Mum hasn't always made good decisions around husband 2 but she is very strong and a survivor. You two were clearly soul mates and I hope you can find each other again, if there is a life beyond.

To a friend,

Please don't take your own life. You are so loved. Your boys need you.
Not having a mum anymore will break their hearts.

You just talk far too much - and you never listen, you just wait for the other person to stop talking so you can start again.

You can't keep on running home to mum and dads every time you and your partner have a row, it's making Mum sick with worry, you are 39 years old with a child, make up your mind.

Your attempts at conversation and relating to others centre around yourself. You are utterly, mind numbing my boring and we all wish you'd shut up and go away. Or develop some emotional intelligence.

I'm so sorry I left you, I should have took you with me.

What you did to me when I was a child WAS emotional and at times physical abuse

You are just like your mother. You clearly have mental health problems and I am fed up of your hysterics, tantrums, sulking and selfish behaviour. My sibling and I don’t have any happy memories of our childhood and you are an absolute nightmare!!!