So so so shit

[NooNakedJacuzziness]

Waiting for my Dad to die and I can't do this. Pancreatic cancer spread to liver, he's so uncomfortable and they can't do anything to help him now. This is beyond distressing - you would put an animal to sleep. Just wanted to vent - he doesn't deserve it.

- what a club to be in eh?

Hoping for a peaceful night for you all

Dad passed away in the early hours of this morning. It was peaceful in the end and the bloody hiccups finally went away. We were with him.

I just want to thank every single one of you who took the time to post and offer support, advice and their own experiences - it helped so much at a horrendous time.

I'm off to sleep for a week now. Thanks again lovely people

Sending love OP ❤️

so sorry OP, my thoughts are with you and your family x

So sorry for your loss OP, get some rest now and look after yourself lovely 💐

Sending you a massive hug. I'm glad to hear that it was peaceful.
Be kind to yourself.

RIP to you Dad. You did him proud being there with him til the end. I'm glad it was peaceful in the end.

16 days from diagnosis to death - it's madness.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

You're story sounds very similar to my mum - mumsnet kept me going the final few hours too.

Love and strength to you x

I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you’ve got people around you that can care for you as lovingly as you have cared for your father. If you need additional support with how you’re feeling, especially in light of how quickly it’s all happened, you can contact Cruse bereavement support.

You did so good for your dad op and made sure his last days were comfortable. Deepest condolences to you and your family.

My heartfelt condolences to you all .
It's so little time to come to terms with things.
Sending a massive hug you have done so well by him and I hope that brings you the comfort it should .

So sorry for your loss. It only seems like yesterday we were going through the same.

I'm so sorry for your loss, but I am glad it was peaceful at the end and you were with him. I wish you and your family so much peace, comfort, and healing. You've done something incredibly hard to ease his passing and been so, so strong for him. Deepest condolences, I hope you can have some good rest now

So sorry op :(

I’m so sorry for the loss of your darling Dad. I’m glad you were with him and it was peaceful.

So sorry for your loss.

Sorry for your loss. What a crazy time you've had.

sending gentle hug, and do allow yourself to sleep now secure in the knowledge that you did all you could to ease his path
and then sending you energy to deal with the admin
when you are overwhelmed remember there are friends here you can lean on

Sorry for your loss, TG he had a peaceful passing. All the very best to you all xx

I'm so sorry @NooNakedJacuzziness 💐. You are bound to be in shock at the speed.

My Nana had 10 weeks from diagnosis and that was hard enough. A relative by marriage was diagnosed on the Monday and died the Friday. So shocking.

Had a similar experience with my lovely partner including the incurable hiccups: it is hell on earth. After he died I felt such relief that his suffering was at an end, you must allow yourself to feel the same. May your lovely Dad now be at peace and may he be reaping the rewards of what I am sure was a good life well lived. Look after yourself, and if your loved ones still living want to look after you then let them, you deserve it. And let your grief out properly, don't do as I did and keep it all in. Sixteen months later I am still not right. Much love to you and 🌹for your darling Dad.

Thanks @TheTeaCosyofDoom - today feels so wrong, people acting like it hasn't happened and making dumb conversation. His body was taken away too quickly although I know it has to be done

sorry for your loss op my stepson died aged 35 within a few weeks of being told he had pancreatic cancer he went down very quickly He was cremated last week